Why don’t guys want to be in a long distance relationship but can have sexual relationships? Why do guys hate long distance relationships? (Page 2)

Question

Why do guys avoid getting into long distance even if he likes someone he just doesn’t want to get into ldr? But can have sex with her?

AmazyingOnlyMe · Answer

using for sex and that's about it! if he/she would love that person it won't matter

samuel665 · Answer

Are you asking this because of that asshole? And it depends on what kind of guy you are dating not all mens hate being in a long distance relationship.

Unit1 · Answer

Having sex in a long distance relationship? How is that supposed to make sense? Do you think men can stretch their penis hundreds of kilometers?

DavidHart · Answer

As an introvert who really doesn't have much to say, having a LDR is really a bad idea.. i have so much to show but i can't if my future partner happens to be far away from me..

clinteas · Answer

ldr to me is frustrating. Not just sexually, but also for the little things, the hug and kiss when you come home from work, the shopping together, watching a movie etc.

Jok3r5 · Answer

LDRs almost never end well. Both sides can end up with hurt feelings, trust issues, it goes on. And the little things like hugging each other, just being in their presence... not being able to do those things, can make an LDR even harder

peedy · Answer

I dont know could be many reasons like wanting to see you and be with you more, not know what you're doing are you seeing someone else there while he's here
The having sex that easy guys always want and willing to sex regardless of the situation

bluetoblack99 · Answer

It’s hard to trust someone will be loyal at that distance. Loneliness and temptation gets the best of people

Anonymous · Answer

Omg, is that still that guy? Sex does not mean anything for guys. Its nice to have. Why would he commit though if he can have sex with other women near his place?

oblax17 · Answer

LDR is hard. Unless you really love someone you can work it out. Trusting Each other & Opening to each other is important. In terms of sex, there are other ways of doing it like phone sex or Webcam to satisfy each other needs.

DavidFox · Answer

Because girls get much more out of LDRs than guys do

Guanfei · Answer

I've been in 2. Both were complete disaster, and it took more than half a year to get over it. I wouldn't necessarily refuse a LDR, but I know perfectly well how hard it is to be in one.

JamesBlackDragon · Answer

I don't know I don't hate them but I guess most guys and girls would be insecure about it they would be thinking since they're not having sex with you they might be having sex with someone else

Anonymous · Answer

I have a question, what do you consider LDR? Cause my boyfriend lives two hours away, but we still see each other (almost) every weekend. Well we did before the lockdown 😑

genericname85 · Answer

because in ldr you don't get enough physical intimacy and can't spend enough quality time together.

jasco · Answer

Cause LDR sucks there are so many things you can do and not get caught plus the sex stuff isn't as fun

Anonymous · Answer

Long distance relationship means no sex, why would a guy a guy want to be in a relationship with a chick he can't fuck?

Anonymous · Answer

because guys are ALWAYS down for sex. But the LD part means there is work involved

michael1469 · Answer

Best sex i ever had was in a LDR. I dont have a problem w it, i got laod and didn't have the day to day problems of a relationship. It was like a perpetual honeymoom.

RingOfFire · Answer

Because a long distance relationship is too much work, too expensive and not enough sex.

Larson7 · Answer

Isn't the answer obvious? Easier to more enjoyable to wax the booty hole and move on.

Xoirwinkan · Answer

Because most guys have a great sexual need, dont want to be denied what should by all rights be accessible.

jimmy2 · Answer

One can't on a long distance relationship: meet you... feel you, smell you, touch you, run over for a evening, go out with you. Get you in bed. That why

Anonymous · Answer

You really do not understand the need to be physically close to the one you love?

kinkycouple93 · Answer

Plenty of guys do. I did previously. It's way harder to maintain than a regular, local relationship. But if you really love each other and comit to each other. Shouldn't be any issues

Anonymous · Answer

Ldr aren’t real relationships. If you’re not experiencing a real human being in front of you then it’s just fake.

FriendlyEnigma · Answer

I would totally do and ldr.. except no one wants me 😅

CaseyBlack · Answer

I'm not a guy but I would hate an LDR. If there's no sex, what's the point?

AmeerX · Answer

I love a long distance relationship and I think a girl will tire out earlier then me😂

dudeinohio · Answer

You need close physical contact to be in a relationship. Long distance isn't a relationship

TheFlak38 · Answer

sorry that guys dont want to play your therapist while you're out banging guys here and there.

Iron_Man · Answer

Because they want to be able to move on at any given notice

legalboxers · Answer

I have been in MANY LDRS and been fiercely loyal, but them on the other hand..

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

Some guys are okay with it - I was in one for 2 years

Cowboy6666 · Answer

I have tried ldr in the past but the distance is huge. I might try ldr again

Fuentes · Answer

Sex and relationships ain't the same and ldr are weird af

asshole_ · Answer

Why do girls have friends with benefits relationships

TallAnon · Answer

It doesn't feel real and thus doesn't provide the emotional relief we seek.

OddBeMe · Answer

Long distance doesn’t work. If you ain’t screwing your partner you’re screwing someone else.

Flynn94 · Answer

It's practical tbh. Who wants to stay on phone or cam for hours without being able to bring love via body to you. Guys need the Body Part...

Franciskk20 · Answer

I would love to be in a long distance relationship so as to believe in my woman and help my self confidence before my own wife

TheLegend2727 · Answer

I'm "friend with benefits" with a girl from the USA and she has a crush on a guy from Australia.  Yeah kinda weird, but we both enjoy it.

Anonymous · Answer

For me it was lack of trust... I couldn't shake off the feeling that she'd be cheating on me so I decided to end things even thought I still loved her... so that's why we'd still have sex when we met up yk?

Anonymous · Answer

Why would a guy want the lock down and control of a relationship if he is only able to get pussy on rare occasions?

steveranger · Answer

They hate ldr because they love sex more than a girl.

Mollynotgemma · Answer

Men need security and more so than women

Angel_123 · Answer

cuz they can't spread their ignorant offsprings

G3tAClue · Answer

Some want all the fun with no work.

Makeushiver · Answer

It's the fickelness of our libido.

mich15smith · Answer

lack of trust or humman connection

Juxtapose · Answer

Sex is easy. LDRs are pain.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

That guy doesn't want a relationship, period.

Jack9949 · Answer

I’m in an ldr rn now. With a brazilian chick 😉

Tslav_ · Answer

Why commit to something inconsistent

SilverRain92 · Answer

Long distance relationships didn't work for me

GreenGold1992 · Answer

it doesn't always work out

colin77 · Answer

Because of selfish reasons...

ALewis30 · Answer

I'm not really for sure.

Ragnarook · Answer

Because ldr have so many downsides

becreative321456987 · Answer

I don’t trust women to stay loyal in a ldr.

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