Girls, would you date a male nurse?

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Why or why not? Pros and Cons?

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

Yes!!! I have no issues dating a guy nurse. We have several at my job and they are very good at what they do-

They're not effeminate, weak, and take pride in what they do. Some of the male nurses are usually the first ones to rush to a code or critical situation and take the lead!
My boss is a RN with a Masters, so he not only is capable of working on the unit (tele and ICU), but he also teaches nursing students and our coworkers as well!

I would love to date one. Not just because he's a nurse, but since we both work in hospitals, we can share stories, vent, and talk about our day with each other... especially with this virus going on right now.

CapricornHoney · Accepted Answer

If I liked him I would. I would assume he’s caring and compassionate based on his choice of career so that would be a plus.

sejla · Answer

I think I'd be afraid I'd might lose him like a firefighter or a police officer. I'd have to think on that one.

Post Note:
My daughter is entering nursing school next fall and it's got me a bit unnerved. The only good thing is I know the school is careful and pulled the students out of the hospitals right away. I knew nursing was going to be hard but I guess I forgot about it being possibly deadly.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I would love to - what could be more attractive than an athletic guy who devotes his entire life to helping the needy?

Hannibal_Lecter · Answer

Nothing wrong with dating a nurse female or male.
Pros: I'm very accident prone having a nurse around is beneficial. They'll be highly intelligent. They'd be nurturing caring and have never ending patience.
Cons: They work long hours and they're around sick people. I could catch it (unlikely). They won't have much time to spend with me. They'd probably be tired of talking and being around people by the end of the day.

It's like how women don't really want to date a gynecologist. They see vaginas all day long when they come home all they wanna do is not look at another vagina. Your sex life takes a serious hit.

normalice · Answer

Pros: free health advice, job security, a profession that tends to attract people who are concerned for the well being of others

Cons: chaotic working hours, potentially the most stressful job in existence, resentment of the tacit assumption that male nurses are subservient to male doctors, female dominated profession which slightly increases the opportunity to be unfaithful (though if the only thing preventing a guy from being unfaithful is lack of opportunity, that's a problem that has nothing to do with his profession).

KeziL · Answer

i respect what they do and i have nothing against them being male and a nurse. it's just that people in the medical field don't have free time. by the time a man would reach the age to actively be a nurse, out of medical school and all, i'd be looking for the person i want to marry (if i hadn't already found them, i wanna get married young). i'd want a person i marry to be present, and have time to build and raise a family with me, and just nurse's hours aren't conducive to that. it isn't the be all end all, if i really love them anything can slide, but they aren't who i'd be going for

EGarzona · Answer

I dated a male nurse for years and he was very attentive and nurturing. One time i cut my finger at work and he came and cleaned my cut (which was very tiny) and put the biggest bandaid over it. He was really intouch with his inner child so he was funny and playful and had an innocence to him. He was also incredibly intelligent and kind. He treated everyone with respect and had a way with people where they felt comfortable. Probably the nicest man I've ever been with. May god rest his soul he died from a heart attack in his sleep unexpectedly (we were still together when he died). His heart was enlarged due to some genetic issue.

Konabeana · Answer

I wouldn’t just date him because he is a nurse, there are a lot of factors to consider when it comes to my preferences and expectations for a s/o. One of them being that my potential s/o needs to be compassionate and driven. It really depends, but if this is a stigma related question about male nurses, I don’t have a problem with dating one at all

katjmj · Answer

Why not? Nurses are naturally caring not to mention, very good with their hands 😆

Wonderer89 · Answer

Maybe... the only reason I’d be hesitant to is the shift worker, but I feel that way about any kind of shift work. If he had a set roster at a time we could spend together (not opposite shifts) then absolutely.

Hannah_98 · Answer

Of course! I’m a nursing school dropout, so I know how hard it can be to even make it through, let alone work as one.

I could see the hours and mental toll creating some potential issues, but I do think it’s a very admirable career.

Flower7 · Answer

Yeah, I would. I would have no problems with that. Some of the pros are that it's a good income and is in the medical field.

HerLucidNightt · Answer

No. People in healthcare have weird ass hours. I could never handle that. Me saying no doesn't have anything to do with the fact he's a nurse.

Jemini_Crocket · Answer

I see no reason why not. He'd probably be more caring as well.

CherryRoseChampange · Answer

If I was single and he was cute. Also had a personality I liked. Hell yeah. 🤤

Levin · Answer

They don't seem to mind when it's a hunky white teethed American as above.

bigmisssunshine · Answer

If he had a nice personality I have nothing against it

newlysingleca · Answer

Why not? It's the person that counts, not what they do.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Probably not because their work hours are terrible and I realised that I prefer someone with a similar work schedule to mine.

Jones_T · Answer

Nursing & teaching is noble professions. If a person select as his/her career. It's a big positive on her to accept her proposal

Anonymous · Answer

That guy 😍 absolute gorgeous. Where do I sign up? 😂

Hazelstar · Answer

If I can have great connection with him. Then why not?

Red_Arrow · Answer

Nurses of either sex are heroes!

1truekhaleesi · Answer

I'm dating a male nurse now.

BlackWidow93 · Answer

I have before... it didn't work out.

fonduegirl · Answer

Sure, not a problem if he's a great lover. ;)

KatherineJ · Answer

Sure, if I was single and into him.

Tally_ho · Answer

Usually caring people. I want that kind of guy

Agem123 · Answer

During this pandemic would be a bit difficult😅

Razal · Answer

that should not be an issue with girls.

Anonymous · Answer

Absolutely.  I love the giving type 😌.

mrhappy69 · Answer

I would

LonewolfMeme · Answer

If u help people yea

WowwGirl · Answer

Nawwwwwww

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