Girls do you prefer a guy to "cold approach" or to warm approach? (Page 2)

Adam_INTJ · 2020-02-05T01:51:34Z

I consider a cold approach to be when a guy expresses romantic interest upon meeting a stranger. My general idea of a cold approach opening introduction goes something like "Hi, I'm [name]. This is kind of random, but I thought that you were cute and wanted to meet you." Followed by a conversation (if she's interested to get to know him) or some reason that she needs to leave/rejection (if she's not interested in getting to know him). I consider a warm approach to be when a guy expresses romantic interest AFTER becoming acquainted with the girl a bit first (maybe over the course few minutes, maybe across the course of a few days or more). Which do you prefer? Guys, I'd also love to hear about your experiences in using these approaches.

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Hayttp1580 Follow
Xper 1 Age: 38

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Feeling like a piece of meat isn’t very nice.

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- Adam_INTJ
  
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  Could you expand on that? I didn't reference hooking up, so I'm not sure what you're describing that to.
  
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- Hayttp1580
  
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  Being overly obvious that’s your interested isn’t nice and girls know the difference
  
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- Adam_INTJ
  
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  Know the difference between what?
  
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- Darknut
  
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  Can a woman really pickup on if you like her not? This woman happens to be my meal ticket.. I've been noticing some behavior change lately. I know shouldn't entertain it and i know all the pitfalls and perils and the apparent taboo of a workplace but really I think she likes me.
  
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- GreatnessBack
  
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  Damn right, I want to feel like the WHOLE meat!!!
  
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- Darknut
  
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  @GreatnessBack feeling like a piece of meat who said anything like that? People putting thoughts and words in their mouths when there wasn't I don't think, an issue to begin with? 😒
  
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- Jamie05rhs
  
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  "the whole meat" LOL. That's actually pretty deep if you think about it. And I agree.
  
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Anonymous
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Most women hate men and don't want them to talk to them at all.

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Gatman34 Follow
Xper 7 Age: 26

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Guys need to quit chasing at all

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Dinklex3 Follow
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I prefer warm approach :)

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Nikki1989 Follow
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I don't know, surprise me. Either is OK.

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- Adam_INTJ
  
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  Why assume that romantic means lewd? I'm a Christian, so when I'm talking about being romantic, I'm talking about emotional intimacy, not sex. I'm not going to have sexual activity until I'm married.
  
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- Adam_INTJ
  
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  Ih shoot, that reply was for someone else.
  
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Dnice1 Follow
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Warm of course! The warmer the better!

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CT_CD Follow
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They like both if the guy is hot

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ArmyBlink Follow
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I really prefer the cold approah

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- Alex_988_2
  
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  so you would fuck any guy casually?
  
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- Jamie05rhs
  
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  No one said anything about fucking, @Alex_988_2 .
  
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- Jamie05rhs
  
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  Also, she's 13. Have some respect.
  
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- Adam_INTJ
  
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  Yeah alex, chill the fuck out
  
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- Alex_988_2
  
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  @Jamie05rhs i didn't see her age...
  but anyway @ArmyBlink can answer
  
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larrylaz Follow
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It all depends on the mode and the type of gal.

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SeanshterMonster Follow
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The hell are those?

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