This question sparked after watching the movie Hitch And the women's reaction when they found out their boyfriend's were clients of Hitch (Dating Coach played by Will Smith) I Think I'd feel the same. I can see trying to work on your confidence. But using tricks, moves to get someone into you to me would feel contrived, like you're being what you think I want you to be instead of just being yourself. Being yourself might not get you as many men/women, but it'll get you the right man/woman for you.

I'd be honored. A woman could talk to me once and I'd envision our wedding, and having kids together and growing old. I'm too easy for someone to need a coach to land me

I would have no issue with a girl using an App to see if we are compatible for each other

I would think nothing of it some people don't have any luck with talking to the opposite sex so having somebody help you out is not a bad idea

It would be weird if it's just for me but some people need help in certain social departments.

No. It might make look down on her though. It would really depend where we were at in the relationship when i found out.

I wouldn't care. As long as the coach was teaching the right things.

I would think it would be flattering that someone wanted to "get" me that much.

I wouldn’t care to be honest, so long as it’s someone I want to be with. If both people want each other then that’s all that matters

Not really I would understand the some girls might be uncomfortable aprouching me for dates.

No. I would just think that they really liked me and needed a little help. It shows devotion.

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I'd be honored. A woman could talk to me once and I'd envision our wedding, and having kids together and growing old. I'm too easy for someone to need a coach to land me

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I would have no issue with a girl using an App to see if we are compatible for each other

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I would think nothing of it some people don't have any luck with talking to the opposite sex so having somebody help you out is not a bad idea

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It would be weird if it's just for me but some people need help in certain social departments.

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No. It might make look down on her though. It would really depend where we were at in the relationship when i found out.

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I wouldn't care. As long as the coach was teaching the right things.

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I would think it would be flattering that someone wanted to "get" me that much.

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I wouldn’t care to be honest, so long as it’s someone I want to be with. If both people want each other then that’s all that matters

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Not really I would understand the some girls might be uncomfortable aprouching me for dates.

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No. I would just think that they really liked me and needed a little help. It shows devotion.

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I would find it very questionable.

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- Brainsbeforebeauty
  
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  Right!! Same
  
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JoyGirl Follow
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I would have a lot of questions... lol

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- Brainsbeforebeauty
  
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  You and me both lolol
  
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- JoyGirl
  
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  😂😂😂
  
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I usually like being handled. :)

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- Brainsbeforebeauty
  
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  🤣🤣🤣 hats not the "handled" I meant 🙄 lololol
  
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Yes cuz then it feels fake

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- Brainsbeforebeauty
  
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  That's how I think I'd feel...
  
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- pizzalovershouse
  
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  😊👍
  
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lol. Everyone does this... When you ask your friends, "what should i do/say/etc". Hire a PUA or not you do it too.

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- Brainsbeforebeauty
  
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  I've bee never asked someone what I should say... That would be them speaking for me instead of me speaking for myself
  
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I'd be confused, just fucking talk to me.

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- Brainsbeforebeauty
  
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  Exactly!
  
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I'd be flattered that they cared enough about me to hire someone. And worried about taking out life insurance.

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A dating coach?

Unless my profile is in a dating service records I won't be a match.

No dating service knows who I am so I'm safe.

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Any man who is this desperate for a woman is pretty pathetic.

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No one would use a dating coach for me so no

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  👍👍
  
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Highly pissed off

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- Brainsbeforebeauty
  
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  Right!! Be yourself, I don't want a fake, I want the real deal you... That's how relationships fail.. When you fall for what you think they are or pretending to be, instead of who they are for real, cuz noone can fake "forever"
  
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  Yeap.
  To me, I consider that to be both a lie and a manipulation. They’ll be single the moment the instant I find out
  
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Honesty is #1.

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  Right!!
  
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No why would I?

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- Brainsbeforebeauty
  
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  I would... I don't want someone doing things someone told them would work. I want it to be a natural reaction to me
  
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- bklynbadboy1
  
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  But if they really love you why does it matter everybody gets advice sometimes
  
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- Brainsbeforebeauty
  
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  Advice is one thing... But tips, tricks would just feel like you being played...
  
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