"Male attention is worthless, remember that. You can get on tinder and have more matches in 20 minutes than most guys get in a year. Never let a man convince you that you should settle because no one will want you."
Well, I suppose something's "worth" is dependent on the person appraising it. Clearly all the women out there selling themselves to men on their OnlyFans accounts don't find male attention worthless. Same with strippers and instagram "models". They monetize it.
I think men have flooded the "market" with their attention to women who haven't earned it and because it's so readily available, they don't value it. Something's only valuable if it's a) rare, and b) desired, so I think men need to stop giving women all of this unearned attention and work on making themselves more desirable.
Like, if I only wanted to hook up with 8s and higher, and I was getting the attention of 3s, their attention wouldn't really mean much to me and is essentially of little worth. Unless, of course, the guy has low standards and is the type to fuck "McChickens", as Adriana so eloquently put it.
I think guys need to up their standards and give their attention to women who actually deserve it instead of shotgun spraying it to every McChicken with a heartbeat. Maybe then they'd find it of more worth.
I seriously doubt that Adriana Lima has ever even tasted a McChicken, so I suspect she probably didn't even say this. In any case, if "male attention" (what kind of "attention" are we even referring to here, by the way?) is really so worthless, then perhaps the next time the power goes out and she can no longer post doctored photos of herself on Instagram or Fakebook, all the (exclusively male) electricians should just ignore her pleas for help. Same goes for the plumbers, policemen, sewage workers, car mechanics et cetera, ad infinitum, over 90% of whom are male, and let's see how long she would last before going insane. Like it or not, it was MEN who built the world we see around us, it was the men who created civilisation from scratch. Without us you people wouldn't last a single day before you scratched each other's eyes out.
Yes it is true. Plenty of men are desperate to get themselves satisfied and can even tell lies to get what they want, and since we aren't mind readers we never know who is being honest and who is not. I've had guys admit to me that they called other women beautiful to get nudes from them even when they didn't mean it, they were just horny.
When men themselves admit to that kinda behavior you can't expect me to take random men's compliments seriously. It can only happen if I know the guy and even then I have to be convinced that he is trustworthy.
Tbh I couldn't believe it either but it is what it is I guess... Men can really end up doing things that they don't expect of themselves when they are in the mood lol
@zeitgeist057 bruh them dudes just want to see the sexual organs and get off. That is why others can have sex without being attracted to the females. Those are Men
@TwiNshichamp1 I'm also confused why it has to be from a personal interaction. There's literally millions of pictures online of any sexual organ or body part or person in whatever position you could possibly imagine. People covered in poop, or cake, or both, or whatever. It's wild. So I don't get why someone would have a conversation that takes minutes, hours, or even days to get what they could have simply in seconds.
I wouldn’t exactly call it worthless. Sometimes I get free stuff out of it. But it’s a gamble. Male attention is risky business. You never know if you’re gonna meet the love of your life, find a sugar daddy, or get sexually assaulted. If finessed properly, male attention can be an opportunity without even taking your clothes off. I’ve received over hundreds of dollars in gifts from men I never even dated. I’ve even been able to finesse a male professor into boosting my grade. I wouldn’t exactly call it worthless, but it is certainly a gamble.
You’ll never ever be super rich like I will be. It’s guaranteed for me. What hope do you have, we can smell you women out a mile away. You’re a low value woman
Depends on the man and the circumstances. Men who are selective exist. However men who are not selective at all also exist.
The first ones show interest in getting to know you. The second ones want something easy and will be scared away by complex conversations, as they require effort, and they want something easy.
But if we are going to make a generalization, we could say that our own attention is more or less valuable according to how valuable we make it. If we aren't selective with what we pay attention to, we surely aren't making it valuable. It's similar that what happen with other of our resources, like our time.
Women value the attention of a man that she takes interest in, and the other male attention is pretty much just a boost in confidence. To have anyone attracted to you even if you don't feel the same way back is always flattering (as long as it's not too creepy).
That McChicken quote is outlandish as hell and I don't see how that fits into the argument of how male attention is worthless.
I guess I should say women attention is worthless because I know some women out there litteraly use vegetables as DIY dildos.
Random male attention is pretty worthless, yes. It's rare that you can do anything constructive with it or that it would lead to something useful. I'm up for having an insightful conversation, but that's pretty rare since usually I get approached in pretty mind-numbingly stupid ways. I agree with @1truekhaleesi - the attention that matters usually comes from people that matter.
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Well yeah.. If you aren't the full package.. If they are attractive you have to be able to afford them. If not its just a waste of time and effort in a way and stagment. there's no point in falling in love with someone like that. They trade sex/love and affection or whatever and thats kinda like their part. Why would they want to sleep with someone other wise. They aren't gling anywhere and have very little to gain from it. If you go elsewhere your options are better and have a better possible chancrs for success. Same thing could be said with guys though people crave and need lovè to feel fullfiled and content with life. If not you might always feel like you are missing or lacking something and not whole.
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And also thats where love comes into play. If you are gueninly in love.. You won't care about anyone else and their attention.
When a women really values the man she's with (in serious) she will stop valuing attention from other guys like she used to. But a woman saying she's in serious or committed isn't proof that she believes it. When she stops flirting that's a good indicator. Lots of suckers haven't figured this out and will argue that their woman dressing exactly like a street hooker and having 20 close male friends is meaningless.
So you are basing your question on some cunt who has probably fucked every available bachelor in town and looking for some rich dude to be his trophy wife?
Depends on the male. Some of them is valuable and some aren’t worth anything, as far as their attention. Very few who are worth anything as far as their attention.
Well that is a funny saying but i doubt that Adriana Lima said that since she has been married for a few years. But No i do not think that worhless at all to be honest
I don't really know if the quote is real, but women usually start saying these stuff as soon as men stop giving them their attention. To be honest there are a lot of men who would direct attention at every cheap thot they can find and when people get too much of something, it becomes worthless to them.
How about stop using tinder (or dating apps in general) most guys and gals just want to fuck on there. Dress traditional, follow god and his teachings and you'll find and settle for a good man.
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the truth is that women consider men who are not in the top 5% lookswise worthless and hate them for breathing.
now if the guy is hot, he can be a pedophile and or a rapist and women will idolize him and kill their children/each other for a chance to be treated like crap by him
Every man will pay attention to any half attractive girl... but will he do anything special for her? Marry her? Be happy to have kids with her? Respect her? Thats the question.
I voted "something else.". Because, while she's right, I believe it's also true that attention from the right man should be taken note of; because someone who truly loves you is actually worth a lot.
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