u Sure as long as the interest is genuine and doesn’t come across as perfunctory. They usually know what I do for a living, and some aspects probably creep guys out. But some questions come up, and it’s a good chance for me to ask questions about his work. Some guys don’t want to “talk shop” during a date and that’s fine too.
Briefly. Just be like, “So do you work?” Yes. “You?“ Yes. “Is it legal?” Yes. “Does it involve hoeing?” No. There, nuff said. I mean down the road, i’d like us to ask eachother if we make stable income enough to afford our own bills. But thats it. I dont need to know how much he makes and vice versa
I don't think it's a requitement to talk about each others job for me, but I don't mind the topic at all; so long as I don't feel that the other person is only focused on money, as I value wealth probably the least in anyone, and prefer to be treated in the same way (esp by a potential future partner).
Like it or not, in our society work occupies around half of our waking hours, at least. Don't let work monopolize the conversation, but talking about work a bit is just fine.
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Sure. That is a great first date topic of conversation.
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