My date bailed on me. What do you think?

[beldath]

A little backstory first. We started talking Saturday. We were having a good conversation, and she asked if I wanted to go out Friday. Due to me having my kid that day I asked if we could do it a different day and she suggested today.

We both seem to be in a fairly similar situation with where we are in our dating lives. (been single for a while, hesitant to try it, and finally getting out there to see if that's what we want)

The last message I got from her was just before 9pm, and I'd left our conversation with a general getting to know each other question. I didn't hear from her all day. I didn't want to seem pushy.
3pm today (Wednesday) rolls around, and I decide to text to see if we were still on for today.

I got this response back a few minutes, "Hi! Rain check. I'm sick I think all the stress that I have. I'm so sorry. I been coughing a lot."

Do you think it's legit?

I was thinking it could be because she could have just ghosted like most people do these days.
Then I popped over to the dating app we met on while typing this to see when exactly we started chatting, and now her profile is suddenly gone.

So now I'm unsure, and leaning towards ghosting.

[bjstew]

Until you have a solid proof , never judge someone based on others , especially in relationships, sounds legit to me, she might be sick for real, so please suck it up and show some care and support to her during the sick period, give her the benefits of doubt on this one, try to fix another date after she gets well, if she bails on you , then and again... there you go then , you have a real proof she is bailing with flimsy excuses...

[MannySimms]

No pluses and all minuses, right? I've always used a point system in issues like this. She's in negative numbers with little hope of recovery. I'd move on with no further contact from you. Would you want a relationship with someone like this? I wouldn't.

[beldath]

Well here's the thing. Generally our texts are sporadic. Like once an hour because we're busy. Then we go through sections where there is a lot of texting, then back to normal.
I do agree that she's in the negatives, and I probably should move on.
We have texted a little today, and she's up for rescheduling. Just waiting on a yay or nay on my suggestion.

I'm wanting to see if there will be any connection on the date because we have a lot of similar goals. (and she's hot)

[Avicenna]

She ghosted you. Sorry, dude