What should we tall girls, do to make shorter guys know , we are very attracted to a guy who is shorter than us self?

[Petra150]

As I am very tall and faced problem dating while I where younger, I'd love to hear what a tall girl could do to make it obvious that we do love men all heights. I often felt by right that men shorter than me , were attracted to me but felt that tall girls weren't at all attracted to shorter guys. Now I know a lot of very tall girls including my self who are attracted or at least didn't mind a guy way shorter than herself. Well I know that society norms tell an other versions. A version where girls in all heights despise every guy shorter than them self, and a guy shouldn't try to date a girl taller than himself. And that left all dating topics for the really tall guys and by right made every guy not tall feel totally worthless. And that's effects my and most other really tall women's dating pool enormous , as a file like myself will end up having very few men to choose from, and I just wanted a guy who love me from what I am , I never said I wanted a guy who had to be a TDH Alpha male, or s guy I absolutely needed to be on eyelevel with or in rare cases to look up to. So I ended up always be careful to tell a guy right away that height in s guy was the last thing I'd ever would judge him at. Unfortunately bringing height up as a theme made some guys run away fast, as they automatically thought ( guess after many rejection in the past due to some girls height requirements) I would reject them on height anyway. So it's a hard one. Finally when I'd found my fiancee , we never really discussed my height or the big height difference is between. Sometimes you just se the flow in there eyes and questions are unnecessary, and I knew right away he were a KEEPER !! That 8,5 years ago. To your info he's 181 cm and I'm 204 cm tall

[Anonymous]

Wow you are really tall no wonder you can’t find any guys taller than you but most guys naturally assume and it’s usually true that tall women want taller guys but in your case you would need to date a basketball player for that to be possible but for short guys to know that a tall girl like short guys then she would actually have to be direct about it

[Opinion Owner]

So you’re 6 foot 8 inches tall and he is 5 foot 11 inches tall, that’s quite a difference, I have never seen a woman that tall in my life so maybe you are from the Amazon or a country that grows very tall women 😊

[Petra150]

Once I really thought about whering a badge telling " I date all kinds of height" but found it to offensive, as men might thought I were desperate, I'd probably were as I ended up dating a guy 154 cm tall , but he showed me that height doesn't matter at all, we stayed together for over two years, and haven't he'd cheated on me , we'd properly still been in relationship. But fortunately I found my fiancee

[Opinion Owner]

Oh ok , well at least that it all worked out for the best

[Petra150]

Oh yes and i did , byt some thought I just were polite and felt my proposal as a joke, mostly because so many of my fellow sisters have treated and still do , guys shorter than themselves horrible. I felt I payed the price for being a very tall girl who love guys shorter than myself, and at the same time it were impossible to find a guy near my ovn height or taller who wasn't a jerk, and I didn't want a guy JUST because he might fit some outrageous society height requirements made up by idiots. Why on earth should tall guys be regarded as better partner when in reality they usually treat us women as shit most of them. And I'll say my choice of partner never were a " Settle" , of often heard even women say to me , that I'd properly found a shorter guy, because a guy my insane height weren't available. Hell NO I'd prefer guys average height they are fantastic b, they are strong and they fit everything fantastic and they are fully Able to protect bud girls , and they usually stay out of trouble. And they are good lovers too, my guy is well endowed too 8-9" is a super size

[Opinion Owner]

Wow that’s interesting, at least you like short guys and he happens to be well hung 😊

[ShadowofRegret]

That could be hard since some guys have it so thoroughly drilled into them that it's almost impossible to reach them.

I think just be open about it, don't hide it, those height obsessed girls you mentioned don't hide their obsession, so don't hide the fact you prefer or don't mind dating shorter guys.

[Avicenna]

Just approach us- some of us love tall women and would love to be approached by them. I once talked to a really tall woman at a trade fair just because I was so attracted to her (she was about 195 cm).

[Petra150]

Super I love so much when people ask me things, and I don't mind them asking my height either, as I tend to forget my height, and as I'm very proud of my height and my look in general , I love telling other people it. And I know people love to talk to me, so why not just be nice to other people, and sometimes I even sit down to chat with someone and I gotten quite a lot of friends by being nice to other. It a dam easy way to connect with people, I'm so happy good created me tall, as I have very easy getting friends, I'd wish more people had my luck, cabd sometimes I get a little embarrassed that us tall women gmhave such an easy life , never facing other problems than finding clothes. So I'd gladly invest time in people who are excited to talk to me. I'm glad to get your story too

[nodnol32]

Tall girls should drop more clear hints maybe? Or just communicate and approach the shorter guys? I and 177 cm tall and I would definitely date a girl taller than me if we connected, height is secondary, connection matters more.

[Petra150]

Funny you mention that, when I were dating I'd more or less thought about a badge say" shorties can ride too" but felt it too outgoing , after all we girls don't wanted to look desperate, but I were , not at all that I were settling with shorties, no rather did I thought about even accept a tall guy my own height as well as a settle , just to get the pleasure, but hell I wouldn't go steady with a tall guy, I'd love my guys shorter , so I could rest my and on his head, and cutle him like a toy boy

[Anonymous]

if you’re attractive, all you have to do is make the first move.
as men we have been shut down in such harsh ways by so many different types of women that we can bother trying anymore so if you want a guy... literally tell him.
not this fake roundabout bullshit either directly mention that you like him

guys are way less likely to shut you down then you are to shut him down

[JCT666]

I don't think you need to do much other than making the first move yourself, because the vast majority of women find short men unattractive, therefore we naturally assume women even an inch taller would not be open to dating us.

[Rucket21]

Just be friendly and confident. If you're friendly, only an idiot will be turned off by your height.

[Petra150]

Thanks that true, and noticed that 135 cm of legs you can't bet them ha ha , them I don't like I simply step over and concentrate on them who like me

[WonderingManII]

Be kind and caring to the men your life. Tall or short. When they realize you are good and easy going person to be around, they will become more attracted to you.

[poneglyphs]

Aww this is so sweet. I get rejected lot because I'm 160 cm. A lot of short girls don't like me but I don't know any tall girl's. I guess is to flirt with them and be clear of your intentions.

[Handysandy69]

I know your super tall but in that case youd just have to be a bit more forward with it like maybe youd have to approach the guy and start chatting and flirting so there's absolutely no doubt in his mind you like him, he'll get the message

[one1wild00]

If a tall gal likes a guy like all other size gals she should make the first move. It is the 21st century after all.

[AJC997]

Could I message you? Im 5’6 and have always had a thing for tall women. I think it would be quite an experience to date a girl your height

[Petra150]

Live to I'm pretty find of shorties

[berserk945]

I am 6'1 or 185 cm so your still way taller than me but if I thought you were attractive and I liked you I think I would dated you.

[Petra150]

Thank I'm not serving for anyone bid found my life companion who too are way shorter than myself in height and a little lighter too , not much 4-5 kg , but 23 cm in height is quite visible and consider I love to wear 5-7" heels too, you can imagine us together. Him finding a stairway to step up wanting a kiss or me bending a lot for a hig and kiss. While I just kiss him on his top of his head or tap him nice

[berserk945]

Lol. I'm curious, do you have more of a dominant personality? Because of you wearing the 5-7" heels, almost sounds like you enjoy being the bigger person in the relationship lol

[Petra150]

I do andy hobby love IT too

[berserk945]

Lol happy for you!

[JHAYES317]

Tell them. Literally just tell them straight up. The games are annoying frankly.

[wowop99266]

0% of female opinions, that just goes to show you what they think of us short men.

[turnpost]

its about her. tf ouyoyou ahain

[OpenNudist]

Just do the reverse of what minus 6 foot 2 inch guy's do

[andy530]

Be very flirty with us! Make it very obvious you find us attractive

[Anonymous]

204cm, what is that height in feet and inches? I love tall girls.

[Petra150]

6'8 I think

[Opinion Owner]

Amazing and stunning

[Petra150]

Thanks well I haven't achieved anything , it's pretty easy to become tall if you have vertmy tall parents too. My dad is 212 cm tall, my mother 189 cm tall, my little sister 199 cm tall and my brother is a real giant 220 cm tall. So we see a very tall family

[Opinion Owner]

In relationships, why do you think the guy always has to make the first move, be the initiator?

[Petra150]

I absolutely don't think so and I'd always love flirting and be the outgoing part, not many guys dared ask me out. But when I found my life companion , it just happened fast and we both knew bin seconds we were meant for each other

[Petra150]

And height weren't at all somthing we even thought about , well to be honest I were scared about if he'd be turned off by my height when I stood up, but he were a real man, he didn't even mention my height or asked about my height for several weeks, and I'm over a head taller than him

[Opinion Owner]

So you have made the first move or ask a guy out before?

[Petra150]

Many times

[Opinion Owner]

Has making the first move or asking a guy out ever worked out well for you? As in, ever had a boyfriend or relationship in which you were the one who asked him out first or made the first move?

[Petra150]

My present relationship we just saw eachother and , hell we just glow up and the spark in our eyes , no question we were meant for eachother. 3 weeks later we moved together, I think we spend 3 weekends in my apartment big getting dressed at all, just leying in our beds and sat in the sofa, hell we often do still, close us self together.

[Opinion Owner]

You asked him out first?

[Petra150]

Sometimes and sometimes it were us both as when I met my fiancee. We just looked at eachother to a private party with some common friends, and BUM we fell in love and 2 weeks later I moved to his house and we'd never been apart since, that's nearly 9 years ago now

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I've always hated how it is up to the guy to be the initiator

[Cryptic-Game]

I'm 163 cm. So you are far taller than me. I'm 5'4" and you are 6'8". Wow.

[Joker_]

Aw you're such a sweetheart

[Anonymous]

Invite them to motorboat

[chriscdi]

flirt first