Am I Right To End Things With This Guy? (Page 2)

Question

1. He approached me and I told him I wasn’t interested. He persisted.  2. After agreeing to being friends he ghosted me.  3. A couple of months later he requests to add me but then blocks me after I ignore him.  4. I reach out to explain I have mental health issues which is why I was cold. He unblocks me and we talk again.  5. He takes hours (at least 4) to reply to my texts. I try to arrange for a phone call and it takes us days before he finally calls me at 10pm.  6. He asks if I can be his girlfriend yet when we haven’t been out on a proper date. He suggests a proper date (yet to happen).  7. he's unclear - he doesn’t tell me how he spends his time or what he’s doing everyday. I don’t know why he responds to my texts at 4am and when I asked he said “he zones out”.  8. He keeps asking me about marriage and referring to us like a couple. He sends hearts at the end of texts. Feels weird.  I feel like he’s playing with me. What do you think? I was thinking to text him tonight and end this - whatever it is.

Tstrbrainer · Answer

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩.  End it, unless the nature of his job or any other reasonable explanation justifies his lack of availability, not giving you enough time is a big red flag.

Waldoe · Answer

he is a "Player" Big-time... stop trying, he will drift away and never miss you, better to lose this loser

2ndTryatThis · Answer

Sounds like he already is in a relationship

BeachLuvR97 · Answer

Creepy. It's time to set a minimum standard for guys.

Anonymous · Answer

He is too busy or not interested in you  Either ways not worth the trouble...

B4852 · Answer

Yes I believe you were right to end things.

cloudspy · Answer

Yes, end things. You are right.

yucel_eden · Answer

The guy sounds perfect.  Marry him

DJB72 · Answer

I wouldn't bother to text. Just move on

Ke_vin · Answer

Yea u do

Amur8711 · Answer

Yes your right to end things!

jimmy2 · Answer

He a jerk ho away no blessings with him

Anonymous · Answer

You both have "mental issues."

Anonymous · Answer

Runaway before you go insane

In_Trance · Answer

Yup. End it

anylolone · Answer

Playing with you.

msc545 · Answer

Just end it.

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