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What makes a guy want hook-ups vs. marriage? (Page 3)
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When I was younger I always wanted a serious relationship but when I acted respectful and took things slow I got friendzoned. Every fucking time. Then I started pushing more hook ups. Had a lot of them and three girls I got in long term relationships started as hook ups.
It’s a backward way to about things I admit. But I will not ever eat another friend zone. I’ve had 4 or 5 hard lessons on this. But I’ll never fall for that again. Never.
It really comes down to immaturity. Most guys who are 22 still have a lot of growing up to do.
It breaks down to what he wants. If he wants just sex then he will seek you out get it and move on. If he wants a relationship he will take things alittle slower.
hard guess, but maybe he thinks u will be fed up with him if u start dating for real, so he's going the ''safe route'', and playing it cool, take this with a grain of salt
Sounds like a hookup is the east way out. If he lives with his mom he isn’t putting much effort into anything. Keep looking! You’re too hot to give it to a lazy guy.
Don't be gullible.
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There is NOTHING wrong with you. Most guys your age are NOT thinking of or are capable of marriage. If marriage is what you want, then look at older guys.
Quick fun sex, no child support, no alimony, no false accusations (hopefully), no nagging and bitching, costs little or nothing compared to marriage. What is not to like?
You’re simping to lazy man babies and wasting your time with them. That’s the only thing you’re doing wrong.
You give him too much.
Trust me.
You have to stop caring about him that much.
He’s not yet at a place in his life when he could get married or have a serious girlfriend. So because he still has hormones he will attempt to hook up and keep trying until successful.
Most guys in our age group just want sex. Most girls in our age group are happy to oblige. Why pay for something that many are giving away for free?
What the hell then dont complain about gold diggers. So guys want us to except money in exchange for sex?
Why are you wasting your time with this bozo? I know why. He's comfortable and safe. No personal growth ever occurred in comfort. Dump the hookups and be upset and move the f*ck on.
Fuck girls are dumb. IF YOU GIVE UP SEX EZ YOU ARE A HOOKUP end of story no guy actually respects a girl who opens their legs like its nothing
A girl who wants to be more than a hookup gets assurance she is in a long term relationship that is going somewhere before putting out
Oh and most guys r gunna hate me for saying this cause they depend on ur stupidity for ez sex
Only dirty used up male whores want hook up. Stay away from male cunts, you will have it good
Cuz many times a girl will give a guy a lot of effort, but once they get married, many women tend to just give less attention etc...
Guys tend to feel cheated because of that.
I want to give a man everything, what he would look for on a mistress. I will be the mistress and his girlfriend at the same time.
simple: they get all they wanted in hook-ups. marriage does not give them any benefits.
Even if they don’t want to get married, they can still have a relationship.
@ShootShootBangBang yeah. don't need to get married for that either.
You didn’t read what I wrote 🙄
@ShootShootBangBang i was just confirming.
Some guys just don't want commitment. Nothing is necessarily wrong on either side. Just move on to someone who wants a relationship.
I was happily married for many years. After that turned to shit all I did was hookups because I couldn't trust anymore. I know my story is different than yours but maybe this guy just wants sex and no commitment
Why would he want to get married when he is getting everything he wants just by hooking up?
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