Lol this is ironic.. A guy friend once told me he found a long blond hair wrapped around his penus! he didn't even have a girlfriend and lives alone with his Chrisian mom with dark brown hair.
Stop making an issue out of nothing! have peace and enjoy the guy. Hair gets caught up and transferred so easily and nowadays all women are blond for some reason. Why living like this? if you catch him cheating next month then leave but until then stop harassing the guy. What are you expecting as an outcome of these fights? do you expect him to admit just to shut you up? are you pushing him away to cheat? because apparently the man said he is not cheating and that did not bring him peace with you.
I am not being mean but if you can't trust him then leave and be at peace and let him be too. Otherwise stay and just let the hair thing go. Men rarely admit to cheating anyway so this thing your doing is pointless. And you can't interrogate a man into your arms. Love him and enjoy your relationship and if he cheats bounce! Don't be that insecure crazy lady men always talk about.
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i’m not completely sure. but i think if he was cheating, his housemate would try to cover his ass and avoid the subject as opposed to making jokes about it
When my roommate has a female friend or date coming over, we don't really avoid each other at all costs.
Sometimes, we chill in his room.. Sometimes in my room (that includes my bed, watching TV or playing games).. We eat together.. We sometimes drive around, using my car.. So, of course I sometimes find hairs in my room / car / etc that don't necessarily belong to me.
I'm surprised that the two of you are still a thing. If my girlfriend went nuts about something like this, to the point where she brings it up 20 times, looks through my phone, practically calling me a cheater.. She'd be my ex.
Trust in a relationship is one of the most important things and in you, that's basically non existent.
Being accused of cheating when you don't fucking hurts.. Let me tell you that. If you're right, he's a dick.. Sure. But if you don't know, then don't say stuff like that.
Don't think it's possible to know for sure and I think if you feel like you can't trust him then something needs to change. Without trust there is no reason to have a relationship, I'm not saying to trust blindly though.
You are obviously feeling bad over this and your boyfriend can't really prove his innocence even if he wants to. So it's a tricky situation and I don't think any of us can say what's right to do. The trust issues has to change but how that will happen is up to you and your boyfriend.
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I am a guy who has cheated and this is the part of what you said that makes me think he is not cheating: "He’s very open with his phone, and I’ve gone through everything before and found nothing. He involves me with his family. He always answers his phone no matter when I call him and we text frequently when we aren’t together. " I have lived in a house (as friends) with up to four women with long hair, and it gets everywhere.
With that said, if you think he is deceptive and cruel, why be with him?Trust is important but not an easy thing in 2020. Your being paranoid is not okay, but you ought to be worried. As you have mentioned he seems clean, so you need to play with the benefit of doubt here. Take care and I hope he doesn't betray you. P. S for the friend, keep a check on him, maybe he's, fucking with ya.
''the girlfriend'' and the ''one single hair''
... :D heh heh heeeh
Do you really think that only YOU have been there?
Experience: it doesn't matter what we (the boys) say. Only you will be right; and only you can make a decision how it's going to be continued (or not).
In his favour: yes - there must have been a blonde girl around the place; that does not mean that he had inevitably mounted her.Maybe he’s a cross dresser. Look for the blond wig. Or he’s cheating and you should cut your losses.
You sound like a pain in the ass... hunting for hair, going through his phone, etc. I would dump you in a heart beat.
do he and his roomie wash their clothes together? if so it could partially be hair being transfered from roomie date to roomie to boyfriend via laundry. then add in transfer from the floor and furniture in rest of house.
This is funny, i was putting my coat away the other night and I found 2 long blonde hairs on the arm. My daughters ere dark br plus their hair is no way long enough.
It's amasing how much hair women she'd..stay away from him for a few days. If he is honest with you, he will chase you other wise you will know about it than wasting time.
No need to hasitate talk about that directly if he gets angry may be he is hiding something. After all no one wants to marry cheater or lier you still have time to build your relationship
you goin all CSI on his ass but I don't know what to say lol
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Hair can come from anywhere... it could attach to his shirt at work and get carried to his house.
Someone at work is likely shedding.Does he have a Golden Retriever?
Strike him hard, you got nothimg to loose
Maybe its your cat or dog hair😂
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