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Ok so let's get this in context
Why is any man going to invest in any form of long term relationship with any woman when he knows that two things are always true.
First she can choose from a long line of men and she doesn't have to invest nearly half as much into any relationship that he does because he knows she can always keep him on the back burner while she looks for somebody better.
Second no matter what she says he has to take the first statement as true no matter how much he wants to believe otherwise.
Given those two things then, why do you think a man is going to settle, if a woman can look for always better and never settle then welcome to equality and don't expect men to settle either.
Now if you expected to have your freedom but expected that you don't have to abide by traditional dating rules then women have no rights to expect that men will hold to those standards either, fair is fair.
Now then do men regret ghosting, maybe some do and maybe some don't, I suppose that it's no different to asking the same question of women, but furthermore then why should any man regret ghosting if he isn't supposed to settle for good enough just like any woman then ghosting is just a way of saying you aren't good enough and he's now doing better, again this is no different to the mentality that women are being brainwashed with daily so therefore you got exactly as you wanted and welcome to the brave new equal world women have been demanding for generations.
You should be happy
I dated someone, it was really fun. But he was already a really different person from me. When I stayed the night. Out of nowhere. I got introduced to half the family. Including the grandma that didn't even speak my language. Scored some points by being able to respond in Chinese in a couple sentences. But the night after he packed his bags and told me he was going to Switzerland for an undetermined time because I had also met his dad. It was weird. He was cute. But jeez. It was one big can of worms.
They might, but I doubt it. I think it's pretty rare. Usually people ghost because there simply isn't enough interest and they can't be bothered with telling you face-to-face, or they're worried about how you'll react (they don't want to make you angry/sad/let you down) so the easiest and laziest option is to just ghost. And because of their lack of interest, it's unlikely that they'll give it a second thought or regret it later. Interest doesn't just magically appear out of thin air, especially if you're not in contact with that person anymore.
No. There's usually a reason behind why a guy ghosts us: he found someone else, he lost interest, or he wasn't sure how to tell you he wasn't into you, so he was a cowardly ass and ghosted you.
Don't let it get to you. Some people are just disrespectful and rather than say, "I've lost interest in you" they take the coward's way out by ignoring or ending contact with you. It's NOT a reflection of you! Remember that.
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Unfortunately, this dude was a douche. Move on to a better one. This one cared nothing... most likely he had other options. The only time he will regret is if she or they dont work out. Or, his options become less. If he tries coming back. Just dust him back... let him wonder about you. But, dont give him a chance in your life. He thinks your ground beef when you are the juicy perfect steak. Do not let this person's opinion make you feel less. You are not less. He is!
I’m gonna be honest
Not as more then friends no
I’ve been ghosted by girls who were very friendly but in the end did not want to associate after finding out I was interested in more and I have ghosted girls for the same reason so no most of the time they ghost you cause they can and they want to they don’t regret it
I don't think he's ghosting you. I think that he is keeping distance from you for a short amount of time, because there are some things in his life that he's trying to solve and he needs to be by himself at this moment. But at the time he's done he would have missed you so much and he would be ready to get back to you with a stronger love than before
I regret it all the time
See we guys are not cold we are completely available sometime and sometimes we’re completely offline
Sometimes we’re so involved into our lives that we completely forget about texting or social media for instance
I regret that I’ve done that to many people and I apologise for that
Don’t worry it’s not like he has found someone maybe he’s just gotten into something
Don’t wait tho move on and find someone who prioritizes you the most
Well im sorry that happened. There is no way to be certain why he stopped contacting you.
I have ghosted someone before but it was because she was annoying and there is no point in telling her I'm no longer interested in speaking when I can just stop texting her.
Seems like guys are cold? So are you saying no women do this lol? 😂
People do what they do, unless you ask him you won't know. He could have had am emergency, maybe his girlfriend caught him, maybe found someone else thought you weren't worth it anymore or maybe he's just busy with life. Doesn't seem like you have known him long enough to know him and decide his intentions are negative.
I've only ever Ghosted one Lady , she came on way to strong, saying she "Loved" everything I did, too clingy, always texting me, "where are you,? what are ya doing? Hun,? Hun? Answer me?""" After I'd ghosted her, seems like she did a 180, I contacted her about 3 months later, and she was just meh, !
Came to find out , she was taking Oxycontin and valium with antidepressants, !
I just recently got ghosted by a friend i felt the same way. Why would she do that? I think it sucks. I didn't deserve it. I would prefer her to tell me bye but instead she had no manners. If you want to make a friend share in our hurt feelings pm me.
There are many guys that leave a relationship that is going well, simply because the sex hasn't happened yet. They will blow you off and pursue someone else, then when things don't go as expected, they may reflect on what they had and regret it. No one can tell you how this guy is feeling, only he can answer that.
If he ghosted you without any good reason than I don't think it's worth thinking about the guy any further tbh. Yes, he could have plenty of reasons to do so but ghosting someone is just rude in my opinion, at least have the balls to say what's up ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Just like females. most likely not.
Unfortunately do they lack maturity on that point and proper social skills.
Be glad you didn't have anything more to do with that person. they always have other unpleasant behavior attached to that.
Exactly what @boggboss said.
He probably got bored, the initial excitement was dead. And no most guys dont care, they are more logical then emotional. But like the other guy said, he will care when he gets bored, and he’ll be back
I’m going through the same thing with a girl. She hasn’t answer none of my text in the last two weeks. I wonder if she was just bored and liked the attention I gave her? I wonder if she will come back because the last couple of times she did.
i ghost girl a girl i love 6months ago because i felt i was annoying her too much with my jelousy of other guys, i didn't wanna piss her off any more so i thought its better if i jus leave and go from her life,
even tho we know each other for like 2 or 3 years and was really good friends,
yes i miss her and i still love her and still think of her, but... i can't keep pissing her off, i have to move on :(
I'm not a guy but if i ghost someone it's because I care so little about this person that I can't even be bothered giving an explanation or answer the person's texts/calls
He will miss the attetion you gave him when he gets bored and other options dry up then he will come back untill he finds other women
Probably but rather than to think winder it hope this guy regrets his actions, make your own action and move on. Dwelling or waiting won’t help you.
I don't know. Ghosting is cowardly and rude. I wouldn't care what they think because I couldn't respect anyone that behaved in that manner.
I was a doormat for the last woman. I got tired of being used so I just ghosted her.
If you got ghosted - you deserved it. Try to think what stupid, senseless or inconsiderate think you did to drive him away so don't do the same foolish mistake next time.
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