dating isn't really done here because it's an arranged marriage type of place, so no one really has an idea or experience in this. im 22, and have never approached a girl before this.
i have been seeing this shy girl 4-5 days a week for the last 10 months now. she did smile at me once, but im not sure if this was meant for me, so i just quickly looked down because im shy. we made lots eye contact after so i took my chance and approached her.
we said hi to each other and i asked her name. i didn’t really know what to say so we just stood there in awkward silence for a few seconds.
this is where it got weird.
i didn’t know what to say i asked her if she didn’t mind that im talking to her, to which she said no, and then i asked her if we could talk for 2 minutes. she said what i wanted to talk about. i froze up, said “never mind”, and left. i feel like my nervousness was obvious to her.
she did seem comfortable so im not sure if she is actually creeped out or not. a day after a friend of hers asked her about it and she said that our convo was normal.
however the next 2 days she started to behave weird. she completely ignored me, not even looking at me, so i didn’t talk to her. however, the next 2-3 days she started to
look at me again, but i didn’t react to it.
i did talk to her once more after that, but it was unrelated to me and her, i had to do some work so i told her that i need some space to do my work. she gave me a stare for like 2 seconds before moving away. i feel like she was expecting another conversation,.
i can see from my peripheral vision that she’ll look when im not looking. she’ll also sometimes check over her shoulder to see if im still in the room.
what's going on?
i have been seeing this shy girl 4-5 days a week for the last 10 months now. she did smile at me once, but im not sure if this was meant for me, so i just quickly looked down because im shy. we made lots eye contact after so i took my chance and approached her.
we said hi to each other and i asked her name. i didn’t really know what to say so we just stood there in awkward silence for a few seconds.
this is where it got weird.
i didn’t know what to say i asked her if she didn’t mind that im talking to her, to which she said no, and then i asked her if we could talk for 2 minutes. she said what i wanted to talk about. i froze up, said “never mind”, and left. i feel like my nervousness was obvious to her.
she did seem comfortable so im not sure if she is actually creeped out or not. a day after a friend of hers asked her about it and she said that our convo was normal.
however the next 2 days she started to behave weird. she completely ignored me, not even looking at me, so i didn’t talk to her. however, the next 2-3 days she started to
look at me again, but i didn’t react to it.
i did talk to her once more after that, but it was unrelated to me and her, i had to do some work so i told her that i need some space to do my work. she gave me a stare for like 2 seconds before moving away. i feel like she was expecting another conversation,.
i can see from my peripheral vision that she’ll look when im not looking. she’ll also sometimes check over her shoulder to see if im still in the room.
what's going on?
