Too many of us, especially in early 20's, can be ruthless sexual predators, who will say or do anything to score quickly and then move onto the next one just as quickly.
putting their boobs/body parts right in guys faces and then saying “he’s coming onto me, show some respect!!” makes me feel bad for guys because in that situation it’s totally unfair
Not being able to do the basic things as an adult. I know I'm not an expert on a lot of things, but I know enough that I don't need to call someone for anything really basic. I mean easy household repairs, laundry, cooking, cleaning, get to work on time, etc. Things everybody should already be experienced at doing.
Jealousy to the point where your partner can't have friends and you ruin their friendships. And even ruin the relationship they have with their family. I hate any gender who does something like that. Especially when they make you choose between them and your family or/and friends. How insecure can someone be to trap their partner in a cage like that? Pisses me off
guys that insult womens in their DMs for not replying... friggin DISGRACEFUL... guys that go after multiple womens at a time... guys that expect sects on the first date or very early in relationships... the entire hook up culture...
That’s happened to me a few times on here and that’s why I’m very careful about who I allow to DM me. I’ve been called some messed up things just because I don’t want to partake in their advances. I understand there’s flirting but then there’s creepy. If I just sent a DM saying “thanks for the follow”, don’t immediately reply asking fo pictures of me.
@Serenity2014 yeah... that's kinda weird... i'd wanna talk to you for awhile... unless the subject of your looks came up in discussion... XD i still remember that post you forgot to ANONYMIZE
Well i want to say catcalls, sexually suggestive comments. Basically harassment by guys. But a lot of times women allow guys to talk to them like that so while i feel bad for her she doesn't. Go on any dating website and you'll basically hear 80% of the women complain about it. But they just sit there and take it. Anyone with common sense would leave. Which suggests that, any attention is good attention? I think i was born in the wrong era.
Well if i was a woman and a guy said something like that to me he'd get a mouthful of knuckles. And at the very least i'd give him an earful. As far as online i would block them. And if it was as prevalent as most women claim i wouldn't even stay on tbe site. If over 50% are degenerates why expose yourself to that? I thought i was pretty clear, sorry.
Guys who harass women online with comments they wouldn’t say in public, sending unsolicited pictures, asking for nude pictures, and swiping right so to speak on every woman on every app.
I just wish we didn't have a war against each other. Why can't we let men and women do and how ever they want? Instead we judge each other. If men want fuck every girl then who are we to judge and vise versa? I think we should just accept that we are complex human being and shouldn't give each other ego boost while hurting others.
Well now a days the whole feminism thing is bad i think and its making a gap between guys n girls coz guys are getting too careful and try not to be friendly with you n stay formal n that really sucks
@PoppyRain nops i am not against what gives us or anybody freedom to do to be what they are n to be equal above all But i hope you won't be troubled accepting that this whole feminism thing seems to have been hijacked n i think this way it will damage more instead of getting us any benifits
Men being formal and scared to be friendly? Prostitution is a business transaction that’s less intimidating to men than socializing with a woman in the grocery store.
Communal bathrooms in raves etc. When a guy blasts the seat with piss before you go in, and there's a woman in queue behind me, I do not appreciate the catch 22 of (a) cleaning up your piss - something that should have never happened or (b) leaving it for the next person unlucky enough to burst through the door and potentially get blamed for it
Seeeriously. I don't know how women don't call each other out on that more often. When guys do stuff like that to each other, their friends will usually call them out
Girls who go out of their way to hate on short guys. I'm 6'2 and three of my exs (and my current boyfriend) are shorter than me. I see no problem in this but seeing so many girls calling 5'6 guys and under useless is really disgusting. Girls, why?
I hate my fellow men who think of women as objects, those who think girls should serve them just because they are girls and, above all, men who act like the current presidents of every American country below Canada
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Too many of us, especially in early 20's, can be ruthless sexual predators, who will say or do anything to score quickly and then move onto the next one just as quickly.
This always surprises me when these questions come up (and I've seen them several times on GAG) that no one else seems to mention it.
VIOLENCE.
putting their boobs/body parts right in guys faces and then saying “he’s coming onto me, show some respect!!”
makes me feel bad for guys because in that situation it’s totally unfair
A big round of applause 👏👏👏
from me, for acknowledging REAL issue.
Not being able to do the basic things as an adult. I know I'm not an expert on a lot of things, but I know enough that I don't need to call someone for anything really basic. I mean easy household repairs, laundry, cooking, cleaning, get to work on time, etc. Things everybody should already be experienced at doing.
Jealousy to the point where your partner can't have friends and you ruin their friendships. And even ruin the relationship they have with their family. I hate any gender who does something like that. Especially when they make you choose between them and your family or/and friends. How insecure can someone be to trap their partner in a cage like that? Pisses me off
guys that insult womens in their DMs for not replying... friggin DISGRACEFUL...
guys that go after multiple womens at a time...
guys that expect sects on the first date or very early in relationships...
the entire hook up culture...
That’s happened to me a few times on here and that’s why I’m very careful about who I allow to DM me. I’ve been called some messed up things just because I don’t want to partake in their advances. I understand there’s flirting but then there’s creepy. If I just sent a DM saying “thanks for the follow”, don’t immediately reply asking fo pictures of me.
@Serenity2014 yeah... that's kinda weird... i'd wanna talk to you for awhile... unless the subject of your looks came up in discussion... XD i still remember that post you forgot to ANONYMIZE
What post?
@Serenity2014 i think you were asking people why guys didn't like you much eventhough you're nice...
Well i want to say catcalls, sexually suggestive comments. Basically harassment by guys. But a lot of times women allow guys to talk to them like that so while i feel bad for her she doesn't. Go on any dating website and you'll basically hear 80% of the women complain about it. But they just sit there and take it. Anyone with common sense would leave. Which suggests that, any attention is good attention?
I think i was born in the wrong era.
What do you think women should do about it? I don’t understand “leave” when you mention catcalls and dating websites.
Well if i was a woman and a guy said something like that to me he'd get a mouthful of knuckles. And at the very least i'd give him an earful.
As far as online i would block them. And if it was as prevalent as most women claim i wouldn't even stay on tbe site. If over 50% are degenerates why expose yourself to that?
I thought i was pretty clear, sorry.
Guys who harass women online with comments they wouldn’t say in public, sending unsolicited pictures, asking for nude pictures, and swiping right so to speak on every woman on every app.
I just wish we didn't have a war against each other. Why can't we let men and women do and how ever they want? Instead we judge each other. If men want fuck every girl then who are we to judge and vise versa? I think we should just accept that we are complex human being and shouldn't give each other ego boost while hurting others.
Well now a days the whole feminism thing is bad i think and its making a gap between guys n girls coz guys are getting too careful and try not to be friendly with you n stay formal n that really sucks
So you’re against feminists, the very same women who advocate for the legalization of prostitution?
@PoppyRain nops i am not against what gives us or anybody freedom to do to be what they are n to be equal above all
But i hope you won't be troubled accepting that this whole feminism thing seems to have been hijacked n i think this way it will damage more instead of getting us any benifits
Men being formal and scared to be friendly? Prostitution is a business transaction that’s less intimidating to men than socializing with a woman in the grocery store.
@PoppyRain well a prostitute is never going to sue him for harassment or would she lol... just saying
Well i know many of my friends avoiding being social just to be careful n many girls also acknowledge this difference now
But how does it suck for you if it doesn’t effect your life in any way?
@PoppyRain i never came to u complaining i just shared my opinion as others are open to do
And well... say i care for others be it men or women
Sexual manipulation. Using sex to get what they want.
Communal bathrooms in raves etc.
When a guy blasts the seat with piss before you go in, and there's a woman in queue behind me, I do not appreciate the catch 22 of (a) cleaning up your piss - something that should have never happened or (b) leaving it for the next person unlucky enough to burst through the door and potentially get blamed for it
BASIC HYGIENE. SORT. IT. OUT.
The deliberate passive aggressive provocation of other people
Seeeriously. I don't know how women don't call each other out on that more often. When guys do stuff like that to each other, their friends will usually call them out
@winterfox10 I usually don’t just because I am too fucking tired to deal with being cussed out for calling someone out
The level of disrespect some men give towards women is quite disturbing to me sometimes.
Girls who go out of their way to hate on short guys. I'm 6'2 and three of my exs (and my current boyfriend) are shorter than me. I see no problem in this but seeing so many girls calling 5'6 guys and under useless is really disgusting. Girls, why?
At 14 your are as tall as me? Damn!
@angelcupcakes_me 6’2” at age 14? 😱 Do many people mistake you as older?
Short guys, take note!
Right.
You were all very nice to her but I saw this and knew 'she' was lying.
Sounds more like a guy pretending to be a teenage girl.
Her account's closed already, anyway. Apparently the admins found her.
I'll leave this up for a bit so everyone can see, then probably just delete the comment.
I hate my fellow men who think of women as objects, those who think girls should serve them just because they are girls and, above all, men who act like the current presidents of every American country below Canada
Catcalling, groping, flitting in general. Some men are real pigs and they really make me ashamed of being one sometimes.
Women who don't let anyone else have an opinion, even on trivial matters
I always felt bad for men having to deal with women i just find a lot of women annoying because a lot of women are so complicated
nah... womens are wonderful... the complications are part of them tho fact of life
Women’s neediness. How gross. I don’t know how guys put up with it.
These guys are extremely desperate to give women whatever they want so that they can be rewarded with sex. Even after that its not going to happen.
@MzAsh cuz womens are wonderful... but they cost a lot sometimes