I have a preference for guys who are over 6ft even though I'm short at 4'6 feet. Why do short guys act butthurt like they own me?

[Anonymous]

[t-8900]

tall guy speaking here (6'3) because height is heavily overrated and because it might be unrealistic and even out of your bracket to expect to date only tall guys. I try to keep the women I date in the 5'5-5-10 bracket. I dont want short kids because they are less likely to find a suitable mate if they are men because a ton of women like you exist. The fact of the matter is tall men is a new phenomenon among our species and it's unrealistic to expect one to stay with you.

Most tall guys have the pick of the litter and women overall imho need to lower their standards to a realistic expectation. You are 4'6, aim for a guy around 5'5-5'7 that would be more reasonable. Also I would consider myself very strong and confident and I admit my own flaws. Idc how good looking you are, what you are willing to do for me, I won't give you the time of day, simply because you are so shallow and dont think much of my fellow brothers because they aren't monsters in stature.

Frankly I'm offended for my bros out there because a lot of them are awesome people and I have a lot of respect for the ones I chill with. Honestly if I was a girl I'd rather have a 5'8 guy who was into philosophical debates than a 6'10 guy that was dumb as a doorknob or was just a Chad that respected nothing and no one. Hell I have an ideal body type for a woman but that doesn't mean I require it to be happy with who I'm with. It's actually worst than me saying "I only date girls with flat bellies" because height you can't even change.

[Asker]

I'm dating a 6'6ft guy. I've never had trouble with guys being interested in me. I've been pursued by many many guys.

[zeitgeist057]

Everyone knows (majority of) girls want a guy to be taller. Short guys are kind of hosed a bit so they probably really get excited when they see a girl "under the bar" as an opportunity to finally get a chance with a girl who is shorter than they are so they can be taller than someone.

Sorry about it, and for the record, I like a short girl too, even though I am fairly tall at 6', I don't really find myself attracted to girls who are 5'8" even though they are shorter. I think my ideal girl is somewhere between 4'11"-5'3".

I'm not really sure what a 4'6" girl would be like, you have me wanting to go grab a measuring tape, lol.

[FarrierMaiden]

Because they probably get rejected a lot for that reason. Try to be sympathetic. Short guys have it tough 🤷‍♀️

[JustRollTheDice]

Guess they think you're fair game because they're tall in your books

[MCheetah]

It just comes off hypocritical and a double standard. The same thing as obese women saying they won't date men who don't muscles and abs. But everyone is entitled to their own preferences in who they chose to date, even if it makes it seem like they have a shallow and lame personality. You should be free to go after whoever you wish.

[Anonymous]

No idea. I don't know what they see in dwarf girls with their chicken legs. I'm 5'8 and I've only ever liked girls around my height or slightly shorter or even taller. Even personality wise there seems to be difference. Small girls are usually mean, entitled, selfish, bitches and short tempered. Taller girls are usually more chill and mature.

[Asker]

I'm actually more of a midget. My boyfriend says my short height makes my butt look bigger proportionately

[Littleshep03]

Generally that is because the vast majority of girls like men over 6ft, which does lead to the shorter males not being included in a lot of things, which makes it harder for them to find someone. This means they might be more aggressive, or, they look for other smaller people to be with, but if they are rejected, don't understand why, and get frustrated. I can't really do much more without examples of what they do

[aq121]

I'm 100% sure most tall guys would pass you up cause you're the size of a 2-year-old. As a 5'4 guy, even i'm significantly taller than you, any guy is. At 4'6 for you to demand 6 foot and up guys looks insecure and looks shady as hell

[Asker]

I dont demand. I actually find that I have a lot of guys interested in me of all heights. I'm able to choose to date tall handsome men with good jobs, good prospects, educated, athletic, funny. Guys seem to be attracted to me despite my lack of height, must be my looks and personality. I'm dating an amazing guy right now who's 6'6.

[Avicenna]

Well, everyone has preferences, but I think that the guys are unhappy about getting rejected for something they have no control over and which has nothing to do with their ability to be a good partner to you.

Personally, I like my girlfriend to be as close to my height as possible.

[Cryptic-Game]

So you can't complain if men have a preference for taller dates either like me or you'd be a hypocrite. Funny how you are so scared and so anonymous.

What?

[Asker]

please do.

[TheFlak38]

Why do do girls get butthurt when we say that the sexual marketplace is rigged in your favor? You literally have a buffet of cocks to choose from and yet you all continue to be unhappy, simply because the man you seek doesn't exist in real life. You're always butthurt about some minor detail and then attempt to change and now we can add a Prince (Harry) to this list. Women are always unhappy. And before you say anything, I'm over 6 feet myself.

[mich15smith]

they feel very insecure about their height because the only acceptable couple is when the man is taller than the women (people are weird about this) so their options are already limited and when they see a short girl going after really tall men it makes them feel bad. But you are your own person, make your own decisions and like who you like you shouldn't change for other people.

[jasco]

No guys who are short aren't butt hurt, its just y'all females make it seem like its the worst thing in existence. As for me i am 5'9 5'10 so i am close to being 6 ft but would you date me more then likely not and i frankly wouldn't give a shit

[Asker]

true. You being short in a turn off

[jasco]

See we have our turn ons and turn offs I dont like obese people and you dont like short people that's what we like and no one should judge someone base off of what they like

[Bananaman177]

The same reason tall girls act butthurt when tall guys date short girls.

Nobody likes to be told that they're not good enough based on something they have zero control over. It doesn't feel good to anybody, male or female.

[Anonymous]

The question is how many of them 6ft plus guys will be willing to date you and risk permanent back pains?

[Asker]

To date a girl who can give a bj without getting on her knees? Plenty I can tell you.

[Opinion Owner]

Thats just one thing. Hugs and kisses will be somewhat troublesome.

[Opinion Owner]

I hope you find that tall guy. I love tall girls so if a short girl takes a tall guy, leaves more tall girls for me (i'm not short though I'm 5'11).

[Asker]

Oh you are an inch too short for this ride. I feel for you though as somebody who has been turned away from amusement rides often because of my height.

[Akshayjosh]

I get why you like it,
Its because you like dominance and want to get fucked with you lifted up clear of the ground.
You want a good pussy punishment

[DavidFox]

I’m 6’4 and have dated girls under 5’5. Personally I enjoy the height difference and they did as well.

[DavidFox]

Plus girls like a guy who can pick them up, right?

[Anonymous]

I want me kids to be tall like me so I wouldn't chose someone like you

[Asker]

Because I can suck your dick while standing up. One time I hid in my guy's long coat and sucked him off in public

[Opinion Owner]

ok, I rescind my objection to you

[Opinion Owner]

omg i have no will-power and I am ashamed of my weak gender after caving so quickly and easily

[Asker]

its OK. You now have an appreciation of short womrn

[Truthatanycost]

That's because you've been conditioned to place pleasure on a pedestal.

[Opinion Owner]

How can a 240lb monster be taken down by a 4 foot girl? I need to build a shame closet and go sit inside it

[t-8900]

goddamn you really are a beta simp. Did you have an active father figure in your life?

[Opinion Owner]

@t-8900 Watch yourself boy. I would pull your arms and legs off like you were a mosquito. You are defenseless against me even if I am defenseless against her

[t-8900]

lmfao I highly doubt it.

[Opinion Owner]

@t-8900 Laugh it up fat boy

[t-8900]

I will shortstop. *Laughs in tallness*

[Opinion Owner]

@t-8900 Don't try to confuse me with your interweb double talk lingo

[t-8900]

good, good, let the salt flow through you!

[Opinion Owner]

@t-8900 I asked you nicely to stop. now I have to consult my internet lingo dictionary

[t-8900]

nothing you've said to me thus far would be considered "nice". I dont think you understand the meaning of the word.

[Opinion Owner]

@t-8900 I can't talk now. My mom said I have to brush my teeth

[jestergent]

I have a preference for shorter girls over anyone above 5'6. You be just fine

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Same reason why fat girls get butthurt if guys prefer skinny girls

[pizzalovershouse]

Maybe cuz they think your dishing them on there height

[Protein_mate]

How could you do that OP I am 4'10 you're so superficial I cannot deal with question so triggered rn

[Juxtapose]

You literally cut out 90% of the globe's men by that height requirement alone. Only God knows what else you have on your laundry list of requirements..

[gandolph3]

because most guys want shorter girls, so the shorter the guy, the smaller the pool of shorter girls. doesn't mean they need to be asses about it