When is a guy serious and when is he playing?

[stephh98]

I met a guy on Hinge last week. We talk every day. Today I asked him if he’s got any plans for the weekend. He told me that he doesn’t have plans so he’s probably going to repair some things in his house. Obviously I was hoping to meet up, but I want him to ask me out (since I already asked for his number etc, I feel like it’s his turn now AND I’m pretty traditional).

Talking every day for a week and not getting asked out seems weird to me. Guys, is he just playing or should I give him more time? I want to meet someone who’s generously interested in me and who really wants to see me, so I don’t want to ask him what’s up or anything already.

[whatsupbuttercup]

If a man isn't interested in you... you'll know.. He won't be texting you first or reaching out. Men don't make time for women they aren't interested in. He might just be feeling the relationship out. And if you really wanna go out with him, then just ask. 🤷‍♀️ It's 2020 for fucks sake.

[boggboss]

The only one playing games here seems like you you want to go out with him but you want him to ask u out and because he had not you now need to rationalise a reason for this so ofc he is the one that not serious

[poneglyphs]

I don't think he's playing around, I think he's serious but doesn't know if you're interested in him?

[EYAD_14]

A guy isn't called a player unless he uses you for sex... one week is too short give him a chance he might have a slightly different plan than your expectations