Why did my boyfriend say I needed to “shred him to pieces”? (Page 2)
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If the guy at work isn't backing off, Adam thinks he may only get the message if you are harsh. The coworker likely thinks he can eventually win you over if you and Adam hang out with him.
You need to put an end to this before it gets out of hand. Block this guy from your phone and tell him to get lost. If he doesn't your boyfriend needs to pay him a visit.
If the guy is being persistent with you and not abiding by your wishes to leave you alone then your boyfriend is right. You'll have to be firm and harsh. If he still keeps bothering you then your boyfriend needs to step in and talk to him.
Hannah
He just wants you to make it clear, that you’re not interested. He’s mad. He feels if you did shred him, then he’d be sure of your love.
Hannah!
You should never have told Adam about this guy and what happened. I think you knew that Adam would go off. Ask yourself, if you wanted to see him get jealous?
I think your boyfriend needs to be extremely harsh with him, not you. That's what a man does. But I'm old school.
Yes, Please be gentle when rejected him. I have had a few women let me down in a not so gentle way. It is not a good feeling. I know that you will do the right thing. You are a beautiful woman with a kind heart.
Maybe he doesn't want the guy to get too attached or he could be jealous or both
Maybe hopes that you will choose him over your boyfriend , that does sound kind of shady
He wants you to be harsh because he seems like that's the only way that guy will stop bothering you.
And I don't think your co worker's plan for you three to hang out as a good idea.
He just wants to build more connection with you
He just really doesn't like him by the sound of it so I don't blame your boyfriend, He shouldn't be hitting on you if you have a boyfriend so I'm with your Boyfriend, I would hate him aswell I think.