Why are there more men who find fat women attractive compared to the amount of women who find fat men attractive?

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weasley8 · Accepted Answer

When women gain weight it tends to go to their boobs, their bum, and their thighs. They've "curvy," larger but still maintaining the hourglass shape that society loves. When men gain weight they end up with a beer belly. The fat also covers up part of their genitals, effectively causing it to shrink in usable size. I'm not saying that to be judgmental. I'm saying it because you asked, and I'm very sympathetic to guys who struggle with their weight.

But I wouldn't say that it's always the case. I think it depends on where they gain the weight. I've known quite a few guys with the linebacker type build who have no shortage of women falling at their feet. The reason being that while they may be heavier, they are tall, and they still seem somewhat healthy and strong. There are also women who gain weight without it balancing itself in the way I mentioned above. Who gain weight without gaining big boobs or a big butt. And they have a lot of trouble in the dating world. Because their proportions aren't what a lot of guys are looking for.

zed-789 · Accepted Answer

Multiple things play a roll here. If fat chicks r the only chicks u can get pussy from, guys change their standards to suit that. It can also be cultural. Some cultures see bigger woman as more fertile. It can also be biological. Many men get with women that r like their mothers. If ur mom was very loving towards u that might play a part in loving big women. Men love a good home cooked meal. Not saying skinny girls can’t cook but a big girl can definitely cook. How u think she got big and stayed big? And then there is sex. A big guy with an average dick will short himself some inches being over weight making his dick seem smaller than it actually is and can affect his over all sexual performance. Now with a big girl, as long as she has good hygiene, how fat she is usually doesn’t affect how her pussy feels. (I’ve never heard a guy say a pussy was too fat but when again I don't know this gives me an idea for my next question actually)

HiveBee · Accepted Answer

Recently i have met a small group of men who love obese women. Not just thick or chunky but OBESE AF.

I learned they like them for kinky reasons. A huge fat woman can sit on them, and they dont have the power to push her off cuz she's too fat.

It's literally a submissive fetish for some men into huge obese women.

For me personally I like all kinds of women. From very thin, to thick and chunky.

I dont know why I have such a wide range of taste.

But for thick n chunky girls I dunno. They are still sexy. But there is a limit. I dont like super obese women.

BCA6010 · Accepted Answer

Considering how many reasonably attractive and likeable women I know who have dated and married chunky men, and the exclusively low-self-esteem men I know who married chunky women, I question the validity of the statement if it's based on anything other than porn downloads.

No doubt there's an entire fetish industry built on fat women though. It's probably one of the biggest (no pun intended).

The_Maphio · Answer

I'd bet a sum on desperation. A cute enough face and they'd let their standards hit rock bottom.
If you ask me, sex should come naturally, and not as a speleologic venture to find a pussy hidden by countless folds of lard. Quite disgusting, innit?

Hyped_up_on_coffee · Answer

I assume it’s because men are more likely to be feeders. Women who like big men usually tend to like them for cuddles , not because they find fat to be a sexual object. Men who are chubby chasers usually have specific fat related fetishes. All of these fat activists sometimes mention not wanting to be fetishized

BADballie1 · Answer

FAT WOMEN ARE NOT ATTRACTIVE, all the hot dog's fries soda drinks are a rubbish bin for your bodies. Who wants to roll away the FAT before he gets to the vagina, no not ME, body odor lol lol Masturbating is far cleaner than that, watching porn will help. No porn stars a FAT>>>>>>>>>>>

Exterminatore · Answer

I don’t think there are a lot of men who truly, if you get to the bottom of it, find fat women attractive. Men have more testosterone and therefore higher sex drives. What you’ve got more often than not are guys who will settle to satiate their urges. If women’s sex drives were higher and men’s were lower men would be a lot more choosy due to not as acute of a need for sex.

benedict1111 · Answer

wow thats a doosey of a question. I must admit i prefer the slightly larger woman rather than the slim. i have found that slimmer women have more to moan about but larger women seem more jolly and laid back and just get on with life. I really am not sure about why women are the opposite. maybe they just dont want their hips dislocated when making love to a fat guy in the missionary position

DaisyM23 · Answer

I dunno, i feel like it’s a double standard where it’s praised more with women, but that could just be because it’s women uplifting other women... but fat is also kinda subjective and there are plenty of women who get with bigger men anyways

Anonymous · Answer

Large women have big jugs and bosoms. Large men have... well their dick doesn’t change size... so I don't know you do the math

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know anyone who actually thinks that women this fat are sexy.
I think that's just something that fat woman have said ad nauseam to make themselves feel better, to the point that people have started to believe it.

There are a lot of this girls who ARE sexy, but apparently dad bods are as well.

But I think the people who find extremely overweight people attractive are rare.

jasco · Answer

I don't know where you got this information but it's for sure false. Most men don't like fat women, we like cubby women who are skinny but not to skinny. Most women are kinda the same but they want more muscles I guess

Anonymous · Answer

It's simple. Guys like huge boob, huge ass, huge thighs which are all characters of such woman. Plus in most such woman their face tends to always remain slim and pretty

slatyb · Answer

Why do you believe that? I think it's the opposite.

warrenstone · Answer

I don’t know very many men who find fat women attractive. Just because she’s on the cover of a magazine doesn’t mean that magazine speaks on the behalf of men.

Avicenna · Answer

Because women are more demanding than men when it comes to a partner

Truthatanycost · Answer

Estrogen is about fat... testosterone is about muscle...

Anonymous · Answer

its because no matter the size, makeup can make anyone pretty and men dont have that. also photoshop and sexualisation in media but thats beside the point right

Lone_wolf122 · Answer

Because men are animals duh ... you just don't get us, do you?

kingofthellamas · Answer

It might be innate. In hunter gather days, having a fat voluptuous wife would signal you are a good provider.

RCLJT · Answer

Women, even large women ALL have that magic box between their legs. Fat men have too much pubic and belly fat to even find their penis

Ripper_E · Answer

Because women have higher standards than men. I'm attracted to fat women, but not as fat as Tess.

sixtyeightplusone · Answer

I don't think this is true at all just that the media wants you to believe it so they can sell shit to dumb fat women. Also many men will settle to get access to a vagina

Anonymous · Answer

Because women have more sexual currency than men. Unless were talking about guys that look like girls

Massageman · Answer

I - for one- do not find the cosmo cover girl from Oct 2018 attractive.

Anonymous · Answer

There are some men who fetishize giant asses and big boobs but they are a very small minority and there is nothing else appealing about obese women.

itsdeaaa_94 · Answer

If she didn't have tattoes she wouldn't be so appealing. I mean her body. Bonus the pretty face. Otherwise without them guys wouldn't like her. Talking about the girl on the cover.

JamieLoves · Answer

She gross, disgusting, tattooed... No one wants that pile of crap 💩

Anonymous · Answer

Because men are hornier and some of them are so desperate they'll fuck anything.

Alpha4U · Answer

Most men are desperate and simps.  only few men are doing good in terms of looks, financial... etc

wonderfulstation404 · Answer

im not even Asian but please come to china and repeat the same question lol 😂😂

legalboxers · Answer

I like fat women. Plain and simple. FIGHT ME ON IT!

Holly_04 · Answer

As a women, I don't find fat men attractive. Neither do I find fat women attractive though.

Archerer · Answer

I’ve seen a man fuck a car’s exhaust pipe...

_Just_A_girl_ · Answer

How can you know that lol

DamnSam · Answer

Said who? Surreal beauty magazines?

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Because there are lots of beta simp men.

WoodNymph · Answer

I think that the exact opposite is true.

Anonymous · Answer

bbws and ssbbws are mostly into chocolate boys

IveGotNoName · Answer

Are there?

Nazgol · Answer

Because "sex" sells

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In_Trance · Answer

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