Would you consider it cheating if your girlfriend kissed another girl?

[JoseyWales4]

[JackSmy]

I dated a Bi-sexual lady, in college. I met, and liked her girlfriend, and she liked me. Our mutual love just liked different things, and sometimes she wanted me, and other time her. It wasn't any issue, at all, and no, NEVER any 3-ways!!!
You have to choose for yourself, what your 'lines' are.
I chose, for me, then, and liked her girlfriend! I knew she was getting something sensual, something only women can can share, and I was fine with that.
Sometimes, she just wanted dick sex, and I loved being a part of that, giving that joy to her!
Maybe too many people go along with "OLD RULES" and they just don't understand, or are willing to challenge those sigmas, and social norms?
I would not have any problems with a girlfriend that I am with, if she kisses, or even sometimes 'plays' with another woman, as long as I meet her, and know her, and it isn't like some sneaky 'lie' thing!

[Miristheiss]

Yes.
I mean I would judge it on its merit.
If it was just a playful, almost as a joke little peck... like a slight exaggeration on the way some Europeans do that cheek kiss greeting and then that was the end of it.
It that context I'm sure I'd not think anything.

But... if you mean a REAL kiss, open mouth, wet, passionate, actually making out with another person. It is an automatic deal breaker. Break up on the spot, she is immediately my "past" and I start asking out and meeting new ladies.

It would also gross me out. I am a straight man. The thought of passionately kissing another man is actually gross to me. I do not think I could even do it on a dare.
If she is ok with kissing women... as in she is bi she isn't anyone I'd be in a romantic relationship anyway.

[Freija1989]

If it ' s a romantic sort of kiss and the girl you ' re talking about is into girls ( either bi or gay ) and she did it without informing her partner and receiving consent, then it would be cheating ( although some men tend to be more tolerant, but it ' s still cheating ).

[angeliquedevereux2]

Depends where, her sexuality and how far they were into the relationship. If she kissed her cheek, was straight and they just started dating it's fine but kiss with tongue, bi and together for three years it is definitely cheating

[OlderAndWiser]

Is it something that she would do while you were watching or would she do it "behind your back?" If it is something that she must hide from you, she knows that it is wrong, whether you cal it "cheating" or something else.

[AliceTheNguyener]

Kissing as in make out or on the cheeks? It can still be considered cheating if it is making out. Some people can say no because she just kissed a girl only for fun, but that is still cheating because kissing someone in an intimate way like that is not acceptable to most people.

[Xseed]

Depends. If she's doing it in front of you with another girl for yours and hers enjoyment then might be hot. But if she's doing it behind your back then no. Also it's completely up to the guy if he accepts her kissing another girl or not. Every relationship has their own rules and such

[jadspop]

Well.. I'm a bit of a different kind of person... So by defult? Yes... Having an affectionate or sexual moment with anyone else would be concidered cheating... But it's about what the relationship boundaries are... I've had a girl make out with another girl and I was fine with it, but that's cuz she asked me if I was okay with it first

[NamerOfStars]

Assuming it was a romantic/sexual thing, then yes, of course. A social/greeting thing, probably not (some cultures do that, and my casual observation suggests it's more common among women. Sexual stuff is sexual stuff, even when there's no penis involved.

[Erobos412]

Naturally anything outside the family unit is hands down cheating unless it is a cultural greetings like in France kind of ways.

They do the chin rather than lips unless I am mistaken. To avoid crap and drama make sure to have a clear transparent communication of what needed to be sacrificed for the sake of relationship and building something up.

[Soremain]

Depends. If she knew fully well she's bi sexual, then yes, but I'd still react to it lighter than if she cheated with another guy. Since I can't be compared to a girl, it wouldn't hit my ego.

If she didn't know she was lesbian/bi and one day she'd feel attraction to another girl and decides to kiss her to find out how it feels, I wouldn't consider it cheating.

[TheCuriousDude]

Doesn’t matter if I consider it cheating or not, it is cheating, cheating is cheating why can’t you girls get that in your head, if you in a relationship then you can’t kiss whoever you want regardless the sex. Unless you have your boys approval you are not being loyal.

[TruthBringer]

I'm not some cuck who would share his girl with another. So yes, it's cheating in my eyes. The only time I would tolerate it is if I'm having a threesome with her and another girl and I'm not emotionally invested.

[Old_Golden]

Depends on if we've had that conversation yet about boundaries and asking permission. Whooped 'em again, Josey!

[JoseyWales4]

Ha nice, dyin Ain’t much of a livin boy

[apollo3000]

It's funny... For some reason if my girl kissed another girl, I assume that's just her being silly. I cannot grasp a thought that she might move out with a woman - to my mind, a girl would never leave a man to live with another
If she was to kiss a guy, I'd feel entirely differently

[talulahbee]

Depends on the relationship and the intent behind the kiss. U should probably talk about it as a couple first if one is thinking about kissing someone else. But really depends on the couple and what kind of kiss it is.

[SirRexington]

In this day and age, especially when everyone is bisexual or curious or whatever, yeah it would be cheating. But also it's not sexy, I know a lot of men get off on it but I don't. I don't see the appeal.

[Hannahm67]

That really depends on the context I would think. If a girl just goes and kisses another girl without the idea that her man is into it then it would be.

[xZoeyx]

depends on the type of kiss, and depends on the relationship. those rules should be established with the boyfriend first to see what he’s comfortable with.

[that_one_chick113]

Yes. Kissing someone else besides yours significant other is cheating regardless of the gender

[Sarahloves19]

Aww yes. I wish people knew that especially boys.

[Sarahloves19]

People would even justify their lying, manipulations and mind games.

[fall_angel-86]

Cheating is cheating no matter what gender its done with

[mattmanyah2]

Yes it's another person and I want monogamy... If you don't then it might not be but for me it would be

[AnjLikesDogs]

If she is straight and kissed a girl on the cheek or something not really but if she's bi/pan and its wasn't just a friendly kiss on the cheek yes.

[Rexos]

If we talked about it before I would approve, but if she does anything romantic or sexual with anyone besides me behind my back that's a trust issue, even if it's just a kiss with another girl.