I don't know where you live but if you like the back of a pickup truck and the Stars Black Rock Desert where they hold Burning Man is one of the most beautiful places in the world it's one of the most spiritual feelings you will ever get it night time because the stars look like they're twenty feet above your head it is so beautiful it went that's all you see when you look up are millions of stars right above your head it makes you feel a certain way it's very spiritual it's very sexy it's very hot so yeah I would I would love to do that make a bunch of food mine the back of your bed of the truck with memory foam nice down blankets big pillows and just a big smile and I'm ready to go
Any date that goes on for hours but feels like it didn't last long enough is a good date. Otherwise I'm very cliché, I live near the beach and I could beach comb for hours and hours and I consider that an enjoyable date. Other places I like are zoos and aquariums or theme parks for first one or two dates. After that concerts and movies or life theater is nice. I don't like restaurants because I don't trust quality or food safety (I'm a former sous chef and know how little most restaurant workers care about food safety) so I'm inclined to prepare dinner. I'm a good cook and better than anyone I've ever dated so I will prepare my date a nice meal early in the dating process.
I like city lights so I think a trip to Niagara Falls at night time and maybe a trip to the garden or lake side near Niagara during the day. I have not gone since the pandemic started so I do not know what it’s like now.
i really want to have a picnic in the middle of the woods and watch the sunset through the trees. or maybe go roller skating. anything active.
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The amusement park was my favorite, and especially for a first date.
I like dates that get the heart-pounding, adrenaline-pumping, and filled with lots of laughter. I'm in my 40s now and been married for over a decade, but if I was still single, I'd still want to take my first dates (even if the women are my age) to the amusement park. Also, a woman my age who is still down for riding things like rollercoasters would probably be very compatible with me (someone who still has an inner child).
Picnic in the park, followed by a stroll through town in the evening and leaving the night open ended to whatever comes our way
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Bowling we can compete and talk and get to know each other at the same time and most bowling alleys have food too.
Or a day at the lake/river/pool to pack a lunch and go for a swim
You can't go wrong with a coffee date but I prefer something we're both of us could be active and be able to laugh at each other if we mess up or to compliment each other if we succeed so something that can be playfully competitive is good too.
I do own a truck. But to your question.
I prefer to go out and have a good time at a museum of art; or head out to hike a trail, then later have a great meal; followed by a walk in the woods, enjoying the night sky. Or we could tail gate at a beach watching the moonlit waves, as they crash against the surf.
I enjoy basic, but I like to make it interesting. I like to have a little twist, and a possible surprise. The day I find the right woman, she will not see me asking her; when she hears the question, she will be blindsided. I treat all women well. Since that is my normal, they do not know just when I will surprise them.
I do like a date that ends on a good note; with the possibility of a lasting relationship. I had to stop kissing women, at the end of a date; that always ended in a very long night; and they were worth it!!! Good women, with a great heart!!!
I always like idea about some activities, so closest one for your option would be row boat in nature and calm relaxing lake, sunny day. For my own preference something like indoor rock climbing would do, tension can be focused more on activity rather than directly at eachother wich can make things super awkward fast. Any easy going relaxing activity would do.
I love the boho pics you put up. I've always dreamed of van life with a partner.
My ideal date is a hike together on a beautiful trail with some booze. Go back home order some food, have some wine and watch a movie and then have sex if we're feeling it. Maybe instead if a movie, we just chill in a bathtub while eating and having wine.
Go out for a candlelight dinner and dancing to violin music. Then we go to my place or her place, take out clothes off, take a romantic bubble bath together, have the most amazing sex and cuddle naked under a heavy blanket while we watch some funny movies.
Just casually hanging out and talking, getting to know each other, almost like two friends hanging out and having a deep conversation.
Just me and the other person, maybe in a more private area and calm, quiet environment, so not loud people in the background.
Live music somewhere. Good drink or two without getting drunk. Good vibe and atmosphere. Good kiss when it’s all done. That doesn’t mean all out sex (maybe or maybe not). But just a good feeling she likes and most importantly respects me. That is número uno mayoría importante.
I’m not going to bend over backwards for women who don’t give me a chance.
I like both pic ideas you posted, like I really do want a picnic date, one by the beach with him playing music he picked out just for me and food he got for us. And I would make him something special just for him.
We had quite a few of these. I think that my favorite was when my wife was living in a coastal town in New England and it was our third date. We had a cookout on the beach and came to the conclusion that we really did belong together.
Afterwards we went back to her house and it was the first time we made love.
I have a truck and lots of open sky here. 😉
I'm just sayin.
Just want to be with that person, I don't care where we go or what we do. Even just going on a walk would be fine with me. Or sitting next to a fireplace.
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Thanks for the great Idea.
Curling up under a blanket and watching the stars in the back of a pickup actually sounds amazing.
My boyfriend and I went to a drive in theater in his mustang. It's a convertible so we rolled the top down and just looked at the stars and ate chicken tendies.
I dont know I had never experienced not even one date so I can't tell LOL!!
Been there, done that in the desert with a pickup truck.
Picnic sounds great... on a calm winter's day so we can snuggle up as the night draws in.
Playing boardgames at 2am and everything making you laugh because of sleep deprivation then pooring a glass and watching the sunrise together with a cat on the airchair next to you
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There’s no such thing as the idea of a perfect date. If you have an idea of the perfect date or the perfect person, you’re not living for the enjoyment of the experience; you’re living believing you actually have control. The world is at large, it’s our job to just go with what it gives us.
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