How did you handle get hit on by a married woman?

[TDDMS]

I've been noticing in the last ten years or so that I've been getting hit on more and more by married women. How do I know they are married? One minute they have a wedding ring on and the next it disappears. Or family photos on their desk suddenly disappear or found face down. At first I took it as casual flirting, but then it started to turn more towards "Lets get together for conversation" or just down right, "Hey my husband won't be around this weekend, how about we get together at my place." It's gotten to the point that if I ask a woman out or I suspect the above, I will recon her on social media. One woman who did the disappearing ring routine, I saw all her wedding photos on social media, but oddly though I couldn't see her husband's face, they were all of her. Anyway, guys, tell me, tell all, how have you handled such a situation or perhaps you haven't been in such a predicament, how would you handle this situation?

[Finchie40]

After my divorce , Most girls I have got with I find out are married after the fact , but if I knew they were married before hand I would just turn them down considering what would be the point getting involved with a married woman? If she can cheat on her husband she will eventually cheat on you if things ever got serious. So a big part of me highly doubts I will ever get married again , If I do, that girl is going to have to climb a lot of walls and prove to me she is faithful and loving. People today are very selfish and don’t value marriages and relationships and each other like it was back then. I stayed faithful to my ex wife for 15 years until I busted her cheating on me , The first girl I got serious with after her , I thought was going amazing she was beautiful , treated me like Gold hade tons of amazing sex and it all ended when her husband showed up on my doorstep. Not only was I devastated I honestly felt horrible for her husband , and why he went back to her is still a shock to me , Girls I had ONS with would
Tell me they were married after screwing them all night and then ask me to still have sex with them after the confession. I think to myself WTF is wrong with this world why are people this way? I come to conclusion that Social media is a big part of damaging relationships and love making people think Grass is Greener on the other side. Most girls today want a guy for money and status and image and Most guys want a girl for sex and image so Love and commitment and faithfulness is pretty much thrown out the window , People still want those things but only their way if things don’t go their way they easily turn their heads

[TDDMS]

Hey man I totally get you. For me it's mind boggling that I've had married women hit on me. Yeah there's that high that comes with get hit on, but then it's a sudden crash off a cliff when I find out she's married. And what's more is the brazenness of some these women. And these aren't low class women either, at least in terms of their profession, their behavior on the other needs improvement. The married women who have hit on me were doctors, professors, etc. so they weren't like street walkers.

[Finchie40]

I hear ya bro , I deal with the same , most were Health care professionals and attorneys

[Finchie40]

Thanks for superb

[OlderAndWiser]

I had that experience once, many years ago, but I remember it very well. She was a nurse at the hospital where I worked. She was married to a staff psychiatrist who I knew and liked. Some of us went out for a drink after work. Eventually, everyone else left. It was late night so I walked her to her car. She suddenly had her arms around me, was kissing me, and asked me to take her back to my apartment (which was nearby.)

I told her that I do not engage in any relationships with married women, that her husband was a nice guy, and she needed to resolve whatever problems they had, or get a divorce. I said good night and walked away.

She was a beautiful woman and I was very attracted to her, but I am proud of how I handled it. I checked online a few years ago and confirmed that she is still married to the same man.

[SueShe]

The best way to handle that is not to get involved with such hoes in the first place. Keep you distance and don't let them initiate talks and conversation beyond what is acceptable.

If the conversation starts to get out of hand, just leave. That is not difficult and that is what I do to avoid those situations. I am not even sure that you don't enjoy being the center of attraction to those perverts otherwise you would have found a way to get out of these situations.

Another efficient way to handle those conflicting situations is to wear a fake wedding ring yourself and when it gets critical, just show the ring and tell the offenders that you are happily married and have no intentions to jeopardize your marriage for a hoe.

As simple as that but you have to want to do it...

[TDDMS]

I wonder if Cracker Jack still puts those rings in their products. Hmmmmmm. . . . As far as being the center of attention, bare in mind that I have a very acute awareness of my environment. And have a photographic memory where I can remember details the average people can't recall. My memory is so good that I can still recall the day the very first girl in elementary school told me she liked me, what she was wearing, how her hair was done. And it's been decades since then.

[Marilynjuana]

Make it a point to ask them before any flirting. I’m sorry you have to deal with such trash.

[OutdoorsForLife]

I know man, isn’t it strange when that happens. My go to lately has been to smile and say I wish I could, but unlike you I’m not yet married.

[Iron_Man]

I don’t involve myself