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Why don’t guys want to be in a long distance relationship but can have sexual relationships? Why do guys hate long distance relationships? (Page 2)
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Because guys have wised up & they know there’s a 99% chance you’re letting Chad & Joe who live in your town bang the food out of your guts anytime they want. Meanwhile you want to string the LD guy along because he makes you feel like someone cares about more than sex.
And guys looking for serious tend to focus on one woman at a time so the LD guy is putting his sex life on hold. It’s a really bad deal for him.
My 1st Relationship was LDR lasted for 4 years 2nd Relationship was for 3 years LDR
& 3rd Relationship was also LDR lasted for 4 years.
Soo if someone can really suggest you about LDR , I think I can do it much better.
And all I would suggest is
" If you & your partner aren't working on the relationship constantly, you Should not get into LDR , because honestly it really fucking hard to be in. LDR needs a lot of mutual understanding & compassion , which usually most of time fade away."
I think this would clear your thoughts on LDR.
I was in a ldr and it ended because of it. We could only see each other once or twice a year, and that screwed it's over. Some couples can make it work somehow and is good, but mostly they are doomed to fail.
Without being able to spend time together, converse normally, have physical contact... Relationships tend to get cold and sour.
Guys will want sex in LDR or close by.
If women are okay to have sex without a commitment, then that’s what she will get...
If you want a boyfriend, talk to him and not have sex with him till you two have a good understanding of what ea want.
LDRs are tough. The lack of sex and physical intimacy is tough, and so is the simple lack of physical presence to go on dates with. I've tried the whole LDR thing... it was rough for a lot of reasons, not the least of which being that we were long distance.
Look, long term relationships are hard to maintain. Simple gestures like hand holding or hugging which can be taken for granted, will suddenly become super important. Dating from across the country and such, can be a source of great heartache if you dont see each other in person from time to time.
LDR are too challenging and difficult to maintain. They rarely ever work out. They're aren't fulfilling.
LDRs don't last because you have to have a connection with that person and the chemical response to someone is produced by physically being with the partner. You can assume and romanticize but in the end if you can't see the person it fizzles out.
For what it's worth, it's hard to have a consistent sexual relationship and a LDR. The two ideas aren't really connected. Hence, you may have already partially answered your own question. Since some guys desire more consistent sexual interactions with a partner, they are less likely to be enthusiastic about going through a LDR.
Because they consider you a booty call. Why put in the work when the reward is free? LDRs are pretty hard to maintain and people tend to cheat often anyway. I'm not against LDR but i do not think most people have the will power to maintain a healthy, happy, and loyal relationship. Plus a lot of people just want the sex part anyway now and see no need for a relationship.
Because long-distance relationships seldom work.
If you visit the Reddit you will find story after story of long-distance relationships that did not work because the female wanted the use of a penis that was close by.
When I was a soldier, it was unusual to find a soldier whose wife/girlfriend did not ride the carousel while he was away.
Love languages explain how people give and receive love and jt makes a lot of sense. My top two are physical touch and quality time. You can't have physical touch in a LDR and talking on the phone doesn't really count as spending quality time together. I feel neglected in long term relationships because you're physically alone and can't see each other.
Because in the long run it just doesn't feel the same. Even my guy friends who have moved away, eventually you lose touch with people. It's a natural human feeling to want to be close to the one's we care about. Plus, guys and men assume that if she's on the other side of the world, she could be "fooling around" on the side as well.
For me I want to actually be with you. I suck at keeping in touch strictly by phone. My parents, little brother and sister, aunts, uncles all get upset with me because of lack of keeping in touch. So if you’re long distance and your just a girlfriend lol you’d be lucky if I still remember you
Well, I'm a girl and would never start a ldr.
It's basically a torture.
What if you liked someone?
That's why I said it's a torture. You like him but he's not there for you. Lack of communication and sex, trust issues. Ugh, too much drama.
What do you mean? You can communicate in real time on high-tech smartphones.
It wouldn't be enough for him.
Me**
Cuddling is overrated. Communication is the most important thing for women, and it's amazing with modern technology.
The only problem is that he as a guy isn't getting any sex, but you can send him nude pics he can fap to.
@ActiveSh1tter someone want sex too you know and not on a damn video screen
@ActiveSh1tter*women
@Brainsbeforebeauty women don't need sex. Only males do.
@ActiveSh1tter oh bull crap. Stop acting like you know what women need... I love how some men try to act like they know more about what women need then women themselves.. You are assuming.. Me being a woman, I won't speak for all women, but I think I know more about my needs than you do.. But you keep assuming you know everything, but you never learn that way, but okay 🤷🏼♀️
@Brainsbeforebeauty Women always try to trivialize sex, and they shame anyone who gives it too much importance.
Their hatred of male sexuality is so extreme that if a male so much as flashes them from a distance they'll say they're traumatized for life. Women only tolerate sex if they get something in return, that's why promiscuous women always claim they feel "used and worthless", they didn't get their vagina's worth. Women are outraged about rape for the same reason, because it's sex they don't get paid for.
When I claim "women need sex they love dick!" women will reply "lol we don't care about your schlong". And when I say women don't need sex then they reply "lol what women want sex as much men". You just like contradicting people for the sake of it.
@ActiveSh1tter no You just talk a lot of sexist crap cuz you can't see people as people just a gender. And women not wanting to be flashed a stranger's penis is hardly the same as living sex with their hubby b like wtf what are you smoking 😂 and then don't be a flasher lololol and don't presume to no me is it contradicting 🤔 or calling people out on their bullshit.. 🤔
@ActiveSh1tter *loving
@Brainsbeforebeauty Women can enjoy sex, but it's like enjoying a house chore, or painting nails. It depends on her mindset, mood, and congeniality. What I'm saying is that having sex is not important to them. The only important thing to women is what they get in return for giving him sex. If they get nothing then they go apeshit screaming about being "violated" and wanting castration punishment.
@ActiveSh1tter okay I'm done here you obviously have a bad view about all women, and rather just bash and hate on women and that's your prerogative , but 2 thinks with that:
1- if women act like sex is a chore with you maybe YOU'RE the reason why!
2-You really have no frickin clue about women, just your bias and asshat assumptions!
But hey, good luck with that. Peace out ✌️✌️
What kind of idiot says women don’t need sex LOL wtf!! omg. Most girls can just get it easier which is why they don’t beg for it. But we ABSOLUTELY do need sex
@elisa_0 pay him no mind he don't know wtf he taking about.. He just wants to hate and bash on women.. I ain't got time for that.. I'm a lover not a fighter.. Oh wait I hate sex cuz I'm a female 🙄 what a penis eeewww 😂😂😂 he's actually quite funny if he believes that crap 💩😂😂
Why would a guy seek or want a long-distance relationship? Sadly in most cases, it is because of a lack of choice. He is settling for this girl because he can't acquire another closer to home. Men do want the love and affection a relationship brings, not the pen pal bond a long-distance relationship would mean in practice. It's far more difficult to develop a meaningful bond without being in the presence of each other.
Because, some guys can't stand been far from the girl they love.. they can't feel the effectiveness of her presence in this case.. personally, my girlfriend have to be in the same place where i am.. so we could build a strong relationship (if we wanted end up in marriage).. distance creates a lack of trust and its so damn hard to be survived
Maybe he doesn't like you specifically. He only likes being intimate with you. I suggest getting into an online/"long distance" relationship first, before meeting in person. That way he'll get to know you as a person before taking it to the next level.
Because they can't have sex in a long distance relationship. It's explained very well in the free book "Are Men the Weaker Sex" by Josette Sona. You don't want to get into relationships with people like that. They may just be using you for what you can give them, not what you can give each other.
My mind will develop so much desire to be with this person (that I don't even know, other than through pixles on my screen and symbols I interpret as words and language, and reproduced sound waves that minic her voice). Most guys probably hate not having the real thing.