Girls, What do you honestly think of a 30 year old virgin?

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

I would be very curious as to why he hadn't had sex yet because being a 30-year-old virgin is extremely unusual. Guys commonly lose their virginity around their later teen years or early 20s at the very most. If the 30-year-old virgin claimed that he was "waiting for marriage," I likely wouldn't believe him unless he comes from an extremely strict culture such as Islam. In America however or the Western world in general, hardly anybody is truly waiting for marriage in this era and many women tend to desire men with sexual experience. I believe virgins this old are likely to lack sex appeal or the confidence to approach women. For that reason, I don't think I could date a virgin that old because the chances are high that he is an unattractive weirdo. I can't think of any other reason a confident and attractive man would wait so long to have sex. As for whether or not you could find someone, don't lose hope.

If you have confidence and the social skills, no woman has to know that you're still a virgin. I wouldn't recommend telling her because many women are turned off by older virgins and you're not likely to find a virgin around your age group. When you do meet a girl, don't worry about how you perform. Just let the sex flow naturally and enjoy yourself. Sex should always feel like a fun activity, not a series of tasks. If, for whatever reason, she believes that you're a virgin during sex, or that you're not pleasing her in a way that she's used to, simply say that sex isn't the same with every girl and that you tend to improve the more you get used to having sex with them. If she doesn't say anything, don't tell her this, and don't ask. Worry about whether or not she wants to fuck again. If she comes back for more, then you're good.

[AmandaYVR]

Just that they are very shy.
I don't look down on them. I just think they are unfortunately missing out on one of life's pleasures, both physically and emotionally being with other people.
The act of sex itself is made into more of a big deal sometimes than it needs to be. It's very easy and natural when you're in the moment. The hard part is meeting people and forming connections, and being on the same page.

[menina]

I would have no issues with dating a 30 year old virgin. I'm a virgin myself and I won't lose my virginity until I'm in my 30's (no, I'm not waiting for marriage and I'm not religious).
I would just ask him some questions, I would like to know why he's a virgin and why he didn't have many dating experiences.

[blmoore6108289942]

IMHO it would be somewhat of a relief. There wouldn’t be so much pressure on sex, and more attention to emotional connection... it would be interesting really to see what ways other then sex that the two of would connect on! And when the time for sex came it would be more calculated and thought out rather then rushed because “it’s normal”. Overall I wouldn’t be bothered.

[Egirl28]

Inwould see it as that you are waiting and want it to be special! I would see you as rare and respect your choice. I too am a older virgin and I know its hard to find people who understand the struggles but its not a badge of shame but a badge of pride! You know what you want and you won't settle! Own that

[bobalife]

I’d admire a guy who wants to save his virginity for someone special. It’s understandable that we all build our dating experiences at different stages in our life. Don’t doubt yourself. Some girls don’t mind it. However, personally I do prefer a guy who is more experience and can lead the relationship.

[Mhmmmalreadykno]

Honestly, I wouldn't care if my boyfriend had limited dating experience. If he was a virgin and 30, I wouldn't mind because the guys I would perfer dating are virgins. So dont stress, some girls may be wanting virgins

[sheikalana]

It could be for religious purposes. There's a bunch of people who are still a virgin in their 30s because they haven't found the right partner and are looking forward to do it with that one special person exclusively.

[fallen_wings]

Depends. If he has a reason to be a virgin (for example, because of his religion) I accept that. If he doesn't have a reason, I don't really care. It's fine

[silvermoon84]

It’s really not as big a deal as you might think. Yeah it might be a dealbreaker for some women but not for others. Speaking for myself it wouldn’t be a deal breaker for me.

[Dazed0N0Confused]

I wouldn't care, I don't mind taking the reigns in bed and giving direction. I wouldn't think it odd, just needing a little nudge in a direction or two

[flamiE]

I wouldn’t have a problem with it. I would think they’re either shy or focusing on themselves. Either way that’s cool with me.

[Bárbara1402]

There absolutely no shame in that. Everyone has their own experiences and that’s something you can accquire. I think that’s sweet 😊

[wubatubbub]

As long as they are nice I don't mind about any past partners

[Anonymous]

It depends if you're mentally stable or if you're one of the self-proclaimed incels who hate women for it

[Sugar78]

I think it's sweet. And if I was in a serious relationship with one and we decided to sleep together I would love the opportunity to teach him what I like in bed.

[angeline254]

losing your virginity is your decision whether your a teen or 30, does it really matter? I think it's about you and what you want, everyone else can kiss ass...

[collie22]

i think its fine. you'll find the right person and it will be perfect

[emilym12345]

It would be a little weird, but I'd rather be with a guy like that than a womanizer...

[Anonymous]

My only concern would be why they are still a virgin.

[eileen_ruth]

That's totally cool. Not a concern tbh

[Agape93]

Wouldn’t bother me. Also nice dune reference

[cutie_as_ducks]

who cares about that kind of thing

[undercover4ever]

I don't have a problem with it

[electromagnetic]

To each their own.