Would you or have you ever dated interracially?

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CometoMee · Accepted Answer

Yes, currently 2 years with my boyfriend who is white. It's important not to think of it this way by what you are asking. I don't see him as a white guy. Most times I forget he is white. I just see myself and him the same way and it was because of the way he treats me. I remember when we first started dating, he didn't refer to me by race or anything of that sort. I feel like we truly started dating due to similar interests not because one of us were pursuing a certain race of people if that makes sense. The Only time stuff got racial was when something racist happens. For example, like when corona started happening, he had to defend me multiple times because of others saying stuff not because of him. It was kind of necessary at that point. I felt like 2020 really brought racial tension amongst everyone and couples like us but we didn't let it make our relationship become racial. We don't see ourselves as dating interracially if that makes sense. That is what I'm trying to explain.

AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

I have. Several times. I care not about skin colour.
But widely different cultures is a legit reality people should be concerned with. That's not racism, that's realism.

I'm white and very fair-skinned and I am attracted to whites but also much darker skin tones. I also like the contrast next to one another. But mainly I choose the people in my life based on personality and character.

I believe wholeheartedly in diversity. Genetic diversity strengthens gene pools; racial commingling lessens prejudices; love bridges borders. I am at a point in my life where I will choose not to associate with people who believe in racial supremacy, or rail emotionally against race dilution.

SoWhAt249 · Accepted Answer

I haven't. Why? I live in a country with barely any diversity. White people is all I see most of the time. I see people of other races in summer when tourists fly in, but they're extremely rarely interested in stuff like that. Can't even convince them to a one night stand. Despite the low chances, I've been with an Asian chick once. But if I could? Hell yeah. I'm pretty open minded. Most people would say the language barrier is an obstacle to dating foreigners in general in my country. I really don't see it as an obstacle.

David92506 · Accepted Answer

I've dated two AA women and they live in their own world. I remember telling one of the AA women I'm going to see a Tom Cruise movie and she didn't know who he was. I told her another AA actor in the movie and she instantly knew what movie I was talking about.

One of the AA women kept harping on how white people were putting her race down. Her brother couldn't get a job, another one couldn't get into college, another was denied a promotion, etc., all because whites wouldn't allow it.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

Most of the guys I like are not East Asian cause culturally I’m different from East Asians so we don’t have too much in common - I’m East Asian if you don’t know

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Depends on how you define "interracially." My current girlfriend is Chinese. My previous girlfriend of two years was Iroquois. And before her, it was two years with a Jewish girl.

jgokgotit · Answer

I've dated an Asian and 2 Black girls before. The Asian girl was too submissive for my liking. She acted more like a servant than an equal. One of the black girls was straight ghetto and annoying. The other one was an amazing Christian woman and we would have probably gone on more dates had her ex not murdered her. Actions and personality are what matter to me, not the race of the woman.

Anonymous · Answer

Im a white Male.
I have dated 2 black females. A few Hispanic girls. 1 Asian girl and a girl from India. Mostly dated white.
Have had sex with every "major" race of female I'm sure it could be broken down more complicated but I'm speaking Asians, black, Indian, Native American, Hispanic.
Best sex- black and Hispanic tie but i guess Hispanic wins tops because usually they compare dick sizes with their ex's less often. But that rarely comes up during sex. Lol.
Tightest- Asian girls of any age I was lucky enough to sleep with were all insanely tight. Like begging me to hurry and cum or use less dick because I'm hurting them. Um or 19 - 21 year old white girls.
To cover all grounds lol...
During a phase when i was young I even gave blowjobs to 3 black and 4 Hispanic men as well as 2 white men.

Smoke-n-Growls · Answer

Asian woman, every partner I've had so far has been a white man.  Asian men and women also aren't my type, so I'm certainly more on the interracial preference end of things.

TheAfrikan · Answer

I have no boundaries in dating anybody no matter who she is, for me I only consider the one who understands me, the one I connect with well, the one who loves me and the one who is attractive to me.
Once you have those traits am to date you no matter where You are from.
I only go for what fits me taste.

worldscolide · Answer

yes, twice, back in my early 20's i lived very near a college. One girl i dated for a while was Japanese, I think she was only with me for English help, but she was awesome anyway, sad to see her return to her country though, the other was the daughter of my supervisor at work. She was hispanic.. didn't last long though, she expected me to be rich.. I dont think she was a gold digger, she just wasn't impressed at all with my state of living if that makes sense. like i was somehow beneath her.

Skankhunt · Answer

Yes, I would date someone like that. No problem with that.

Neko911 · Answer

Yes. The dude I'm in love with is a different race than me

CubaPirate · Answer

Sure it one of my greatest regrets that I haven't tbh

WesBrewer · Answer

I have not, but I am completely open to it, race does not define attractiveness or personality in my opinion.

nevernevernever · Answer

i would if i met and fell for someone of a different ethnicity. It wouldn't really play a factor but it's probably less likely to happen since I live somewhere that's predominantly white

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Currently an interracial couple right now with myself and my girlfriend. I am mixed (black/white) and she is white.

Chrissydamusicgirl · Answer

Exclusively ;) Jk I’m Latina so there’s not many of us so it’s just been by chance that I’ve never been with a Hispanic guy but they’re cute af omg.

CriticalDiscourse · Answer

Yeah and the fact that we still have a term for it is silly to me. It's like dating other humans isn't good enough, we have to give it a specific term like we're going out with aliens or something.

Bricealan · Answer

Yes, I went out with a beautiful black girl in graduate school and loved but the men I was in contact with socially treated us badly and it made me sick to see.

Dazed0N0Confused · Answer

My ex husband was Latino, we were together 7yrs. I've been interested in many other people who weren't my ethnicity, but nothing ever came of it

Anonymous · Answer

Yes to casual dates (interest but no kissing or anything) and yes to relationships! I prefer people from other cultural backgrounds... people from my country are too arrogant (even spoilt I would say) and selfish in my opinion

bowenw · Answer

Race would never be a barrier. I have dated girls from other cultures, but not other races yet.

Floppy2112 · Answer

I would. Pretty is pretty and hot is hot. That translates into any language. There are races that tend to produce people more attractive *to me* then some other races, but hot women can line the hell up from any corner of the globe.

Andres77 · Answer

I did, first two wives were black, almost married a third until she showed her true colors, dated lots of Latinas, a few Asian girls, white girls, no Indian girls though (just because of lack of access).
Wife of 17 years is Latina.

Aethereal · Answer

I'm currently in an interracial relationship. I myself am a product of an interracial coupling (European-African).

Hogwheels · Answer

I think most people would. Race isn't even a thing I would think about when considering dating someone.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Constantly. But that's mainly, because I live where I live - there are few (available) ladies here from my own 'background'. Horny tourists don't count.

desidoll · Answer

I am Indian and my current boyfriend is white. I have dated Middle Eastern and Asians in the past.

kimbim · Answer

I've had almost all nationalities in the world including Asian and east European. My current wife is American, and her ancestors are a great mix of everything

lanadelrey25 · Answer

I definitely would, eastern Asian men are my weakness and I'm American.

Mystic_Nova · Answer

I have not, but race isn't so much the issue, as culture is.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Never dated before, but yeah, I think I'd date outside of my race.

Bratsondanielle · Answer

Yep. My x boyfriend Kenya was 100% African. My rebound was 50/50. Current boyfriend is white thou.

Mark987 · Answer

Yes  I have I think you need to be open to every race... I am mixed raced ( half white and brown).. and I've dated and been with women from all cultures and races... and it was amazing

SenseiSeptred · Answer

Danielle chan, you need to take into consideration how many times people have called me a weeb due to my utter adoration for Asian people since I claim my home and heart is with them.

Jerre · Answer

Yes I have, many times. In fact 2 of my friends with benefits are black women.

taeh_ie2 · Answer

half all the guys I’m usually interested is never my nationality. lol

Avicenna · Answer

Yes to both. I've dated quite a bit interracially and had generally good experiences.

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

My family probably would be mad about that thought but me personally I wouldn't mind dating somebody outside of my race.

Massageman · Answer

When I was dating, this just wasn't really done.  I have massaged "inter-racially" - does that count?

Anonymous · Answer

I'm white and I've dated a hispanic man. I've also had crushes on Asian men so it's no problem for me

Makeushiver · Answer

Yes I have. There is no race, religion or ethnic monopoly on beauty

TeeBar · Answer

Never have, never will. Ultimately, it is a dumb-ass move that will almost always bring regret.

nodnol32 · Answer

Have and would. Its normal. Its not something rare.

catsandbroadway · Answer

Yep! My ex-girlfriend Amanda was African-American, and my ex-boyfriend was Filipino. My girlfriend now is white and British tho

chHaynes · Answer

I would say yeah definitely be at for it I got no concerns about your skin color as long as you got a good personality I'm all for it

Wiredone · Answer

As long as we were compatible in more ways than one yes I would, But that goes for caucasian women too

Anonymous · Answer

I never have but would love to. Once you go brown, the other colors let you down ;)

loveslongnails · Answer

Yes, and she was beautiful and smart. I'd do it again in a heart beat if I went back in time.

MysticDevice · Answer

I have not, but I might. Under the right circumstances.

Cowboy6666 · Answer

not yet but im interested in white girls latinas blondes etc nowadays and would date one as im single n available lol

BeachLuvR97 · Answer

I'd be open to it. I don't look at race, though--more culture. Race is only melanin. Culture is a heritage of beliefs.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, I'm white and I've dated many Hispanic women since I actually prefer Hispanic women. I've not dated any black women because honestly I'm not particularly attracted to them although they make great friends.

allaboutyou2 · Answer

I have years ago, I grew up in England and we didn't focus on race so much. America seems to be obsessed with race and every other identity.

HikerDude · Answer

Too much hassle that just adds an extra layer of problems.

okeydoke · Answer

Have and would. I’m very mixed myself, so any dating pretty much already is.

boxcarjoe · Answer

Yes almost all of my relationships and random hook ups have been interracial

Mehzmeh · Answer

Most of my relationship since I, was 25 have been interracial.

Dweezil · Answer

I have had sex with w black girls. It was good. But we weren't really dating.

Tyrese101 · Answer

I have, and I would do it again if the opportunity arises.

Nigjt · Answer

Yes I have anbwill again. Why d I u want to? Huh

volleyball_bigirl · Answer

yes I have and would again

genericname85 · Answer

i have before and i would do it again any day.

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