I overdid it with the texts with a guy i‘ve known for a few months but really nothing too crazy maybe giving him the feeling to push things :-/ still apprently he doesn‘t even answer anymore to my texts, i was thinking about saying that i guess this is what i got wrong because i had no clue how to act after he spend five days at my place and he went back to his city and he will move to the other part of the world soon and i read that writing in more details might help but it came off as clingy i guess, i truly understand because i also had a similar experience when a tinder guy after was moving way too fast and i got repelled by it so if he want to cut connection i understand How dis they come back to you?
@magnifique first girlfriend ghosted me after four years dating. She tried reconnecting with me two years later. I was so cool about it and treated her nice, regardless. But never took her back. Figured I can always be the better person.
This wasn’t a date but someone on a dating site wrote about 10 paragraphs as an intro and I thought that was over the top so I didn’t swipe right on that one.
If a girl can't take my need for love, then it's a no-go. And If I can't take that girl's need for constant love, then I'm a hypocrite. So I'll love the person just as much as they love me, which is a lot.
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Yeah I have, they were the obsessive and possessive and would watch to see if I looked at other guys... seems needy
No, but apparently someone lost interest in me for that reason
Sometimes it does feel like it Miss, it's not their problem but when someone tries too much it looks like forced.
But eh how would that make me... less interested me confused help.
ya if she gets too clingy or can’t just chill out about things 😅
What things?
many things? 🤷♂️😂
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More like I never got interested in the first place cause they were trying too hard
I had a couple girls that got waaay too clingy over stupid shit. Made me eventually lose attraction and become more annoyed if anything.
Never.. If I was truly into them. Only time that's weird is if you are kidding yourself about liking them.
No. But I have when I felt like they were doing too little.
Yes, but really when it's that and you have doubt about something else. Hasn't happened lately though
Fair point.
Yeah. And you know the funny part? Every one of them came back. One even became my wife. Life is weird sometimes.
because you did too much or she?
@magnifique i did way too much. Not in a weird way, just something they werent ready for.
I overdid it with the texts with a guy i‘ve known for a few months but really nothing too crazy maybe giving him the feeling to push things :-/ still apprently he doesn‘t even answer anymore to my texts, i was thinking about saying that i guess this is what i got wrong because i had no clue how to act after he spend five days at my place and he went back to his city and he will move to the other part of the world soon and i read that writing in more details might help but it came off as clingy i guess, i truly understand because i also had a similar experience when a tinder guy after was moving way too fast and i got repelled by it so if he want to cut connection i understand
How dis they come back to you?
@magnifique first girlfriend ghosted me after four years dating. She tried reconnecting with me two years later. I was so cool about it and treated her nice, regardless. But never took her back. Figured I can always be the better person.
This wasn’t a date but someone on a dating site wrote about 10 paragraphs as an intro and I thought that was over the top so I didn’t swipe right on that one.
I am a lonely bastard.
If a girl can't take my need for love, then it's a no-go. And If I can't take that girl's need for constant love, then I'm a hypocrite.
So I'll love the person just as much as they love me, which is a lot.
Not really no. If they were that type I wouldn't be attracted to begin with
It's always awkward when one person is more invested than someone else.
Yes, if they're moving too fast, and they are too far away.
Maybe cos I have done too much. hahaha
It's literally why I give up the NANO SECOND I'm rejected.
this may not make any kind of sence but here it goes.. i have always had to do things for myself i really hate relying on other people for help.
that song is like so 2000's
Faxx.
it's 2021 by the way. We're like 21 years into the future.
The future is now.
no. The future is after the now.
Wow, you're just full of factoids today.
You're talkative today. I think you're doing too much.
Kk..
this 2000's music better was anyways
https://youtu.be/5qm8PH4xAss
Time and space is relevant anyways.