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I don't think so. Would you date a man who looked like a wrinkly 80 yr old but was actually 30? ya probably not, you'd wanna throw up a little. It's wrong if say he marries a thin girl but she then gains weight and he leaves her.
I never had much problem with a girl's weight until I heard fat girls talk as if they're entitled to any man they desire. You only get who you can get and hierarchies exist for both men and women. Get used to it because as a man with no considerable amount of money, I have to.
I refuse to date women I don't find physically attractive. That's all.
I've dated a woman who would be considered fat before because she had other physical attributes I liked. But for some men, someone being overweight is going to be a huge turn-off and something they couldn't look past.
I think someone is upset because a guy they liked rejected them...
No, that's just their personal preference. It's similar to people who only like to date people who have a certain hair color or certain physical features. No one can control who they're attracted to.
Are women who wouldn't date a guy shorter than 5ft 3 shallow? Certainly a little, but people should look for partners who they find physically and sexually appealing. That's best for everyone involved.
You can't just grow taller tho, but you can stay healthy and fit.
Still, people are rejecting potential partners because of the way the look.
We’re all shallow and it’s totally justified that they don’t want to date a fat woman. Most women don’t want to date fat man either. It’s just natural to be turned off by obese people sexually.
*men
Of course we are. But I'd be willing to bet that given the choice between a fit man and a fatso, with all other characteristics being the same, you wouldn't choose the fat guy.
And I see you replied to one commenter saying "weight can change". Well? Change it! You already know what the problem is, and you already know you can change it. So change it and the problem goes away.
There is nothing wrong with a guy who prefers a woman who is fit. It’s just like any other preference someone would have.
I refused to date out of shape guys my whole life so i guess u could call me superficial too
I guess I’m superficial too.
So I’m shallow because I don’t want to date someone I don’t find attractive and who lives a unhealthily life style and doesn’t take care of herself?
well if that’s your logic then yeah I’m shallow and I don’t care 🤷🏻♂️
Nobody regardless of sex has to explain his or her dating tastes and preferences to anyone.
I dated obese woman but it's embarrassing when other guys mocked me because of her obesity. Even if she could be very attractive with dozens of kilograms less and it wasn't easy to say goodbye.
Yes, obese girls have a problem but a man isn't the cure for their problem with themselves.
By the way, comparing unwillingness for dating of obese women with gold diggers is somewhat off.
Well if you chose to date her, you should not be embarrassed about someone mocking her. The people mocking someone for that, even when they dont know perhaps there is a good reason she is that size are just retarded. Better be fat than a stupid arsehole who is mocking random pll. You should not be embarrased, they are the ones acting in a shameful manner.
They mocked me and her. Me, because it gave them the feeling of superiority and her for inability to remain thin. Maybe it was wrong to beginn it at all and I did more damage than I helped. I wanted that she feels desired like every other girl and I didn't thought that I can be so influcenced by peer pressure.
Well, people make mistakes and none is perfect.
True
I think the idea of not dating fat is not because they are shallow but because the person doesn’t have care about themselves how will have care about other people a family? That is why they avoid it since fat people tend to have many health and mental problems
Can I say that women and girls of today who reject 99.9% of men and guys are considered reaching for this perfect/made up man to take care of her and pamper her and deal with her up & down emotions as fine? Okay 99.9% is too high, i'll say women/girls reject 90% of men/guys, is she considered uptight with extremely high expectations?
FYI - A girl rejected me who is fat and she ghosted my comments so that should go to show you that men tend to have a softer heart then girls/women think. Women and girls follow what the media tells them to do. But if guys say, "you dont have put on too much make up" or "I don't care if your not in super dooper great shape" everyone has flaws but I think women and girls are awful these days because they want some humungous, tall dude, who has Hulk Hogan type muscles and the persona of The Rock, with the athletic abilities of Michael Jordan, Tom Brady and Wayne Gretzky, to be Ryan Gosling from The Notebook with his feelings and have the wealth of wealthy business man.
I think the idea is "if she doesn't care about her own physical image she probably won't care about me."
Shallow, because they choose not to date someone who has no self-control, discipline or the desire to better themselves?
Cool story, fatty.
Not really. There has to be an element of physical attraction and as some girls won't consider a man with red hair or under 6ft... list goes on... then its acceptable for men to have their no can do limits too
Women who lost weight don't regret it. The problem happens in the bedroom. I want to lift her up standing in the shower. I've dated and had relationships with overweight in past. I don't do it anymore. Mostly when comes to sex, it's not fun.
I feel like guys are really strict about only dating skinny girls lol. I think it's a social pressure placed on them. But let them be shallow, not like the relationship will last. Shallow people date shallow people and have loveless relationships. I gained weight and now I'm considered "thicc" I am either called thick or fat. I don't know. Some guys accept me. But I have been trying to work out and eat healthy. Lol. Just find someone who likes you for you.
There's a difference between thick and fat. Most men prefer thick.
It's not just with the guys... The girls also want the guys to be tall and handsome and having a nice physique. It's just like... people try to judge on the basis of appearances at first (a lot of people might deny with this and babble about true beauty and blah.. blah..) But there can be a chance that you might like a personwho is nice and caring and would love you and accept you as the way you are
I'm thick not fat. Boob's and butt. Meat on my bones. I'm not a rail thin girl. They look at me more sexually than thin girls. Like they're more likely to want to bang me instead of date even if I make it clear I'm celibate etc. I'm not shallow what so ever. The guys who are "perfect" aren't. No one is. I don't know. It's just society.
I'm skinny, and often treated like trash by both men and women, mostly men, told I'm "too skinny" and would be pretty if I got a bigger ass and tits.
@TiaraGlitzNeon I'm sorry that has happened to you. I wish everyone was less judgmental of each other than maybe we'd all be comfortable in our own skin. Like I've been put down over my weight. Like nothing is ever enough it seems. Not everyone has plastic surgery or trainer to rely on. No one should be made to feel bad.
How is it shallow to not be interested in a woman that isn't healthy or in decent shape? Doesn't mean they only care about appearance but at some point, you have to draw the line. Not the same as a gold digger. Money is a primary factor.