Ok so this is my first time in a relationship. I knew this girl since June and after two months of getting to know her I could tell she liked me. So that went on for awhile then we went on a date which was the best time I ever had with someone. we talked after that and hung out days later and she told me that liked me for a long time and we talked about relationships and I said that we should be in one and now we’re together. But I am very introverted and really shy and quite. And she is the opposite she is very outgoing and talks a lot. I love it when I’m spending my time with her but I feel bad because I I’m bad at keeping conversations going or sometimes getting them started. I don’t want her to be annoyed by it she already told me she felt like she was talking over all the time like coming up with things to do and what to talk about and I told her that I didn’t mind that. What can I do to not be so shy and nervous with her. Should I talk to her about it?
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First off, relax. Your shyness might be something she likes. Don't worry so much about conversation all the time. It's OK not to be talking all the time. This is a lot easier if you are engaged in an activity together.
You can also think of topics before hand and make a small list of things to talk about. Additionally there are some great little books of questions that have open ended questions designed to stimulate conversation. I think it's just called "The Book of Questions", but there are probably a lot of them. Fun way to get to know someone.
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