We’ve been dating for almost a year, but he follows way too many girls like those. At first I tried to avoid it, but now it makes me feel so bad and I feel ugly. Is this even normal? He follows like, two of them per day; he has 379 followers but follows 4,786 people and 95% of them are these girls. They look like completely different than me, I’m short and brunette, they’re blonde and with hot bodies. Why is he doing this? this is too much and he’s destroying my self esteem.
I am confused lol. In a lot of previous questions girls said that are okay with their bfs watching porn as they watch it too and said that it doesn't affect their relationship. So I don't really get why you would be upset about him following them. I guess some people are different. If it really bothers you so much then tell him but if things don't work out then you have to break up with him
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I’m ok with him watching porn, but I don’t think he needs to follow them. It’s something called respect
Oh god. That's a lot. I don't think he will ever stop this. This seems like an addiction. You can talk to him about how this upsets you or you can dump him because this low self esteem and hating on yourself will only eat you up each day
Talk to him and tell him how you feel. Personally, porn almost ruined me until I stopped watching it. It has so many negative effects people don't know about or talk about.
