If a guy says “I don’t think I can give you what you need right now,” is this always equal to “I’m not interested in you,” or can it be genuine? (Page 2)

[spartan55]

If it's not the former, it's something similar that you wouldn't be interested in either,

[TikiTook]

What?

[spartan55]

What what?

[spartan55]

OK your update says you didn't word it right, then you didn't revise anything. Lol...😂 too much work?

[TikiTook]

Yeah. I don't know he asked to see me and now I just don’t care anymore haha, I dunno it’s just a mess and too much info to put here

[TikiTook]

Lol thanks for replying tho

[LogicalGal123]

If a guy says that, means that they don't give u jack. Be with someone who can give u what u need and want. Don't settle for less, know ur worth, and don't EVER let anyone tells u otherwise.

[Tomtom9090]

No it means he cannot provide you the things you want in life and therefore it would be best to separate, for your sake

[kingofthellamas]

Are you perhaps finding it hard to accept that you are not the un missable catch you though yourself to be?

[TikiTook]

I have never thought of myself as a catch. I’ve always struggled with low self esteem and high self doubt. I over think and over criticize everything I do and all I am. I hate looking in the mirror and socially I am a loser

[TikiTook]

I’ve done so much to try and change who I am because I thought maybe I’d feel happier with myself and more confident but instead it just made me feel less confident and more vulnerable. The things I’ve done I now despise and I guess part of me I despise too. So no, I am not an unmissable catch, I am not somebody I would even want to catch

[EaterPeter]

No, nit equal. It can be genuine. We need time for our selves too. Let be be cave time. Recharge time. Winding down. Or not just feeling it.

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like!

[ayomanwya]

I’m pretty sure that doesn’t make a guy not interested in you... “don’t think” “give” “right now” has nothing to do with feelings

[nevernevernever]

It can be him letting you down easy, or it can just be a simple statement of fact

[Mortdikeuu]

It's the easy way of saying he's using you for sex.

[Feelicks]

Sounds like he's not interested in a commitment, or you're being too needy or something.

[TikiTook]

I may have pressed too soon

[Romeocuck]

It can be that he really cares for you and he really doesn't have what you need at that moment

[CertifiedHandsomity]

Pretty much. Guys are more sensitive contrary to popular belief.

[Browneye57]

It means you present as a royal PITA.

[TikiTook]

Yass

[Browneye57]

What is even more remarkable is your yearning to continue to pursue a guy that shows disinterest for ANY reason. I mean come on, YOU are the sole arbiter of attraction and desire?

[TikiTook]

I just feel like if I don’t try then it’ll never happen. And if I removed the conditions I set in place for him we could have something, and so I removed them after this all happened/was said.

[Browneye57]

You make absolutely zero sense. Which is also pretty common.

[SavageGirl101]

Yeah that’s basically them saying that their not interested their just being really really nice

[msbrightness]

Of course it can be genuine - why would you doubt it?

[Anonymous]

he can't give you what you need right now, means he's not ready to be in a relationship right now, or commit to you.

[dudeinohio]

It's an indication of incompatibility, so it could be legit

[EssenceOfLight]

Honesty with women who are on the brink becoming an ex is rather rare.

[Anonymous]

Can be genuine. I would have to say something like this today too.

[Neal_Anblome]

It can absolutely be genuine, but it's hard to know. Whatever the case is, it's not going to happen, move on

[Guanfei]

Depends on who says it.
For example, if I said that, I'd consider it true.