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I can give you some tips. First, its all about the lips. Use them like they were sex organs. In other words, caress the other person's lips with yours. Use your lips to softly nibble on the other persons lips. Lick the other person's tongue gently. You're not trying to drill a hole with your tongue. Use your tongue to tickle the inside of the other person's mouth. Don't smack your lips either. In fact it's best if you don't make any sound with your lips at all or at least try not to. Seal your lips to the other persons lips with each of your mouths tilted about 45 degrees. Do not kit the other person's teeth with yours. Do not try to breath for them. You are making out not doing resuscitation. It's OK to sigh or moan in pleasure in fact it's encouraged. Try not to bite anything, especially the other person's tongue, unless they invite you to. Some people like getting bitten but most don't. Try not to drown them in your saliva but expect that they will swallow some of your spit and you will be swallowing some of theirs. It can't be helped.
Brush your teeth and use mouth wash. don't eat spicy food or anything with garlic in it prior to making out. The exception is if you and your partner both eat identical meals.
Don't forget to use your hands. You can caress almost anything on a guy and it will feel good.
Most of the ladies I have been in relationships have been great kissers!! When I asked them how they learned that, most said other girl friends, and sleep-overs, and a lot of blushing, and insecurity! LOL!!
Why? So what if a lot of girls practice kissing with their friends, when it makes them really GREAT, kissing, with me later!!
It's not like girls "playing" with each other is any kind of taboo, or 'strange' like 30 years ago!!
I actually quite like their stories, and I know some are a bit exaggerated, but so what?
The bottom line: SHE KNOWS HOW TO KISS, and WOW!!!
I've been with two horrible kissers and it was a turn off. Especially one of them was very promiscuous so I will mention that you won't automatically be good just because you've kissed a lot.
What can help you is to relax and follow the flow when you do kiss. Enjoy it and have fun with it.
I remember before I had my first kiss, I practiced on my arm a lot.
uhh not a guy lol but i've read stuff about if you say the word "olive" while kissing it can be a good technique. as for trying to practice... maybe try going on dating apps and meet guys for flings? I don't know how its possible to practice w/o a partner involved
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Okay first of all give yourself a break. Let's play pretend for a minute let's pretend that you and I just met and we started dating. And didn't you told me you didn't know how to kiss or you had never been kissed I would smile and I would say, let's try I would so very gently and softly put my lips on yours barely even touching them I would take my bottom lip and slide it up to your top lip pulling up on it and out I would just look at you. I would say let's do it again I would barely put my lips on yours I would maybe touch your top lip with the tip of my tongue and then maybe kiss you deep. And I guarantee you you know how to kiss back because my energy would be flowing through your body the moment my breath touches your breath you become one it says if the other person has just entered into your body you will never forget that feeling. I would take your hand walk towards my bed I would lay down on my bed pulling you down on top of me and I would say practice makes perfect kiss me do it anyway you want to whatever makes you feel good to it try all different ways and then it's going to be my turn to kiss you. We all have an energy within us that connects with other that we like both energy connect and become one and it is so very beautiful there's no right way wrong way to kiss is whatever happens in that moment do you know what to do because it just flows in that moment there is an art to kissing but you kiss different with every person relax your time is coming don't rush it because it is a most beautiful thing you will feel as suburban energy inter's into your body if you have any questions just send me a message I will answer
I would actually think it was cute. I would also be happy that I would be the first and hopefully only guy to kiss her. Ironically I actually hope my girlfriend is a virgin as well (although that's nearly impossible at 25) because I want to be the only guy to touch her. I am actually in the same boat as you. I have never dated, kissed, or slept with any women yet because I was born with a birth defect that made it impossible to date until my birth defect was fixed with surgery. I know how to kiss and what to do but if you don't I would suggest watching a video showing you how to do soft kisses and French kisses (with tongue). You could use an object to practice with like a mannequin head, doll, ball, or pillow. At least that's what some teenagers do when they start dating. If the guy is nice he might take the lead and show you how, that's what I would do if I had a girlfriend.
Hell no! Id be glad to teach her. Im a great kisser every girl i kiss says so! Lol.
You dont need to know shit honey. You dont!
How to kiss? ENJOY IT!!!
I like girl. Girl pretty. I like kiss pretty girl. I like look in her eyes, i like feel her lips, i like to be close to her.
Enjoy it. Indulge in the other person. Absorb the pleasure that is to be in their company and to touch and kiss them.
The technique is whatever. Its all about passion. You can learn techniques later i guess lol.
Yeah you will be fine , you shouldn't worry about this as whoever you get with if they're serious enough about you they won't care , kissing comes from experience its littro abit of practice once you have a decent partner who will stay you can learn to kiss to make the feeling last as long as you possibly can , but yes it can still be romantic to fail a kiss bc its sweet , but yes it can be a turn off if its lin a sexual way , but if your learning then just get someone who gunna treat u right and make sure b4 u jump into it , you wouldn't wanna waste time on someone whos not gunna give u time 😊
The few people I have kissed including guys were pretty good, except for one especially bad person but it wasnât a huge deal we just kept kissing each other goodbye and it wasnât a problem so I wouldnât worry about it. Maybe let them know you are a bad kisser before you start kissing and then you can make an excuse like âwe should practice kissing so I can get betterâ.
Hope I helped and good luck. :)
I think its just more of a hunger like when you see a puppy so cute you just attack it with affection so lip contact is very intimate and if you love and are attracted to the person it just comes naturally of course kissing is always just an appetizer so dont put so much stock in perfecting a technique
Not necessarily. don't over think it, just kiss, and relax, it's not a huge deal.
Everyone kisses different too, so it may take a bit of kissing until you both work together. That's ok.
Oh, and I have a lesson available tomorrow at 2:00. lol
Just respond according to kind. You will learn quickly. Different people have their ways of kissing. Some soft, some hard, some will gently tease with their tongue while others will try and see if you still have tonsils. You will learn what you like also. Don't worry too much about it.
I believe guys donât care about anything while having sex because they want to get in your pants as fast as they can to feel the pleasure, but if we are talking about making out then thatâs something different for sure
Just following the guy's lead/pace will be fine for your first time. Don't sweat it. It's really not as complicated as it seems.
No obviously not for me i can say... even i didn't know how to kiss someone coz i never had relationship so it's like learning and learning...😅
It is not a turn off.
The beautiful thing about being in a relationship is learning how to do everything together.
I don't remember much of a learning curve at all. Our lips met and soon we were slobbering all over each other.
Depends on how bad her technique is and if she tastes good. Generally inexperience isnât a problem if we have chemistry.
Nope just be open experimentation can be amazing just be open and honest its a turn on
Be open and honest, find a guy who enjoys spending lots of time "helping you practice"
It's a learnable skill, but like dancing, some people are just naturals and better at it quicker than most.
Astounding, really. You pucker, then exchange tongues and spit. Dear lord. LOL
A quick tip... when kissing, just mirror back whatever the other person is doing. That's a good start until you find your groove.
To be honest I have the same issue I constantly get comments on how I'm a virgin and how I've not been with a girl
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