How can I stop comparing myself with his ex?

[Anonymous]

I compare myself a lot with his ex like how he stopped smoking when he’s with her but he doesn’t even bother when he’s with me, how he cooked a lot for her but when with me he barely cooks and just orders, how he used to dress up everytime he went out but when with me he usually just wears usual clothes and slippers. What should i do?

[Anonymous]

Firstly the clothes thing, not needing to dress smart is a good thing as means he is comfortable around you. The other things you could ask him about but dont rock the boat if you have no issue with current situations...

At the end of the day you dont need to be doing the same as his ex. Just do what works for you as a couple.

[blutwolfe]

You can't because it's normal, maybe it's something you have to address, ask him why he doesn't treat you like he did her

[unshy1]

You should just remember he's with you not her. Your differences are his attraction to you.