Yeah because that’s how it works idiot. Self sabotaging is associated with a number of things. Past trauma, childhood experience you can’t just stop because it’s a psychological issue.
He’s right. Blunt but right. Now that she sees her pattern and what she’s doing, she halfway there. Now she needs to decide to stop... counseling will be a great tool to discover why and how to deal with the anxiety she probably feels and why she won’t accept good things. But it’s not just going to happen without a lot of work and effort and self discovery on her part. It’s like an alcoholic choosing not to drink every day... she needs to not listen to her negative thoughts and to choose to trust again. Because not every man is her ex that caused her distrust issues.
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Simple... stop choosing to.
Yeah because that’s how it works idiot. Self sabotaging is associated with a number of things. Past trauma, childhood experience you can’t just stop because it’s a psychological issue.
He’s right. Blunt but right. Now that she sees her pattern and what she’s doing, she halfway there. Now she needs to decide to stop... counseling will be a great tool to discover why and how to deal with the anxiety she probably feels and why she won’t accept good things. But it’s not just going to happen without a lot of work and effort and self discovery on her part. It’s like an alcoholic choosing not to drink every day... she needs to not listen to her negative thoughts and to choose to trust again. Because not every man is her ex that caused her distrust issues.
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