If there are things about the couple that have these two going in separate directions in life, then yes, it's a risk. But in general, no.
Usually when someone is 21 or older, an age difference of about eight years really isn't that big of a deal. It's more of a big deal if they were younger, for example, 16-18. But that doesn't mean that someone 25 won't be in a place in life that someone 33 feels they are past. So there can be challenges, but there is a close enough age gap where the couple can still be connected and get on the same page.
Statistically you don’t see much of an impact in longevity of a relationship until you surpass 10 years. At the end of the day the two people involved are the determining factors that will decide if a relationship works or not. If there is too much of a disconnect between the two of you then that’s a problem. If it’s working, then I don’t see what an 8 year age gap would do to break things apart. Many long lasting relationships that last to the death have a 5 years gap. A bigger factor is when people get married very young. Those sorts of relationships tend to fail, because people don’t know what they want yet, get in for the wrong reasons, and move too fast. So long as you are both mature adults and you wait for the right reasons and time you should be ok.
Not really. What determines whether or not a relationship lasts is compatability. The second thing is at what stage of life your in. He is probably getting to a point were he wants to settle down and while the 25 year old may not be at that stage just yet, within a few years she will be. So maybe their will be some compromise or some friction, but nothing good communication cannot fix. So with that age gap I don't think their would be that big of an issue and again, if their is communication will resolve what issue does arise (if any do at all that is).
It’s probably not going to last long term because there’s a tendency to be at different stages of life and desires. There’s always a chance it’d work though, as with anything.
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I think relationships last longer when the man is older than the woman but there are always exceptions
There are no guarantees in life!
Be that as it may, generally, men tend to be older in the relationship and this seems to have worked out for the longest time. Girls mature much faster than guys. So a guy 3-4 years older SHOULD be mentally the same age as you are. Whereas, someone 7 years older is likely to be mentally older as well, not necessarily a bad thing.
In men, 35-42 is when the accelerator is applied, be it in career and worldly pursuits so if you do it, anticipate that and enjoy the ride!
Also, what is the intention? Marriage? If you love him! Do it!
A risk of lasting I would say , age doesn’t really matter when you meet someone that has amazing chemistry with you and treats you with love and respect , when I meet a beautiful girl and we have good conversation and chemistry the last thing I am thinking is her age I have met girls in their early 20’s that were mature then girls I met closer to my age , I have met girls that were my age they acted very immature like they were kids in high school so bottom line age really doesn’t matter , it’s the chemistry you both have together that matters
Any relationship is a risk and may not last, but age is not and should not be the sole decider: What you have in common together ultimately takes precedence. For example, I'm 36 years old and my girlfriend is 27 years old. Despite our age difference, we have many fundamental things in common that connect us and make our relationship strong. That's all it takes, finding those common threads.
The risk is only the same as any other relationship. Age gap relationships don't really matter if both are on the same page and willing to experience the other's point of view if it a deep enough gap to have different life experiences. It is up to the couple to make the age difference not a factor.
Depends upon the maturity and intentions of EACH participant.
I've been in 3 long term relations with a 10 year difference between us...
each lasted for as long as BOTH were willing to invest themselves...
currently married to my 2nd wife and we've known one another for over
33 years.
Helps that we're both divorcees and KNOW what we WON'T tolerate.
If there is true love. I mean she could be independent knows what she really wants. With a degree and chances a great job. If she has matured super early there is no risk. If she looking older than her, she is looking someone serious not a boy to play around.
If is totally the opposite what I mention, than yes there is a risk.
My first girlfriend was age 21 and I was age 28 at the time we met but different things happened too much depression and legal matters with her so it ended but not everyone's relationship is the same thing and I don't see anything wrong with a 25-year-old girl with a 33-year-old guy?
Woman are typically more mature than men. An older man and a younger woman could potentially have a better chance than a couple of the same age.
My mother was married 3 times. Twice to men her age that only lasted a couple of years. They she married a man 8 years older than her. They've been married for 29 years now.
I think the important thing is that you treat each other with equal respect
I don't think so. I'd date a 33 year old man even though I'm 23. I think the only thing would be that I'd be concerned about why he isn't in a committed RS yet...
I don't think so. 25 is old enough to have mostly settled on deciding what someone is looking for, so as long as the interest is genuine, it has a good chance for working out.
Are you implying that a relationship between two people the same age is more likely to last, based on that and no other reason?
I don't know where people get the idea that their date of manufacture is the most important thing about anybody.
no not at all, tbh even if the gap was bigger it isn't an issue as long as both parties are consenting adultswho care for each other... the only time it would be a problem is if the relationship was toxic...
No, at least not by age alone.
There is more to it, besides just an age difference.
If you enjoy the same things, get along really well, never fight, ... its a good relationship, even if you are 20 years apart.
You are the one questioning the age difference. STOP! Women can date older men... However, if you still see yourself as a little girl... HE has a problem.
If you are truly into each other and the love is there, go for it.
It's a very big age gap. You guys are litteraly from different generations.
I never said it was a short gap. Again, your point being? Just because he's in his thirties doesn't mean that he's necessarily more independent than she is. Heck, she might be more settled than he is. You don't know their situation. And if he is, so? He might help her reach that or they might entirely abandon independence for love. Age is just a number. It doesn't mean that you can't relate to each other. Being in different stages doesn't mean that you can't be harmonious. I, for one, like a man who's older than me. I want a man who's settled into his job, is regimented, stable and emotionally available. Most importantly, I want someone at my maturity level or higher. Most men my age aren't at the level that I want for myself. Not knocking all the men in my age. But in general, I just like older men. It's also a fact that women mature more quickly than men do. Men that are older than us are at our maturity level on average.
Again... your. point. being? You can love someone, have similar values and priorities with them at any stage in your life. You can't claim what people do on average with what people could potentially do if they weren't bound by societal norms. Anyone at any age could hold someone back. A boyfriend in high school with you who doesn't want you to go to college could hold you back. Your parents not wanting you to move out could hold you back. His age has NOTHING to do with that. If anything, it puts him in a better position to help elevate her. He's likely more settled and financially stable than she is and can help her
I don't think the age difference is a big deal.
How are they together? Does he interact with her as an equal, or does he disregard her opinions because she's younger? Mutual respect and consideration are vital.
Only if somebody in the relationship sees it that way. Honestly, there will be some differences when the age gap is ten or more, but they could be liveable/manageable differences.
I'd say the bigger the age gap the bigger the chance of conflict between mindset and ideas. Doesn't mean you're doomed if there's a big age gap but take it into consideration.
I personally believe the best relationships are with people whose ages are within 5 years, like If I was 27 anyone age 22 - 32 would be a good fit, but it really depends on personality and values.
I'm married; wife is 27 and I'm 34. So I don't think it's *that* weird unless I start talking about college and realizing she was in junior high at that time.
Well anything will work if there is true love. But you know you have a big age difference so there is a less chance it would last long but it's not that difficult
No i dont, Assuming you're the same anon that asked the daughter question. My wife and i met when she was 20, and i was 29. We have been together for 7, nearly 8 years. As long as you treat each-other well there should be no issues.
It doesn’t matter how much age difference between you two. Honestly, what's matters are taking care of each other and understanding your responsibility. If those are okay then the age gap will be a plus point.
I mean, that age gap isn't too bad if you ask me.
Kinda wanna say it depends how mature the woman in the relationship is.
There are risks of failure in all relationships, but if the couple are compatible, communicate well, and love each other they have as much chance of the relationship lasting as long as anyone else.
Not at all, my mom was dating a guy five years my senior, a 15yr difference between the 2. I say go for it!
everything is a risk but its just as likely to work as any other relationship depending on the individuals involved
My boyfriend and I have about the same age gap and we are probably the happiest most welfunctioning couples in the world
I don’t think it’s a risk unless you over think about it. If you both like each other then there shouldn’t be a problem. Just be yourself and don’t be fixated on an age.
I think mutual respect and compatibility are more relevant, than such a small age discrepancy. It might matter if one of them was a teenager, though.
It’s not inappropriate, relationships are always a risk
No more than anybody else. The lady is exactly the the age that many religions and societies advise for a successful relationship.
It's as risky/safe as a 25 year old dating a 26,27,30,35 or 23 year old. If you two are meant to be, you'll be. If not, then no.
I think you have far greater influences than an 8 age difference.
All relationships are a risk. Are thinking you can eliminate them or some of them somehow?
On update...
He's not into her for anything but some pussy. I guarantee it.
Age is meaningless. If it makes you happy, don't worry about it.
no, as long as its a healthy relationship and they are both happy and communicate well
I'm 31 and my girlfriend is 23 and I have been together for 6 years
My wife is 10 years younger than me. We been married almost 12 years... so 8 years difference isn't bad
depends on type of relationship you want...33 year old would look more for a lasting one then casual but that's my own opinion
The age difference isn't that great, only a few years, so no, it's not a "risk" at all really.
Age is just a number
Depends on each individual's maturity in my opinion
It has ZERO implication on the relationship lasting unless you make it an issue.
Age dosent matter if you want the same things. You need to talk through expectations
Not at all people place to much on age. Me personally I prefer younger women just my preference. I've dated women that are 25 years younger than I am.
There’s always a reason why an older guy by 6+ years cannot get a woman his age. Run sis.
Hmmmm I really got this feeling from him too. Why do you think?
From what I've seen; yes. Men that age usually don't link up with women that much younger for something serious
Depends on how mature SHE is and how immature HE is. Generally speaking, it stands a really good chance !!
That’s not too bad of a difference honestly.
Most women by your age have matured enough to where a man in his 30’s is about the same
as long as it's legal, that's all that matters
however, the older he is and the younger she is, im gonna start thinking "daddy issues"
Everything is a risk.
But life is too short to not take it.
My friend is 25 too and she recently just got married to her 37 year old boyfriend, now husband.. a month ago
They were together since 2013 and they are happy.
Go for it.
It really depends if you're both at the same page in life and want similar things.
Won't last the age gap is too much
It's not right for society and your psyche
My girlfriend is 13 years older than me and we have been together for 7 years 2 months 2 weeks 3 days. We are still as much if not more in love with each other as when first got in our relationship. We alsssso cate about each other, trust
We also love each other, trust each other, are there for each other etc just as much as day 1 if not more.
Age is not a factor in if a relstionship will last or not until at least one of you dies. You may or may not split before that happens.
Probably makes it a better chance of lasting if you're into that mono... I don't know why but mono always mafe me sick and I heard it is bad for you. But it's so mono this mono that. Be JOLLY go POLY
No, i know a couple, the girl is 17 and boy 31, if you understand and you can communicate each other, you can have a nice relationship. But don't forget the difference of age.
I think if the relationship is meant to last it will. As long g as y'all want the same thing in the end there's no problem
If anything, the chance of it lasting increases with the age gap.
If she likes him and feels that it will last log time, what more does she needs?
Some sign from God or unicorn fart blessing?
Just stop over-analysing...
I don't care what you do in life there will always be risk but you can't spend your life being afraid
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