Should you never be too available for a man? (Page 3)

[blonde_firecracker]

I agree.

I have told my buys I was busy and couldnt get together for a date which seemed to make him want me more

[Unit1]

Play stupid games, get stupid rewards. Normal men will move on to those, who don't play stupid games.

[Jamie05rhs]

FALSE. A good man will always appreciate you and never take you for granted. You mom is operating out of fear and cynicism, probably due to past hurts.

[iFarted]

It depends on the persons personality. Some people like a clingy partner, others don't. Some like to spend a lot of time with their partner, others need more alone time.

[Xoirwinkan]

I totally disagree with your mom. If I have a girl I want to spend a LOT of time with her. If you think he'll get bored you aren't very confident in yourself and/or the relationship.

[JamesTorquay]

Play a bit hard to get then if he genuinely likes u he will never give up trying, a girl probably has to show available to me because I'm a bit slow and polite, I've never made the first move in my life and lm 54 but I get a lot of respect for that

[sheikalana]

I believe in a relationship is fundamental for both to give space to each other.

[MannMitAntworten]

Figure out what works for you two and try and avoid outside influences. They tend to have their own motives and often ruin relationships.

[Anonymous]

But if a guy goes radio silent does not call or text the girlfriend for 12 hours then there is a major court of enquiry, and mom is telling daughter that boyfriend doesn't care enough for her and he's not the one for her.

[TonyMetal___86]

If i had a girlfriend who thinks like that, i'll dump her because a girlfriend who loves her boyfriend will try to remain glued to him all the time...

[red324]

I would only listen to her if she is still married to your dad, somehow I doubt she is

[Darkwalk88]

🤣🤣

[Knightoffire]

I think it totally depends how he is and you can see that from his behaviour when you are around him.

[ukguy1998]

depends on the guy i think and how much he likes you,
the last girl i spoke to i would of never got bored of

[Dinosaursandanime65]

I find it kind of... rude-ish to get bored of someone. Like, why? Since when we’re they ever an entertainment source anyways?

[Hmmmbetternothere]

I kinda agree with your Mom I am free spirited though.

[Iron_Man]

Maybe in the early stages but married people can’t do that

[bamesjond0069]

I think she's wrong. If a girl is too busy for me i spend time going after another girl.

[AFellowWeeb]

''I'm getting ready to go back to school and he's busy with firefighting''
Wait, how old are u 2?

[Tiger288]

That true it make me miss her even more and think about her a lot.

[Luckycharms12]

A two or 3 times a week would be fine