Like for me the youngest is 3 years max and oldest is 6-7 years but i prefer 3-4 older than me This case is different if you're a grown asss man hitting on underage girls saying you got no control nah lmao you're a pedophile should be in imprisoned, this question is for decent ass people, as for my age now 16// I'd only take 19 below
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Some of these people creeps me how they would date an age of their daughter 🥴, anyways be honest LoL
What's your age limit to the people you want to date?
For now stick with someone your own age, no more than a year or so. You are at a strange age where it's suspect to deviate in either direction.
In fact I wouldn't be concerned about dating if I were you. Focus on graduation and discovering what you want to do with your life.
Now someone my age I can go 10 up or down, but I'd rather someone between the same to 5 years older. If I meet someone I'm compatible with I'm not sure if finding out he's more than 5 years older will change anything.
Well for one thing you need to figure out what a pedophile really is. It is someone who likes girls before they reach puberty so get a clue. Also don't be so judgmental. And I will have you know I am quite decent thank you very much.
When I was 23 I dated and married my first wife, she was 16 and we had our first child when she was 17. We were married for 18 years. After my divorce I was 42 and dated a Goth Bi Witch who was 19 years old. She was awesome and she taught me a lot. I was stuck back in the 1960's and she brought me out to the 1990's and introduced me to the Pagan religion, and Goth scene and all sorts of new bands. It about killed me keeping up with her but I loved it. She took me to Gay clubs and introduced me to that lifestyle. She finally left for New Orleans to become a street performer and I didn't want to go with her.
Later when I was 50 I had an affair with a 33 year old married woman. That was pretty awesome. I also had a relationship with a 40 year old stripper when I was 52. My present wife is the closest to my age that I ever dated, she was 50 and I was 55 when we started dating and finally got married.
Unfortunately like many things in life people set arbitrary standards without rational reasons. Age being own if them, personally. Anyone over the age of consent I’d consider dating if I was ever single again. Granted don’t think I’d be able to relate to many young adults but who knows.
Limiting yourself arbitrarily just sets you up for failure. My wife is 5.5 years older than me. Imagine if she has said no because she set an arbitrary age limit. We’d both be single and our 3 children wouldn’t exist. That’s horrible to think about, let your heart lead you and don’t be afraid of what anyone else thinks. They don’t matter; haters gonna hate.
After careful review of the answers I better not answer this one. I have a girlfriend who is younger, but has an incredible mind and very mature air about herself. She is very independent and strong willed. Those are the characteristics I fell for when we meet. Her opinion of our age difference is that it is just a number.
I agree with her, the most important issue surrounding a relationship is compatibility and willingness to be open with your dialogue. All issues are fair game to discuss.
How long we stay together will not be predicated on either of our ages.
ALL in the definition of what activities constitute 'dating' AND nobody's business beyond those participating IN that 'date'~
I am soon to be seventy years old... I have paid expenses to enjoy the company and perspectives of females as young as seven (taking them for ice cream or lunch); that is NOT to say I was seeking to 'bed' them. In SOME instances, they have elected to hug, snuggle and/or kiss me unsolicited as THEY deemed appropriate
The younger companion ALWAYS reserves the right to define the range and extent of their physical contact. The more senior companion in turn, reserves the right to determines FOR THEMSELF (and NO others) whether their interaction met their needs and expectations. "Honi soit qui mal y pense"
For me it comes down to you both being comfortable with the gap, and compatibility.
Being compatible, stuff in common etc is more important with larger gaps.
There is also the fact ages are a bitch to guess at.
she looks 30, means she could be 25 or 35 type range and some even outside thst.
this means your initial attraction etc is based on the person.
I've dated from 20’s upwards.
people are people.
The hardest age is when you are 20, as you still interact with under 18’s and on a night out will meet and chat to girls that are 15,16 out in a pub or club. A nightmare for 20 yr old guys lol.
I was never comfortable dating outside a few years of my age. As I'm not into sex outside a long term relationship and wanted children, I divorced at 30 but i kept up hope till 35 but only if they approached me, I was tired of immature silly games, women playing "hard to want" and "he's got to do x..."
Online dating is a waste of time for men other than to turn us off of wanting a relationship. Good luck guys that wanted a long term partner in life, the only happy guys I know are single dads.
I prefer older. Minimum five years older and max 10. If it gets more than 18 years older then it’s like it’s your dad because they’re close in age with your dad and it’s close to a generation’s gap. My dad would have had his first child at 21 but I am his firstborn and he had me at 26. Most fathers I know had their firsts between 21-27 so it is definitely weird to date someone 18+ years oldee.
As a musician who is also an older guy, I'll interact with people of all ages and sometimes flirt etc. with younger people depending on the context, but no way in hell will I go around specifically chasing people a whole lot younger.
That said, my partner is a fair bit younger, but she's also very settled and mature minded and we're a pretty good fit, so age was never really thought of much.
I like the answer of half +7yrs as a general rule though, which puts my lower limit (at least for dating to initially cross my mind) somewhere in their 30s. It still really depends on the person though.
For me age is tricky.. especially when a lot of women lie about their age. I usually base my interest on someone based oh how they carry themselves and if they look attractive and seem well rounded as a person, and easy going. I try to encourage and uplift people on here even if they’re too young to date but I’d never start a relationship with someone if I didn’t think they were old enough to actually develop a relationship into something real. I don’t think I could go lower than 19 though and that’s only because I met one 19 year old who had a very old soul and had been through a lot.
There are two sides to this. The first is obviously the legal aspect and the second is the moral side. For example I see questions constantly asking about whether can a 21 year old can date a 40 year old. I personally wouldn't entertain the idea, but that breaks no laws, I just see it as not something morally I would do.
I think for me it's 5 years under me. I somehow get really uncomfortable just even thinking about dating someone older then me, even by just one year older. Maybe 20 year olds could be fine too in rare cases, if somehow we have the same mindset and everything.
However i do find some women who are like like 3+ or sometimes more older really hot, but it's kind of rare.
My age range preference is constantly changing for me by the way, so who knows how it'll change in the future.
I'm currently 20 (turning 21 this year) so I'm still relatively young but I think the very max is 3 years in either direction. My reasoning for this is because my younger brother is 3 years younger than me so if I were to date someone who was 3 years younger than me, they'd be in my brothers age range and that just seems kinda weird to me. I'm sure as I get older I won't find the idea of a 3 year age gap as weird since right now people 3 years younger than are 17 and thats a total no go, but I think beyond 3 years it gets iffy no matter what the age because with a larger age gap you lose shared childhood experience from not growing up in the same at the same time.
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For your update it's nothing creepy.
Actually it's just attraction 🧲 .
It's doesn't happen with everyone but it does commonly happen why nobody knows hardly anybody acknowledges it's common but not as common.
Actually it maintains the balance the girl mostly submissive want someone to guide her so they choose older men than them it makes there life easier.
Maturity level matches and sometimes people just click.
But in noway I am in support of dating underaged girls by anyone.
But if you see it's the girls that are attracted by older men they are the ones that approach more than the older guys approaching young people.
Lol the guys approached you , I didn't deny or say it didnot happen or doesnot happen.
I said it's more from women or girls end bc if they do it it's offer if the guy thinks of that then his creep and other stuff.
If they are in relationship most likely is that girl initiated it.
Let's consider your example since you volunteered 🤣 so you rejected those dudes right and are not in relationship so it's in your hands mostly or more likely your decision. And how do you feel about men old enough to be your dad approaching you. Or think in terms of young girl infatuated to that old guy how would you feel then?
Now same goes with other girls and if they had an attraction towards that guy and they approached there is hardly any guy that would not take that offer if younger than 16 they wait or girl asks to wait there is an live example on this Gag itself although guy is not that old but old enough near to her fathers age give or take 5 years from her fathers age I won't take names but it's truth
No one younger than 21 (18-21). No one older than 39 unless they're VERY special. I think of women as being old and crusty by the time they hit 34. Women age worse than men do, even if they live longer.
My ideal age range for women is 23 to 30. Mentally and spiritually, I feel like I'm 25, myself.
Youngest is I think 21, but I'm typically not attracted to guys 21 and younger. The oldest I would go is 33 I think, but only if we can still relate to eachother.
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You do realize that if you are only 16, you can't date adult men. Age definitely matters when you are still a kid/teen. Any adult that wants to date underage girls would be a pedophile. It is definitely not safe for a 16 year old to date adults, especially not 20+ year old men. It is a completely different situation if you are an adult in your 20's and you are into men 4+ years older but that's because you would be mentally mature enough to handle an adult relationship.
Oh well in your post it sounded like you were open to dating men 6) or 7 years older because that's what you said. I guess I wanted you to be aware that it is unsafe to date adults at your age. Lol
Uh... I'm 25 and also an adult. It's probably better if you avoid calling guys my age 'daddy' since most would try to get in your pants after that... lol 😅
I am attracted to a 23 year old at the moment. I have been talking to her for years online and finally found out who she is. Bad part she is in a relationship so it will never go anywhere. but I have always believed age is a state of mind, Even if your young you have something to offer, because everyone's experiences are different.
I don't prefer younger girls, I prefer the girls same age as mine. But however if she is one younger then me then it's ok. But if very younger than me I really don't prefer it unless she's an exception.
by the way way my current partner is one year older than I am. But we both are compatible so it isn't really a problem.
I have a hard time with immaturity so I try to aim a few years older than me but I would consider someone around 8 years younger (I'm 28) if they displayed an advanced level of maturity or intelligence for their age
im 17 and i would generally choose anything between 1 year younger or 5 years older, i've heard that women mature earlier than men thats why i wouldn't go below 1 year younger and honestly if u two click then age is just a number, and ofc both of them should be above legal age of consent, so if it feels right and ur both 18+ then its fine in my opinion
no more than 1 yr younger to maybe like 1 1/2 years older, but obviously it can change as i get older. for now i'm neither a child nor an adult so i wouldn't think of dating either
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