Is it harsh that I dumped my boyfriend because he doesn’t like my eye color? (Page 2)

Question

I’m actually very proud of my brown eyes and I won’t exchange them for anything l else. However I’ve been dating this guy for 2 months, and he’s the one who asked me out.  But one day he told me that I would be 10x prettier if my eyes were blue like his, and that it would be better cause our kids would have blue eyes as well, that he always pictured himself with a blue eyed woman and that If i wasn’t so hot my brown eyes would have been a deal breaker.  I replied with «well your opinion is a deal breaker for me, ciao!», and I broke up, but now he’s been calling me constantly telling me that he’s sorry, and that he regret what he said, but I feel that I can’t be with someone, who doesn’t see me like his ideal woman. Is it harsh?

Anonymous · Answer

No it’s not. I would’ve done the same thing. If he’s going to point out things that he doesn’t like about my appearance then I don’t want him 😌

alice55 · Answer

It's not harsh, he's an assholes, he have the right to like what he like but he have been very rude in his ways of telling you.

pigoat · Answer

He just said you would look better with a different color He never said he disliked your eye color  You're delusional

Broken_doll · Answer

No, you were right. If genetical engineering is his goal, then you are just a breeder to him anyway. Is that bridget bardot?

Ingeni · Answer

Nah you did it right. I think guys need to follow in your example.

jshm2 · Answer

No. He dodged a bullet, and you'll mostly be single and shallow your whole life. He's probably calling you to tell you that.

Sleezy_V · Answer

I mean yea, you’re absolutely right in doing what you did. He needs to grow up a little.

Babygirl_S · Answer

Well done! So proud of you! Anyone that shallow doesn't deserve you!

Enochian · Answer

Not really. My ex dumped me an engineer for a squatter who literally didn't know the difference between the words "he and she" So if anything he could of had it worse.

Anonymous · Answer

You weren’t being harsh... what a rude shallow ass your ex is!

hellish-kitty · Answer

Not too harsh. He wasn't a dick because of his preference, he was a dick for making you feel bad about it.

pleasestopthis · Answer

No, he's a jerk. He has a right to dislike brown eyes, but then why date you and make such a comment?

nathalie0912 · Answer

No if he doesn't accept you, you should dump him cuz how are you gonna live with somebody who doesn't fully accept you.

GoodEnoughThen · Answer

I would break up with him for only one reason. He's a moron

hellacray · Answer

Well he's the one that said it would be a deal breaker and he's the one that brought it up according to what you have mentioned.

Zigafoo · Answer

Shame on him for saying your eyes would look better blue but also shame on you for being that full of yourself.

tiajoka · Answer

Nah, he sounds like a Arian ass. He probably would’ve bullied your kids if they weren’t blue eyed.

redted · Answer

He's a sad person if he hated your eye color. Good call.

Anonymous · Answer

You should’ve said something like you would be so much hotter if you just looked a little more like (male celebrity crush)

Jappie180 · Answer

You defenetly right, in my opinion. People need to like each other, not only for the looks.

G5TWA1 · Answer

I think he was honest and now he regrets saying that only because of the consequences

Smoothiekisses137 · Answer

Not harsh at all, you did the right thing. I’ll be damned if I stayed with someone who said that to me.

UninvitedAngel · Answer

Not at all. Know your worth. Do not put up with this kind of behavior

Wise4myage · Answer

You both acted in a harsh manner, but he'd still be with you if he wasn't such a dumb ass.

Anonymous · Answer

no, he would have cheated on your with a more attractive woman, so you did the right thing. Its not your fauolt that you born like that.

AmeerX · Answer

You were definitely harsh. It was just a wishful thinking

DiscomfortZone · Answer

Sounds like you two superficial morons deserve each other :)

ttnnkkrr · Answer

I would rather say he did you a favor by demonstrating they had no feelings and was merely using you for his own personal amusement

iFarted · Answer

"I’m actually very proud of my brown eyes" That's an odd thing to be proud of.

dmm31888 · Answer

If he don’t like your eye color than you had every right to dump his ass!

purplepoppy · Answer

He's probably trying to create the master race

007kingifrit · Answer

nobody is going to like everything about you, so that's not a good idea

Anonymous · Answer

Was that too big reason for breakup? ! Just saying something stupid once... He said sorry... You too may have said stupid things that he tolerated...

Firerubies · Answer

Did he make a big deal out of it or did he just say I don’t like your eye color?

Anonymous · Answer

Very harsh. I have brown eyes, but when I choose my egg donor for my children with surrogates, I choose only tall women who look Nordic with true blonde hair (i. e. not died) and blue eyes. I want to Teutonicize my lineage.

Oric5 · Answer

You have to be who you are. Why does the picture look retro? But ya if that you then im sure you can find another guy to date

Anonymous · Answer

Your actions were completely understandable. It's he's loss, not yours.

JoseLuisGonalez · Answer

Not harsh at all, he deserves someone with blue eyes and you deserve someone who isn't a jerk.

cgehr783 · Answer

Yeah it is but he needs to learn not to say shit like that.

Anonymous · Answer

If your child says the same thing would you left him/her too😂😂😂

JustinTheGreat · Answer

You did the right thing.

meetkitty123 · Answer

Dumbed Keep walking

Aliciaslut · Answer

What color was his penis?

Gibbby · Answer

nope you did the right thing

COMMODOREII · Answer

I would not say that was harsh. He deserved it.

Not_Average · Answer

Sounds extremely petty.

AdithyaR · Answer

That's not harsh. He was a jerk.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

He is better off without you.

R3DthatDude · Answer

Damn lol.. yea I think it’s a bit harsh

Amal-ove · Answer

That's Brigitte bardot?

TraceyByrd · Answer

Lmfaooo dummy

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Very stupid on your part

zorro2209 · Answer

Seems a bit harsh to me.

Ivanhunter · Answer

Kind of harsh and petty

jimmy2 · Answer

Well it on you so go on with life dear

datgirl · Answer

I'd be upset.

phatdrummer650 · Answer

He's a jerk and deserved to be dumped.

ohshee · Answer

Is that picture you

Anonymous · Answer

You both stepped out of line

Massageman · Answer

He blew it.

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