Do you think on average, women have more ridiculous standards than men?

Question

For average girl today thanks to social media:
You must be attractive, buff, have money, popular online and off, ideally a white male, big dick, and a big fan of her favorite movie with approval from friends and family.

weasley8 · Accepted Answer

I don't think so. The main "standard" that I have is that a relationship is not worth pursuing unless it will make me happier than I already am. Now I would already consider myself a very happy person, so that's certainly a high bar. But I wouldn't call it ridiculous. Because why would I want to date someone who doesn't add enjoyment to my life? Most of the women I talk to have a similar outlook. (Except for a few people who just don't know how to be single, in which case their standards are lower, not higher).

If men's standards are lower than that, maybe that's their problem.

Honestly I think that part of the reason that so many men are desperate to date is that men are told that they aren't allowed to be emotional. The one exception to this is often when they're with their significant other.

It's also why men get mad when women are just friends with them. Because if we share our emotions with them, they think it means something. Because many men have been conditioned to believe that that's something that only happens in relationships. But women do that with their friends already.

If we're solely talking physical standards, I still don't think we have ridiculous standards - at least not any more than men do. Our standards are just more obvious because men are usually the ones asking someone out. And therefore men are the one's getting rejected.

But if a guy is getting rejected ALL the time I actually think it's probably his standards that are too high. Most of the guys I see complaining about that only ask out women who are far more attractive than they are, and then calling the women shallow for not wanting to date them due to their appearance, when appearance was the very reason they chose those women in the first place. But that's an individual thing. And some individual women may have standards that are too high as well.

I don't think that women have more ridiculous standards than men, and I don't think that women's standards as a whole are too high.

CubsterShura · Accepted Answer

Oh please, like women don't have standards to abide to! Perfect skin, hair professionally done, nails professionally done, makeup on point, outfit on point, perfect body, shaved legs, and ESPECIALLY the expectation to just bounce back soon after giving birth. Oh and if that's all you are then you're just a bimbo so you also need to be smart, well-spoken, well-mannered, laid-back.

I don't know a single woman who expects a man to be everything. Your problem is you look for dated on Tinder or small dungeons called clubs.

Xitomyth · Accepted Answer

The truth is that both sides are equally messed up when it comes to standards, though in different ways. Also, everyone has their own idea of what they want and generalizing standards for either side is just childish. Some have high standards, some have low standards, and others still have no standards... Some women expect a guy to give them the world and treat them like a goddess and others only want a guy that pays even the slightest attention to them. It's a mixed bag, same with us men. Some people base everything off what they see on tv and other media and others base their standards off the books they read as a kid. The problem is that everyone, at least in my experience, expects the other side to be mind readers and somehow magically know what they want and to just do it. That's not how it works, communication is key in any relationship. The best way to avoid disappointment is to be honest from the beginning and say what your standards are, saves time and effort and no one gets hurt.

"Wishful thinking only leads to disappointment" "Hesitation leads to disaster"

WhistleForTheChoir · Accepted Answer

I think men are more superficial (i. e. they won't date someone they aren't attracted to.) Thankfully most men are attracted to most women. But women have higher standards. I mean the numbers dont lie. less than 10% of women can't find a relationship and most of those are voluntary. Compared that with almost 40% of men and rapidly growing, and its pretty clear that most men dont measure up to womens expectations.

Women hold themselves to a high standard, but like i see other women here saying to have a man you must do A, B and C, but no, you really dont. you're choosing to do A, B and C, and its not to impress men. We dont give a shit, truly, so stop blaming us for uour decisions. You want to impress other women. Dont wanna shave your legs and armpits, then dont do it. I dont know a single women who doesn't shave who can't get a date when she wants to. Dont want to wear make up? Then fucking dont. Its not a dealbreaker. Say you need a perfect body?, well the majority of women in the USA are overweight or obese, and most of them seem to be able to get partners.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

Maybe the issue is trying to find a real person to date on social media 🤷🏼‍♀️ Stick to the "real world" and maybe you'd find more "real" people that just go by the person and their character/personality...

OlderAndWiser · Answer

If you really, really, really believe what you are saying inn this post, go to the mall, have a seat in a busy corridor, and count the couples who pass by who do not fit your criteria.

TruthBringer · Answer

Studies have proven that women's expectations are higher than men most definitely. Anyone who claims otherwise is speaking out of their arse. At the same time, I can't really blame women for having these expectations. If you got hundreds of dudes throwing themselves at you, of course you're going to pick the best of the best and think you deserve the best of the best. It's men who got themselves to thank for being in this predicament. You got dudes pedestalizing women who are a 3 out of 10 making them think they are at least a 7 of 10. If men start to raise their standards, women wouldn't be so inclined to have theirs that high.

https://brightside.me/inspiration-relationships/men-claim-they-face-more-unrealistic-beauty-standards-than-women-and-studies-confirm-it-798239/

MCheetah · Answer

The worst part is, that bitch is fat and ugly. And there's nothing wrong with either, but don't be a 3 demanding a 10. That's complete bullsh*t and yes, women do this all the time. Blame all the simps (beta males) of the world who keep putting pussy on a pedestal, as if these same women would ever do the same to you.

Also, you forgot height and ego in those requirements. If a man is less than six feet tall and not a multi-millionaire, he's literally f*cking undateable to the modern "woman" (girl, I should say). And ego before all... The more you treat a woman like sh*t, the more they want you, because they think you've got ladies beating you off less and right. Yet, you treat a woman like a normal girlfriend used to be and she treats you like dirt, because she thinks you're "needy and clingy" and "I know I can do so much better, girl!"'

Society is doomed and you all deserve it. Not only is "Idiocracy" a documentary, but so is "Children of Men." Japan started it, and Western feminism hopes to finish the job of killing the human race with a slow whimper. And yeah, I know; it's cynical and jaded AF. But look at the reality we live in.

The average modern woman's minimum standards in today's men.

What women often think are "reasonable."

If you're short (under six feet) and not cocky as f*ck and/or rich, then forget about it.

MLGbreezy · Answer

Yes cause today's modern day woman can pretty much get any guy they want. If you take and average girl that's really not doing much just going to school , no car, life goals or anything they expect a guy that's better looking with a car, there life figured out and apartment and all these personality aspects to go along with it. And they will usually get that guy too. but if you take a guy with all that and is average looking and get a girl who is pretty but still has nothing going for her she will rejected that same guy even if he has everything she's looking for just based on looks. That probably sounds confusing cause it is woman are backwards. Men let woman get what they want a little to easy these days as well but that's the way things are and no one is really willing or wanting to change it. There are some people in big name industries that call woman out on such topics. Such as Kevin Samuels, but he's one guy he's not gonna change how things are and work. Society set the ground rules and saw it as acceptable and now everyone just follows those ground rules and does their best to navigate it not much else we can do.

K-I-S-S · Answer

Yes, in a sense.

🤷‍♀️Women get judged more on looks and with age it's a bit harder to hold certain standards. Getting fit is very easy for women.

Eat same or a bit less calories than you burn, workout a bit for 5 months. Awesome shape, from a decent starting point. Hair, clothes, makeup and styling costs plenty of time and money each day.

During sex it's way more acceptable for a woman to just lay there, in few poses.

Women can be half homeless and still wanted. Some dudes are scared of successful women.

Women appeal to most men if they are easy on the eye, friendly and with a warm personality, with some smarts.

🤷‍♂️Guys have a lot harder time to get fit. Yes, losing fat is exactly as easy as with women.

Building muscle, plenty of it, for a nice V takes about 3 years of constant work, 5 days a week, better meal planning.

Guys clothes and hair work is fairly simple.

Guys are excpected to perform better and know more about what they are doing. Also a guy can't just enjoy sex and cum to quick, has to think about his naked grandma or something to help reduce the fun.

Guys are expected to provide more or decent amount. To be more successful etc.

In general guys are excpected to be smart, funny, protective, the one making the move and be interesting for her.

Not a women vs men thing, just what i have noticed.

Anonymous · Answer

No, I think people obsess over what the opposite sex says they want or what they think the opposite sex wants too much. Normal people end up with people who are on their level eventually. People end up with and fall for people who are not their ideal or usual type all the time.

For women I think that when they're young, if they're half decent looking, they can have their egos blown up when they use social media or online dating apps. They have a bunch of thirsty guys trying to get laid with them, and they do get fit good looking men trying to fuck them also.

They don't tend to keep them around because the guy has much lower standards for casual sex which is often the only reason he's talking to her, she's easy and he's horny. The girl doesn't realise this and thinks that she's on his level when she isn't. It just goes to their heads.

Then they come back later once they're nearing 30 with meltdowns like Tomi Lahren, asking where all the good men have gone. They don't think that they will but they will.

TwinTime98 · Answer

Do you think it might be possible that you’re empowering the over exaggerated, skewed and false expectations of social media? While that could possibly be the average opinion of a small percentage of vapid girls who live their lives by social media, I promise you it’s not the actual average girls opinion. The guys that impress me and get my attention are the ones with enough courage and confidence to approach me and engage in an actual conversation rather than cluttering my DM with unwanted dick pics and mindless bragging about the things they supposedly own inevitably followed by a request to see me nude. Ughhhh. Guys like that automatically get blocked. The guys that can actually ask me out and we have a good time together get to do much more than just see me naked 💋

Anna__M · Answer

Nope. The bar is low as hell nowadays. Women will applaud men for the bare minimum nowadays. What you described is mostly just a fantasy many of us have. However most women lower their standards according to the quality of men around them. Most average everyday women have average everyday men. We’ll say We want Mr. Perfect, but we know we can’t really expect that from y’all so we typically settle for Mr. Decent.

Most women’s standards are loyalty, ambition, compassion, and at least a in looks. And even these are seen as high standards by some women.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Based off what you listed,... Do i want him to—
Be attractive? Yes
Be Buff? Not required
Be Popular? Lord no, not to the point i have to share him with the world
Have money? At least enough to cover his own expenses
Be white? Its a bonus ig but I’m more than happy dating my own
Have a Big Dick? More so long than thick
Be a Big fan of my movies? Absolutely
Have Family approval? Lmao fck that

I think i have reasonable standards (not referring to what you listed above) but i like to make sure i’ve reached the standards myself before expecting someone else to have met them. For example, I can't want a guy to be crazy fit if im not crazy fit myself

MissGeorgia · Answer

This is simply what you tell yourself.

If you value someone based on their Instagram followers, you seriously need to change your priorities.
Huge dicks are overrated. Anywhere between 5 and 7 inches is enough.
Women are capable of making our own money. I have no idea how much my partner makes. I met him at the supermarket. He still works there.
I’ve never been into buff guys. I think that’s a young girl thing, something you grow out of, like the whole bad-boy attraction.
Tall... yes, but it’s not a deal breaker.

It sounds like you need to go out and meet actual girls instead of reading what other guys think girls want online.

Qdbrown · Answer

This is stupid. More than 60% of men are virgins until after age 30. That's very telling.

Back in the old days, before Tinder and social media, most men were making out before age 21. A lionshare before 18.

Women believe all men they chase, are all men, whereas they are chasing a much smaller group of very good looking and successful men. These guys have around 20-40 girls they see in a month. There other guys maybe a few to one girl. The rest no girls. The proof is in the pudding. Numbers don't lie. Don't liste to what they say, follow what they do, and listen to their bitter reactions. Men are all scum is pretty common. Men are all cheaters. Men are never available while half the other population can't even get the time of day.

Dating is non-existent, and most young people meet online for what was then unconventional meetups that are not put to dinner and a show. Now it's Netflicks and coffee. There is too much effort to go out and really meet anyone, anymore.

GrimmGothBabe · Answer

No.. I think men have more ridiculous standards because they think we can all be models and housewives and pop out kids without a single stretch mark work and raise kids and allow them not to do anything with their kids making us do all the work and staying fit and dressing nice and having big boobs and needing makeup etc. In my experience most the stereotypical stuff men think women want from a guy isn't remotely accurate. Personally I look for a good personality first looks never matter they are a bonus and I don't expect rich just able to survive is okay but what I look for most is being treated with love and respect and knowing he will put effort in and help with housework and the kids and support my rights to choose what I like to wear and vice versa.

EmmaMary · Answer

You've forgotten the... Enormous Private Island, Huge Mansion, Super Size Private Yacht, Massive Private Plane, Extremely Large Holiday Homes Around The World, oh and not forgetting all the Staff to cater and run all of this! That will do for starters. 🤗

Toast792 · Answer

It's about equal. But really, if you're looking online, this is going to be the kind of thing you see.. It's ok for people to have preferences you know, I don't see why so many people are angry about it. I'm sure eventually you will find someone who was looking for a partner like you or whatever. If they have extremely unrealistic standards, then they aren't worth your time. Those kinds of people will never be satisfied, and, lets face it, there always will be someone out there who is 'better looking' than you, and they will probably cheat. They are the kinds of people to stay away from.

Hyped_up_on_coffee · Answer

People usually end up with someone who is on their level.

On that list I don’t have racial preferences, I’m happy with buff , skinny and average , I don’t like fat. They don’t have to be rich but have a stable job. Too big on the dick size is painful , I just don’t like small. I wouldn’t force a man to watch stupid rom coms Because I don’t like them. It’s important to have a bunch of stuff in common but separate hobbies. My parents would have to like him because my sister has disappointed them in partner choice. And they definitely have to vibe with my friends.

But if you think the women in America are bad just look at the ones in China. It’s even a harder list.

JamesTara · Answer

Bro why you care. there's always rotten apples between it. These so called high standard girls are the type of girls that can't even hold a relationship because late or early even the status guy gets pissed off by them with their outstanding character. I dont have a job nor car ( have my income though and im not broke ), im chill and just do my thing and they always come to me. I've had rich girls that drive 100k mercedes come at me and girls that work at the supermarket. Its all about the vibe these girls with standards match nobodies vibe and dont really care for the person you are.

Smoothing · Answer

No, I think young women tend not to have that much standard, or if they do, it's usually ridiculous. A good amount of women who have been hurt have ridiculous standards because of fear, few are realistic. Most Grown women in their middle age know what they are talking about and most women in their sixties and above are wise.

A small amount of men have realistic standards and are good men around 40% hypothetically and the rest are just ridiculous and that goes for any age.

Some men grow up and some men don't.

RealMarek · Answer

Dating apps give us some useful insights. Young women in their 20s have higher standards than young men. They will only swipe right for a small minority of men, while on average the men swipe right for about 50% of the women. This leaves all but the highest status men out in the cold, and the most sought after men able to play the field without having to make commitments. Also, a woman in her 20s can attract a well established man in his 30s if she so chooses. This is difficult to compete with for a young man, especially if he is suffering from the extended adolescence that is common today.

However, the tables get turned when people get into their 30s. At that point, single men who have their act together and are not abusive get more difficult to find. Such men often have higher standards than women of the same age.

purplepoppy · Answer

What guys fail to understand is we CAN have high standards. The ratio of men to women on dating sites is very much in our favour and we don't have to settle for "Mr he'll do". A girl can look like a bull dog licking piss off a nettle and she'll still get tonnes of guts hitting on her online. If she wants a buff guy with money and a huge dick she'll have those guys competing for her.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes and no. Yes in that our standards tend to be based on your genetics. Muscle doesn’t actually matter that much, it’s more about your natural shoulder width and skeletal structure, height, face, hair, etc. No because while our standards are definitely higher for one night stands, they’re lower for long term relationships. A woman who is a 10 might date a man who is an 8, but I’ve never seen the opposite.

The thing you need to consider is what another comment mentioned. An ugly woman can easily get with a hot guy because of dating apps, and then the ugly woman will believe herself to be on his level because there aid a greater supply of men than women on dating apps and therefore more demand for women than men. This ego inflation will cause the woman to raise her standards. This is why often attractive women are insecure while ugly women are confident, whereas men usually seem to know where they stand for the most part.

JSmuve · Answer

I don't think they have ridiculous standards per se, they just make it difficult to get to know them. They put dating profiles online or on apps only to never use them or never respond to messages. They say that guys should approach them but do everything they can to appear unapproachable. And they say their criteria are reasonable only to ignore a guy who meets that criteria. There's a whole lot of mixed messaging coming from them and guys generally see that a lot of them respond to a guy looking like the above picture, so they assume that's the benchmark for getting a girl, which likely isn't true.

Anonymous · Answer

Dude, dude, dude. . . *shaking my head*

You are making SUCH a rookie mistake here. Are you actually suggesting that you learn ANYTHING from reading what women SAY they want in a man? REALLY? Do you HONESTLY think that matters?

If you want to find out what women want in a man do not--I repeat: do NOT ask. Instead look at what they actually DO. WHO are the getting with? What qualities do those dudes have? If you do that, you'll realize that there are a LOT more guys getting PLENTY of high quality ass than just rich, buff, white dudes with huge cocks. I'm sure THOSE dudes are doing JUST fine too, but they ain't the only ones.

mistixs · Answer

This is a cope. Most men don't fit those standards yet still manage to get girlfriends. "Women have impossible standards" is what some men tell themselves to feel better about the fact they can't get a girlfriend.

Mamamialetmego · Answer

Yes when it comes to sexual selection women have higher standarts than men have. Because sperms are cheap and men don't have much investment but women have limited eggs and greater investment therefore they have to be very careful and highly selective when it comes to sex.

But for long term relationship or partnership women don't value looks much they just want security, lifestyle and little bit love and attention.

But at the end if you want women truly desire you sexually and have passionate sex with you then you need to be good looking. You need to be someone who is genetically superior. Like tall height, fit body with a good frame and most importantly handsome face.

katyya_lov25 · Answer

I like normal looking guys, preferably healthy looking and honestly looks to me don’t matter as much. I’ve dated chubby guys before. and I just don’t really care all that much about body type, like I’m not looking for a Calvin Klein model out of a magazine. I think it’s opposite actually, men go for the looks first, women look to see how much attention he gives her, how into her he really is and if he’s like a manly man, is that makes sense.

Leavesbound · Answer

All the women I have dated have had some pretty impossible standards. My standard is she should be nice all the way around but especially to me. she should love me. I'd like her IQ to be similar or better than mine. Most of the rest is just window dressing though nice hair is a plus if she lets me play with it and as for body, well I like big butts and don't care much about the rest of her body. There are a lot of women with big butts who are single.

goldenlily947 · Answer

Honestly I never really think of it I met this guy's and just went through a year dating he is chubby and honesty I'm the complete opposite I hate really buff guys... not to mention their faces I don't know seems kinda fake most of the time... and honesty I do not care about dick size..

Dinklex3 · Answer

That's funny. A lot of females say that on social media, but I see plenty of unfit, poor couples all the time. Try getting offline and taking a step into the real world.
& there's nothing wrong with wanting to find your partner attractive and financially stable.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Social media not the real world.

it’s a self fulfilling curse social media.

it promotes perfection when in the real world that’s likely 1 in 100,000 people.

if a person goes to a club, pub etc, they see real people doing real stuff, going to the toilet and taking shits, having bad hair and clothes days.

the more people even bother about perfection on social media or continue to promote you must have this body, do these things, the more challenges society will face.

Not_Average · Answer

Sure I can see that. Women today have a ridiculous ego cultivated by simps willing to do anything to fuck them. I just can’t stand when men hold themselves to low standards. We can’t control the size of our dick but we can control how much money we have and can workout and acquire a physique like the one in the picture.

livin_hi_808 · Answer

Geez. Who hurt you bro. Relax. You'll bounce back they're not all after those things. Hey some girls go for guys who have NONE of those qualities. Or any qualities lol. You should either lower your standards or raise them to find someone right for you bro. Good luck.
Guys usually have a more outspoken shallowness but women can be just as bad. It's a maturity thing, not what sex they are.

HawkPerception · Answer

I don't think women have incredibly high standards in terms of looks unless it's dating sites. Most women tend to go for the top 5% of men on dating sites.

I do think that their standards are extremely high in most other categories though. Confidence, income/job, humor, generosity, etc.

They don't really care about you being "nice" even though they all say they do. Confidence is what basically gets your foot in the door and keeps them interested in you.

TDeans1987 · Answer

Out of the 7 things you mention on things that women are apparently looking for I have 4.

I will let your imagination attempt to figure out which.

I wonder if 4 out of 7 is enough. I have been single for a while so maybe not. Women do tend to have higher standards than men. I don't think there is any particular reason. Its just that more men chase women than the other way around so women have more options and can afford to be picky. Most men do not have that luxury.

jshm2 · Answer

Don't be silly.

There is nothing wrong with thinking you have "standards". It's whether you're in league to get those standards that count.

Hence why people with big lists of "standards" tend to end up as incels and femcels.

JDavid25 · Answer

I think there's a fairly gray area to this.. A lot of women do have ridiculous standards, society has made women feel like they deserve the best even if they are not much themselves.. But there's a lot of women with normal standards.. I would say most women have normal, maybe slightly higher standards, if you are not trying to date them online..

NotARobberYet · Answer

If anything, I think American women have very low standards in real life, no matter how they pretend otherwise on social media. They dream about getting a 10/10 guy and keep him, but the reality is that they'll fuck around with dozens of 6/10 guys before settling down with a loser.

valentina4eva · Answer

no def not, men’s standards are waaaay higher!!😵😵

DiscomfortZone · Answer

You have obviously been rejected one too many times and have been having difficulties finding a date. Otherwise, I can't imagine why you'd say such nonsense. It's same as saying men on average demand a perfect figure, healthy hair, big breasts, tight pussy and other such crap.

cth96190 · Answer

Based on what I have seen women say on YouTube, a significant number on women have unachievable standards, especially about height.
I have seen commentators in the Manosphere crunch the numbers to arrive at a figure for how many men meet a female’s demands.
What the delusional women appear to be unable to understand is that the tiny number of men who conform to the criteria can have women who are 10 to 15 years younger and much better looking than the delusional women.

Siren777 · Answer

LOL
Absolutely! Women have ridiculous standards and men have these crazy standards too but that doesn't mean they settle with that particular person or even date that person as people have different taste.

MzAsh · Answer

He’s fit but that doesn’t really even begin to qualify him as a potential partner.
He could still easily be a pos person.
Women need to look less on looks and money and more into a man’s attitude, behavior, and character.

Anonymous · Answer

Men are inherently ridiculous and our standards are totally reasonable so men will blame that our standards have problem because we ain't taking any pest with us.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think so. I think some men are too eager to get laid and any warm wet whole will do -and peer pressure only makes it worse- while we're expected to have 'standards' and not act 'like men' otherwise we're 'sluts'. Also the media portrays ridiculous stereotypes of feminity and masculinity so it's no wonder some women and men have a warped view of what a partner should be like

Hopelessromantic182 · Answer

I see more attractive women with average looking guys than average looking women with attractive men, so from my point of view it’s a no.

Anonymous · Answer

Eh I have to disagree that girls standards are more ridiculous. I think both average men and women have ridiculous standards tbh. Some of these ugly or average looking men expect to get a hot super model girlfriend who's extremely skinny like Kendall Jenner or someone like that. I'd say it's equal.

RingOfFire · Answer

"Do you think on average, women have more ridiculous standards than men?"

I don't know about "ridiculous" but I would say higher standards yes.

Why? Because they can. Men are hornier and need to get sex. They settle for a lot less as long as they can get it. Women can hold out for more because they don't need it as much. Even average women have a million guys who want sex with them. So they can be pickier.

Anonymous · Answer

I see more attractive women with average and even downright ugly men than the other way around. So no. Women have been painted as picky and judgmental in the media when in reality they are easily swayed by romance and personality.

DWornock · Answer

Because guys date down for sex but don't marry down, girls can date guys out of their league. Therefore, their standards tend to be the hottest guys that will fuck them and to reject guys within their league that would want more than a brief sexual relationship with them.

art84 · Answer

I think the average women does have higher standards but not based on a guy being buff or popular as far as qualities go. I am sure the women was buff or fit then she go for a man who had a similar body build. Being attractive will open doors and having money as well.

EssenceOfLight · Answer

If I would offer you date with a solid 7/10 girls and 10/10 full tuned bimbo with silicone implants, I guess you will pick the second one even if you know your chances for a relationship with that girl are practically zero. Why? Because you're wishing to become someone special for that second girl. This isn't different with "female standards" as you call it. It's just wishes

MountAverage · Answer

I don't find any standards riduculous, to be honest. As long as you're aware of how they lower your chances of finding someone who meets them, it's totally fine. Everyone should be free to strive for whatever they want to. Why does this piss off so many people? I don't get it.

EarnestBaly · Answer

😂 this is so far from most women's actual desires in a partner that it's not even funny. Whoever posted this is obviously a virgin as well, I say that due to the big dick comment, when your experience is just limited to porn it can give you some unrealistic ideas about sexual preferences haha. Maybe you're an incel?

_Troian_ · Answer

Most of them do yeah, thats because demand on women in society is very high about it. That makes women a bit sassy and makes them think ''they can get whoever they want whenever they want'' but when they actually come across to a real man and not a sissy fag, then they understand how actually it is.

kannettava · Answer

I've never heard anyone, man or a woman have ridiculous standards. Most people want really basic things from their partner.

Anonymous · Answer

No. We’re the ones having to raise your demon spawn on our own because your a loser who can’t keep a job or wants to game with your mates all the time.

It’s fair for us to have high standards.

(Cue downvotes)

Just_call_me_Levi · Answer

Read some of the girls reactions, don't need to add anything more. 😌

All joking aside, I know I have high standards, but not nearly as high as the standards I put on myself. And many guys just look for hookups. Are standards as low when it comes to something serious? I genuinely can't say...

JustACuriousLady · Answer

No. Men believe they are worth more than they are. That's the disparity.

ElvenMr · Answer

I feel the same way. It maybe be a little generalization, but it's needed to get the point across, and even with exaggeration many still don't get it, why it's a problem.

We know that an average girl will get tons of attention from guys, meanwhile an average guy will get almost no attention from girls (aka not up to standard...)

If that picture in OPs post is what some womens standards are, then they are a bit ridiculous.

Ninjazzed · Answer

No, considering men expect women to be attractive, overly feminine, petite, shorter, younger, busty, big-assed, curved, cooking skilled, ambitious, horny 24/7, child rearers, independent.. all while getting 8 hours of sleep.

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Do you think women today have absurdly high standards for men?

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