@Juststrollinagain There's a difference between spending money on her for something special and her treating me as an atm machine. I don't mind spending money on her, but i'll pick up on it if she starts asking me to buy this that and the other thing. If that's the case then she better fuck good.
Of course not. Why would that be? On the contrary! For me, it is a huge turn-on. I want to have a partner who is intelligent and successful. Who doesn't?
Did you make significantly more or just a little more than them? About how many boyfriend's did you have over the years? Were the guys younger, older or the same age as you?
What do you do for a living? Did it give you a certain sense of power, satisfaction or superiority that you made a lot more than the guys... especially the older one? How did the subject of money come up when you learned that you made significantly more? How much did the guys make? Did you playfully tease then that you made more?
@Buddy19911995 I work in entertainment. No, money does not mean anything to me. It did not give me any satisfaction or superiority. I live in a major city, it isn't uncommon for a woman to make more than her spouse. I don't think anyone should ever be ridiculed for making less money. That's immature and childish
Oh, I didn't mean it that way. Many years ago I had a younger girlfriend who made a lot more than me and only pointed out our income disparity only because she knew that it was a huge turn-on for me. She wasn't doing to be mean but she liked that I felt she was far superior and that I looked up to her
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Nope. It's not a turn-on and not a turn-off, it's not going to affect any potential attraction to her at all.
I wonder if that would mean I could continue my frugal life style and she would just mostly use her own money to buy things she wants.
Would you prefer to spend money on her though? Do you feel obligated to? I wonder about finances and relationships is why I am asking.
@Juststrollinagain There's a difference between spending money on her for something special and her treating me as an atm machine. I don't mind spending money on her, but i'll pick up on it if she starts asking me to buy this that and the other thing. If that's the case then she better fuck good.
No I don't really feel obligated.
No. That situation is only a turn-off to the woman. I couldn't care less what kind of job my wife has; I will love her the same regardless.
No, I think it shouldn't matter who is more successful in a relationship. Just that both people are contributing.
It is not a turn-off, but financial disparity is ALWAYS a problem regardless of gender.
It was for me.
Of course not. Why would that be? On the contrary! For me, it is a huge turn-on.
I want to have a partner who is intelligent and successful. Who doesn't?
I don't think so. I've always made more money than my boyfriends. They were proud of me
Did you make significantly more or just a little more than them? About how many boyfriend's did you have over the years? Were the guys younger, older or the same age as you?
@Buddy19911995 significantly more. I've had four. One older, one the same age, two younger
What do you do for a living? Did it give you a certain sense of power, satisfaction or superiority that you made a lot more than the guys... especially the older one? How did the subject of money come up when you learned that you made significantly more? How much did the guys make? Did you playfully tease then that you made more?
@Buddy19911995 I work in entertainment. No, money does not mean anything to me. It did not give me any satisfaction or superiority. I live in a major city, it isn't uncommon for a woman to make more than her spouse. I don't think anyone should ever be ridiculed for making less money. That's immature and childish
Oh, I didn't mean it that way. Many years ago I had a younger girlfriend who made a lot more than me and only pointed out our income disparity only because she knew that it was a huge turn-on for me. She wasn't doing to be mean but she liked that I felt she was far superior and that I looked up to her
No. There are plenty of people in this world more successful than me. Why should I care that some of them are women?
Nope. I've dated attorneys who make double what I make. As long as both people are happy who cares?
It can be, if he's radically insecure or she's a diva and rubs it in his face.
It's not a turnoff unless she starts to look at men with contempt.
Not me. That trivial nonsense doesn't bug me at all.
Complete opposite, an independent woman who has her shit together and future planned out without depending on another man, is way more attractive
Makes me insecure and causes minute man ejaculation is penis not erect enough
Here we come again with the stereotypes men a thrown in and society pressuring us.
yea i worry she wouldn't want to stay home with the kids
Not a turn off, but the guy will feel more insecure
Not nearly as much as in my mom’s time
Is it a turn off? No. Intimating for sure though.
Depends on men nature