I came inside of my girlfriend without telling her. Should I say something?

[Anonymous]

It’s because I want a kid but she isn’t ready yet…

There is never a good time or perfect time. No such thing. I’m ready now.

Yes

No, that’s okay. Congratulations. 🎉

[Interstate]

What IN THE HELL are you doing trying to get pregnant when you aren't even married? Frankly, this is dumbass-ary to the core, and you you obviously didn't use commonsense. If anything, if she becomes pregnant she will resent you and the relationship WILL end for sure. Then the kid will be ANOTHER one in our society in a broken home life. Not to mention the fact you will be burying yourself in Child Support for 18 years!!! And it doesn't matter if you two are still together or sharing the same roof. If you aren't married, and you are biologically the Father, she CAN still take you for support. You should read my MyTake entitled, "It's Time to Start Acting More Responsibly". I posted it about two weeks ago.

No matter how you look at this, YOU ARE SCREWED:

A. She ends up pregnant and knew you finished inside of her without telling her. She knows you want Parenthood, but she isn't ready yet. She will see you as selfish and sneaky, and guaranteed she will break up with you, and you are in for 18 years of support.

B. You do the RIGHT thing by being honest. You tell her what you did and she gets pissed. Then she walks out on you for being selfish, and inconsiderate because she will know right away why you did it.

Dude, you need to start using your head... THE ONE ON TOP OF YOUR SHOULDERS. Red Green once sang this campfire song...

"Your hands are connected to your arms, your arms are connected to your shoulders, your shoulders are connected to your body, and your body is connected to your head. Well your head is connected to... nothing... which explains a lot.". Ummm... yeah.

[ChrisMaster69]

Great post for highlighting exactly why abortion needs to be legal.

[AmandaYVR]

Holy shit. Talk about a role reversal here.
Yes, you need to tell her!
You shouldn't have a child under these conditions. She'll hate you for it.

[Daniela1982]

Come on, i'm sure she would know if you did that. You are just trolling.

[Idkanything55528]

Yeahh.. this is just a nasty thing to do. I'm not going to judge you, but that was absolutely wrong. It's important to make sure you are BOTH on the same page when it comes to a child.

You NEED to tell her, becuase she may find out herself. And she will more than likely hate you for it. It's not okay to do something without consent, either.

[zaharuh]

Yes you should say something, are you serious? I would want to kill you omg. Also there definitely is better times than others to have children.

[yofuknutz]

Can't do the time do not do the crime be on birth control

[zaharuh]

That's true, I'm always on birth control but like in this situation he made it seem like she isn't

[yofuknutz]

^^^^ they're both idiots and the fact they are both from Texas seal the deal although the women are hot in Texas still you shouldn't have a kid unless you're ready for one

[Anonymous]

Just sayin if I was in that position I’d literally loose my shit for you doing it without permission and definitely for not telling me

[Asker]

How would you ever know?

[Opinion Owner]

Getting pregnant fucking dumbass and if you tell her she is gonna fucking know

[yofuknutz]

Well then your little ass needs to be on birth control or go down the street and get yourself some ECP pills good grief don't drop the soap!

[Opinion Owner]

@yofuknutz some girls can’t do any form of birth control and it’s not about that it’s about your partner breaking your trust on something you should be able to trust them on dickhead

[yofuknutz]

Dick head goes into someplace good

[Opinion Owner]

@yofuknutz bruh grow up

[yofuknutz]

^^^^ I told you little tight ass to stay the fuck home didn't I what did I tell you stupid little ass. Now look at you tricked out.

https://youtu.be/XSfhRvWKd9Q

[Opinion Owner]

@yofuknutz bruh your a psycho shut the fuck up bitch

[yofuknutz]

You're the one with the pussy and a mouth on you so who's the bitch now bitch going to take your tight little ass back home Pac-Man the fuck about my face with the drama

[Opinion Owner]

@yofuknutz your the one with a tiny dick 🥴 maybe shut the fuck dumbass

[yofuknutz]

Listen Bambi bitch you need to have respect for me I was almost your father but the line was too freaking long by the child support office. Lol

https://youtu.be/_lWsAbQGoNU

[Opinion Owner]

@yofuknutz it’s cute you think that’s offensive truly go choke gay ass bitch and I have no respect for some dumbass on the internet stfu

[yofuknutz]

If I was almost your father how does that make me gay maybe you're the one you know what gives a fuck

[Opinion Owner]

@yofuknutz cause my mother looks like a man and I hate that bitch

Also maybe learn to make sense? Have the shit you said is fucking word vomit bye bye middle aged man go get fucked

[yofuknutz]

Your mother looks like a man what happened to your face then by the way that's a pretty to come back she could look like a man all she wants but pussy is pussy have a nice night and don't forget to wipe

[Opinion Owner]

@yofuknutz what happened to my face is the fact you can barely even see it in that photo and your a piece of shit who wants to just be a fucking dick to anyone you can to feel better about your pathetic ass life I hope you get put in a old folks home a couple years bye

[yofuknutz]

Your mother must have been the horror first class to ship you out you fucking piece of shit fruitcake California

[Opinion Owner]

@yofuknutz I’m from the south old man …. Also that made no sense maybe go back to kindergarten grandpa go burn and he’ll when you die

[yofuknutz]

Listen we know you're fake double account okay

[Opinion Owner]

@yofuknutz I had an account when I was 14 deleted it and just made one again 3 days ago but ok

[yofuknutz]

Why you have to delete your account 3 days ago what happened what did you do?

[Opinion Owner]

@yofuknutz i deleted my account like 2 months after I got it when I was 14 i haven’t been on this site in forever

[yofuknutz]

I guess after a certain amount of time something I've noticed on here they deactivate your account and it's hard to make friends because you be talking to somebody 4A minute and the next thing you know they're gone

[Opinion Owner]

@yofuknutz yup

[yofuknutz]

I think long-term damaged can be done psychologically if it's keeps repeating I get the distinct impression that this has all been arranged

[Opinion Owner]

@yofuknutz okay?

[yofuknutz]

Well think on it for a minute you start talking to somebody you start telling them personal secrets and they give you some type of secret and then all the sudden they're gone and it makes it hard to connect with people you don't know if you're doing something wrong or if it's something wrong with them you don't think that does psychological damage to you after a while

[sattii2607]

It's a beautiful thing to have a child but you need to have the consent of the to be mom. It's an emotional moment for her and she has to decide as well you aren't supposed to do such a thing.
You could have convinced her before you did anything like that. Took me 5 years to convince my wife that we should have a second child, but I waited till she was fine.

[kqueen2]

purposefully impregnating someone without their knowledge is a crime and morally wrong. The hell is wrong with you. The odds are pretty good she'll just get an abortion anyway

[Asker]

We live in Texas 😉

[kqueen2]

you can just go to the next state over. It's not hard

[yofuknutz]

^^^^ apparently that's what got them into this mess the hard part

[pleasestopthis]

You screwed it up really badly. Having a child should be a mutual decision, not something that it's forced upon you by your partner.
She can resent you for this, or even get an abortion without telling you, you know this right?

[The_Naughty_Guy]

You are an idiot to do so. You can’t do that without your girl’s consent. Tell her right away.

[Asker]

Dude I want a kid.

[The_Naughty_Guy]

I understand that you want a kid badly but that doesn’t mean you can make her pregnant without asking her. If she’s not ready, talk to her or leave her.

[Nick473]

It doesn't matter what you want. You have to put her first. If she doesn’t want the same things than you need to find someone who does. She will hate you now because of the strain you are putting on her now and going forward. And unfortunately your bringing a child up in these circumstances.

[yofuknutz]

Do you want a child with her if she doesn't want a kid with you you better think about that and why is she not on birth control but loving your cock inside her what's up with that the both of you idiots are too poor for birth control motherfucker you are way too poor for a child or even a marriage ceremony

[SaoirseS]

She might just arrange for you to meet Mr. Mortuary Table.

[ChrisMaster69]

@SaoirseS 😂😂😂😂😂

[yofuknutz]

Or her brothers

[Jamie05rhs]

Fuck you, man. You had no right to do that. I hope she breaks up with you and I hope she also takes you to court for child support. And I hope you have ZERO visitation rights!

[yofuknutz]

Nah not going to happen

[K-I-S-S]

I would like to beat your ass for that and make you crawl back to her with the truth.

[WowwGirl]

You're a piece of shit.

[Anonymous]

Was the pussy so good you could not hold it in, betta get used to this bro.

[cth96190]

If she did not feel you shoot your load inside of her, she is not wired correctly.
She knows.

[WowwGirl]

Not true

[cth96190]

@WowwGirl
Females into whom I have emptied my balls have said that they could feel the ejaculation.

[WowwGirl]

Well 😐 I don't know man

[yofuknutz]

Interesting assessment my first kid her mom had surgery so her feeling limited down there my second kids mother first time we had sex she felt a big load and then and there she decided she's going to have my baby

[MountAverage]

You should tell her. But you should also take a hammer and smash yourself in the face with it repeatedly as hard as you can.

[ewok737]

Well, she most likely will know in a few months, might as well bring it up now.

[Zygum]

If you both want baby, then it is OK, if No, then use protection

[Anonymous]

Yeah. Tell her the same thing I tell women when I've given them an STD. I always say "Tag, you're It"!

[mystiquegirll]

Ofcourse! Tell her! You can't decide to have a baby by yourself. 😀 not nice.

[BigKevHanma]

Unless your girlfriend is 9 years old I’m pretty sure she knew the risk she was taking it’s okay most sperm die in there anyways

[Anonymous]

Yeah, say something, and prepare to possibly DO something, like marry her and support the baby

[Nachowedgie]

Probably the worst troll I've seen all day

[Nick473]

Im afraid The trolls aren't trolls

[Ironic_Method]

Just another troll.

[Jmmmfi4]

You're a scum bag