I just don't get what you really get out of A relationship like that... I never have and never will date someone I've never met for real, and I'll never call that love
Ain't about other's caring it not caring... It's about wanting "real"... Someone you can't "really" wrap your arms around... Someone you can't know why/who they "really" are... That their actions back up their words... Anyone can say "I love you" ... It takes "real" actions to show it... How does that happen online only relationship? How much time is it worth investing in someone, only to find out it's"not real" ... Time is precious, time is short... We don't get that time back... Why settle for not real? At the end of the day, you still physically alone... Who really wants that? Not me... My relationship wasn't perfect, but it was REAL... when I was sick, he was physically here for me, when he was sick I was there for him... Not online with multiple online "loves"... People throw that word around too easy these days...
What? Not true? Why do people get salty with me for speaking the truth? If someone really loves you, they wouldn't keep it online relationship only... And if someone wants marriage or babies, how does that work long distance? To each their own.. But me personally, I'm all about don't tell me you love me, show me, and that only happens with "real" interaction...
Pedestal? Cuz I don't believe in LDR? Yeah ok, that makes sense... I'm far from perfect, as was my relationship... But it was real... At the end of the day... Knew he was WITH ME... Not someone else as claiming to love me... If someone dating someone online, who's to say they the "only one" ... Or how many they got in real life... Don't know why you jumping on me for saying I don't believe in online dating... Obviously you do... Hope that works out for you... 🤞🤞🙏🙏
Yes but this is not long distance relationship it's online pen pal. Long distance relationship is when you knowing of a person in real life not fanticy, but there is some distance from each other?
I don't confuse.. You have me confused with someone else.. Tell that to the people that consider themselves in a relationship with someone Online that fucking other people IRL... smh.. I ain't been in a relationship since my hubby died.. Not will I be... Cuz people don't get what a relationship really means these days
Err don't know only girls who say it want money for getting nude and they know it's not real, I have hear of it but it's more they just like to imagine it's real but they know really just say it. It's the ones who just want to fuck and keep someone waiting I think you speak of not sure really.
No I know people who think they in love, wasted years on someone who do not worth it... Nothing but lies and games... But always stick up for that person, attack you for trying to tell them it's not real, they deserve better... I ain't got time for people like that... We're here for only so long... Make the most of it... You waste it.. It's on you.. noone else
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Someone could easily be playing with someone's heart and that is so wrong
Exactly... Why don't do internet dating/dating apps./LDR's... Need to meet and know in person for real...
You're right sit down talk get to know each other over lunch or something to drink
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I could argue both sides of this, having done both.
I just don't get what you really get out of A relationship like that... I never have and never will date someone I've never met for real, and I'll never call that love
You are right. It is very unsatisfying.
Wouldn't debate at all because idc what other people think about it.
Ain't about other's caring it not caring... It's about wanting "real"... Someone you can't "really" wrap your arms around... Someone you can't know why/who they "really" are... That their actions back up their words... Anyone can say "I love you" ... It takes "real" actions to show it... How does that happen online only relationship? How much time is it worth investing in someone, only to find out it's"not real" ... Time is precious, time is short... We don't get that time back... Why settle for not real? At the end of the day, you still physically alone... Who really wants that? Not me... My relationship wasn't perfect, but it was REAL... when I was sick, he was physically here for me, when he was sick I was there for him... Not online with multiple online "loves"... People throw that word around too easy these days...
Sure.
What? Not true? Why do people get salty with me for speaking the truth? If someone really loves you, they wouldn't keep it online relationship only... And if someone wants marriage or babies, how does that work long distance? To each their own.. But me personally, I'm all about don't tell me you love me, show me, and that only happens with "real" interaction...
Lol why would I be salty about you speaking your opinion? I couldn't care less. Your opinion is yours but it's certainly not fact.
Isn't it tho 🤔 you sure bout that 🤔🤷🏼♀️
People wasting time others would kill to have/get back... That's what gets to me
Again, that's YOUR opinion. And that's all it'll be. Have a good one.
Sure hon.. If you say so
But... How's that working out for you... Again, so much easier to shoot the messenger than the guilty party.. RIGHT!!
It's going great! Thanks for asking!
Sure... That's good!! More telling yourself that... Maybe someday it'll really be the truth
Oh don't you worry about me sweetheart, I'm good! Keep putting yourself on that pedestal tho.
Pedestal? Cuz I don't believe in LDR? Yeah ok, that makes sense... I'm far from perfect, as was my relationship... But it was real... At the end of the day... Knew he was WITH ME... Not someone else as claiming to love me... If someone dating someone online, who's to say they the "only one" ... Or how many they got in real life... Don't know why you jumping on me for saying I don't believe in online dating... Obviously you do... Hope that works out for you... 🤞🤞🙏🙏
i debate for them... not they should be long distance forver
I just don't get how it can be considered a relationship if you've never even met?
2 people agrreeing to be something is a relationship
But how why with someone you don't really know... I just don't understand
So it's from the part of never meting, a relationship is not something that's only online I find your question, not logical 🖖
It's not the question that's not logical.. It's people thinking they in a relationship with people they only know by text or video that's not logical
Yes but this is not long distance relationship it's online pen pal. Long distance relationship is when you knowing of a person in real life not fanticy, but there is some distance from each other?
And you actually met them that's why relationship is there in the name, 🤔🤐
Preaching to the choir.. But that's not what happening these days...
Yeah it's how people breed people and raise them now days duno why u acting suprised, people don't want real truth or to know why the life's are shit.
Your the first person I hear to confuse the meaning of long distance relationship.
I don't confuse.. You have me confused with someone else.. Tell that to the people that consider themselves in a relationship with someone Online that fucking other people IRL... smh.. I ain't been in a relationship since my hubby died.. Not will I be... Cuz people don't get what a relationship really means these days
Err don't know only girls who say it want money for getting nude and they know it's not real, I have hear of it but it's more they just like to imagine it's real but they know really just say it. It's the ones who just want to fuck and keep someone waiting I think you speak of not sure really.
No I know people who think they in love, wasted years on someone who do not worth it... Nothing but lies and games... But always stick up for that person, attack you for trying to tell them it's not real, they deserve better... I ain't got time for people like that... We're here for only so long... Make the most of it... You waste it.. It's on you.. noone else
Yea I agree, never didn't. Just think you confuse it for what it is. People are shit they call it what they want to be shit
That's truth right there
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I agree with you. I'm against it.
I just feel relationships and really knowing someone is hard anyway, how do you do that with someone you've never met... Other than video chats
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Exactly!!! The whole point of a relationship is BEING with that person
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