Last week my girlfriend and I were waking up that morning and I couldn’t find my phone so I used her phone to call it. Snapchat was open when I got on her phone and on her memories it was a video of her with hickeys on her neck and her flaunting them. Keep in mind her and I weren’t together back when that video was taken. I talked to her about it and said that there was stuff she needs to delete and all that, and that was that. This morning though I just kept thinking and thinking about it and I went through her phone while she was asleep. I was insecure and I’ve been hurt many times in the past for stuff like this. when she woke up I was caught. I feel so guilty and wrong and disgusted and the last thing I want to do is create trust issues. So I would really like some help on how I should talk to her about this and not create trust issues and apologize
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You have to fully own your trust issues and commit to working in them. You may need some type of therapeutic resources. Then just stop the behavior. But also accept that after violating the relationship, she may not want to continue being in the relationship. Accept that. But until that happens, you need to have a long talk with her about owning your trust issues and putting in the work to eliminate them without doing any further snooping or sneaky shit. This is your problem. Do not put your issues on to anyone else.
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Don't look through the phone ezzz
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