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Because he is childish and using your things as bait for you to come see him
But i told him he could just drop it in my mailbox or put it on my step he doesn’t have to wait for me to be around to bring it
He is holding your things as a control thing , he has issues , he feels by holding onto your things will be a reason for you to keep in touch with him , you are dealing with a psycho
He's holding your belongings hostage, as a way to have contact with you, and he is obviously, from what he said, wanting to have sex with you. What he is doing is reprehensible.
Extortion. Forget that stuff or go to police. Extortion is a crime
Take it to jury. Never ever meet an ex all by yourself. You never know under what conditions someone can snap.
Get 2 big male friends. Go over to his house and get your sh*t. He’s trying to control you. Or say you will meet for a romp and when he shows up, have your friends there and force him to comply.
Control me how? And why?
Control you because he now matters. He has something that you want/need. If he gives you the stuff, you have no reason to contact him anymore.
Why?
I don’t know him, but I’m guessing that he is only thinking of himself.
What did he do?
I don't know but he seems to have some manipulative strategy in mind.
He doesn't care about you getting your stuff back. And most likely, you probably won't get it.
Why doesn’t he care … it’s my stuff
Exactly. It's your stuff, not his, so it doesn't have much to do with him.
Assess whether your 'stuff' is that important. If it is, get some help. If it's not, write it off to experience.
He's trying to keep his foot in the door you're trying to shut.
He is not ready to accept it
If you have made up your mind and don't see you'll getting back together
I would suggest taking another person with you and get your things back.
As you have been in relationship with your ex, you might have sex also , get assurance from him that he will return your stuff after having sex, then, no problem, have sex and get your stuff
He's holding your things as "hostage", hoping he can leverage his way back into your life- he's trying to run/control your life.
Take him to small claims court. Hell, Make it Judge Judy.
Either he still cares about you and hoping you take him back or he doesn't want to give you back your stuff.
Wow that’s crazy
You need to bring two large, strong male friends with you, go to his house, and get your shit. There's no other reason to communicate with him.
I don’t know where he stays he even has my house key
What? You're not making sense. On the hand, you rarely do. LOL
It sounds like he isn't ready to let go. If you are and he isn't, you might have to take him to court to get your things back.
He was with another woman he obviously is ready
Mail him notice to return your things signed receipt. If he doesn't, then you sue him in court.
I had an ex do this i guess he feels he can use it as leverage or a reason to keep talking to you I don’t know what it is but if I were you I’d tell him to keep it
he wants to trade it back to you for sex. Are you still interested in having sex with him? Sounds like he is being a jerk
Jesus crist he is using you as he always did and now latest he is using you to have free sex while holding your stuff as hostage. That will end up really badly I would not meet that guy alone anymore. That could turn really ugly.
Either try to involve the police or chalk your things up as a loss.
Sounds like he is holding your things ransom till you have sex with him. Ask some male friends to come with you unannounced, and get your things back.