What is your idea of a perfect date?

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InventorofWarp · Accepted Answer

We spend the whole day together: I take her to lunch, take a walk through the city maybe show her some of my favourite spots, people watch and see some beautiful scenery. Or she shows me some of her favourite spots since it's more likely that the woman I end up with will know the city better than me, I don't intend to stay in my hometown and I'm not a fan. Then again I know my way around Toronto, Montreal, Halifax, Calgary, Winnipeg and Edmonton to some degree. Ironically my favourite city, Vancouver, I'm not quite as familiar with but still have my areas I love.
Eventually (since this is my idea of my perfect date), either she asks me back to her place or I ask her back to mine. Since I always have the most innocent intentions at heart, it's just to enjoy a nice evening and not for any sex stuff. We watch some of my favourite shows or hers. I show her my childhood pictures (or she shows me mine, I have pictures of me as a boy in my wallet so I could still show her some) and then I make her an awesome meal, probably my signature maple-tinged stir fry or fettucine alfredo with seasoned bacon and asparagus. Afterwards I play her a song on my piano and we retire to the bedroom and lie down together telling each other stories of our lives and things that happened as kids and how we got here to where we can finally look at each other and be together as who we are now, all the good and the bad, all the past.
And I look in her eyes and I know that she sees me, all of me. The boy I was, the man I am, the man I could be. And I see her in her entirety, that little girl, that young woman, the woman she could be.
And then we just fall asleep like that lying next to each other. And in the morning I make her breakfast in bed and we part ways until the next time we see each other. And hopefully we repeat until eventually we add in being physically intimate with each other... trusting each other enough. That I feel comfortable enough to show her every part of me. All my scars, all my ink. I feel warm and safe enough to know she won't hurt me.

That's my idea of a perfect date. But then I also live in a romantic fantasyland where I'm a hero in a rom-com looking for Mrs. Right so I can be her shining white knight to sweep her off her feet.

TheSpaceGnome · Accepted Answer

Couch co-op/vs in a challenging video game that also lets me and her be creative.

A super comfy massive couch that feels soft enough and is big enough for 2 people to get rested sleep on easily, big blankets that are breathable, and cooling pillows.

All internet devices unplugged/turned off, blackout curtains closed in the house, doors locked so no one can disturb us.

Soft overhead lights, tons of blinking multicolor Christmas lights everywhere in the room, no alcohol, no drugs, nothing that makes smoke, a huge feast on the coffee table of our top 10 favorite foods plus typical comfort food, a fake fireplace thats actually a very convincing LED/LCD screen. Electric heat turned to mid 60s, a cool mist humidifier turned up enough to make the air feel clean like it just got done raining.

Music, furniture and decorations that makes the place feel like a cozy luxery cabin in a fantasy world, and ending the night binging anime/cartoons in our pajamas.

Also depending on how far into the relationship we were, me and her also might be naked the whole time and be doing whatever that leads to at that point in time.

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

Breakfast/lunch at a coffee shop just to have a good chat because i dont eat breakfast nor drink coffee lol.
Spend the afternoon at a fun loving theme park!!
Have dinner while sailing on a yacht then cuddling/making out as the sun sets.
Wake up in eachothers arms on the deck of the boat to the sunrise

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I think driving around in a van with our closest friends and visiting a coffee shop and having conversations about our favourite hobbies or interests or vacations and than having a pasta dinner with some live music.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

She laughs at all my jokes, holds my hand, thanks me for a wonderful meal, suggests we go to my place, and she spends the night. And she knows the way there, because she's already been there fifty times.

Knighted2170 · Answer

Going to a store and pretending like we are contestants on a reality show where we are getting married in three days. We need to pick stuff out for the new house we won.

Sounds crazy, but it's amazingly fun. The flirting can go into the stratosphere.

Anonymous · Answer

This movie comes pretty damn close it covers a lot of topics and as far as I know there was no sex in the movie it has been a long time since I seen the movie one of those late-night things but you see how cute the couple are crossing serious social boundaries she's valley girl and I think he is a Thrasher or something like that.

friendlypelican · Answer

coffee or somewhere fun! im not that into dinner or lunch dates- im not a foodie. i think what really determines if a date is “perfect” or not is rather the person you're meeting and if they seem like a good fit. meeting people is exciting!

sofiec · Answer

Sitting quietly while watching something or watching him do something he likes, usually followed by trying to corrupt the perfect date into a lewd date

taeh_ie2 · Answer

I never really was the type to fantasize or really think deep about dates. And I think most people think girls do that but I strangely never did and still don’t, lol. But for me as long as we are together and having a blast. I’m okay.

The_Maphio · Answer

A date that will make me think about the contents of our discussions and burnt your figure in my head long after we called it a night.

IveGotNoName · Answer

Anything that doesn't involve just sitting around eating food xD... I like doing physical on a date... no... not that, get your mind out of the gutter... Something like climbing or hiking

IAMNathanael · Answer

A bike ride and a picnic, probably. I know it could be seen as cheap... but it's the experience that matters more than the expense.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Just casually going outside and have fun with her. Maybe watch movies and go to malls and dine. That picture is what i really find cliche. The date cannot be perfect if the relationship itself isn't. If she agrees to be a best friend with benefit then our date is going to be perfect.

ceciliamrs222 · Answer

at the beach definitely on a yatchy at night with music and Italian food

Mofunfour20 · Answer

Getting it in and a peaceful experience. Why else do men go on dates? Were not getting a free meal. If a women doesn't offer me a sense of peace, CHECK PLEASE.

Joshua0213 · Answer

We drive down the backroads singing country songs, then go get something to eat, then go home and watch a movie on the projector in the back of my truck

jasco · Answer

A hike up into the mountains and having a romantic candle light dinner along with sleeping under the stares

upsettispaghetti · Answer

Hmm, I’d have to say/ movies, panda express, cruising around town, then watch the sunset and maybe star gaze if it’s a cool night

Rosie__Romero · Answer

Never been into fancy or extravagant dates. I’m pretty simple. Perfect date with my husband is staying inside and binge watching a show and eating some pizza and icecream.

ananias55 · Answer

Good food, good drinks, a blanket around us and anime.

Metalman01 · Answer

For me a perfect date isn't any activity as much as how i click with my date, and how satisfied i feel after the date

JamieLoves · Answer

I come to the door, she gets on her knees , unzips my pants , sucks me off until I cum in her mouth, she swallows , I go home.

Iron_Man · Answer

The second picture Remind me of the rusty pelican in Miami

TallAnon · Answer

Pizza, a board game, some media with a good story (game/book/movie), lots of hugging and smiling.

exitseven · Answer

A cookout on the beach on the 4th of July.

Waldoe · Answer

mmmm she shows up without attitude

Truthatanycost · Answer

Not being on one at all...

amazing07 · Answer

Dont you know about mine? 😈😈

NikolaiIvanov · Answer

Out in the forest hunting for wild game.

Bean2thousand · Answer

Her Uber comes right after I do.

msc545 · Answer

The one that never happens.

OddBeMe · Answer

Sex and home in time for Fallout.

Smegskull · Answer

36hrs undisturbed with elder scrolls 6

Anonymous · Answer

Sex. . .

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