Everytime I ask a girl how many, she says "15, I think". Every time I ask a guy, it's "over 30, for sure". Hahah. Okay man that's cool. Some people like to sleep around. Some don'. Try saying THAT in modern society. "I don't like casual sex". I only ever heard one person brave enough to say it. Amen.
@Aerissa_Jade Speaking personally? No. I'm comfortable enough in my identity and masculinity and man enough to handle a woman with a long life before me. It would concern me she doesn't treat intimacy with the same importance as I do (still waiting atm) but I'd be willing to give the benefit of the doubt. Lot of insecure guys out there apparently. And I agree here, I'd be up for some stories over popcorn.
@Aerissa_Jade Jealous? Hell no! Jealous of what? She was not with me at the time. If I had been born as a good-looking woman, I would have been an epic slut. 🤣 I prefer women who know how to fuck and are not shy about it. I do not want to find myself in bed with a woman who does not want to suck and swallow because she is sexually inexperienced.
@cth96190 Apologizes, I meant more jealous of her adventures that you may never get to do anything like that from her stories. Guys tend to get jealous of my stories, when they realize they'll never be able to do that.
Not so much number of partners, but if you thought it was really cool and just knew you'd never be able to.
@Aerissa_Jade Once again answering a question not directed at me.
I'd feel a small amount of jealousy but all she'd really have to do is say something along the lines of "I love the fact you're talented and waited for me" and then I could pull out the popcorn... or my dick, and masturbate to the stories she has to tell of having fucked three guys in one night or had a crazy foursome. Case in point: My crush has told me stories of performing oral sex on women and men during her days as a sex worker and further stories of making out with strippers at clubs. I've never even come close to either. I can count on one hand the amount of times I've been to a strip club, they make me uncomfortable. Again, I'd just relish her oral skills too much to really care.
That's a pretty high number, but at my age (assuming she's of a similar age), that's only, on average, about 20 bodies a year for her, about one every 2 weeks.
It would depend on why and how are they doing now. If they were in a dark place but have stopped and are better and disease free then it goes to the quality of their character NOW... and their state of mind.
They proud they slept with that many? I’m not for you. It comes up later in our relationship with a bit of hesitation? At least I know she/he is not high of themselves.
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I would just get up and leave... not even say a word.
I'd schedule a doctor's appointment right away if I'd been intimate with her.
Everytime I ask a girl how many, she says "15, I think". Every time I ask a guy, it's "over 30, for sure". Hahah. Okay man that's cool. Some people like to sleep around. Some don'. Try saying THAT in modern society. "I don't like casual sex". I only ever heard one person brave enough to say it. Amen.
I would be fine with a body count of 100+
I would, however, want to hear some of the stories.
You don't think that would make you jealous?
@Aerissa_Jade Speaking personally? No. I'm comfortable enough in my identity and masculinity and man enough to handle a woman with a long life before me. It would concern me she doesn't treat intimacy with the same importance as I do (still waiting atm) but I'd be willing to give the benefit of the doubt.
Lot of insecure guys out there apparently.
And I agree here, I'd be up for some stories over popcorn.
@Aerissa_Jade
Jealous?
Hell no!
Jealous of what?
She was not with me at the time.
If I had been born as a good-looking woman, I would have been an epic slut. 🤣
I prefer women who know how to fuck and are not shy about it.
I do not want to find myself in bed with a woman who does not want to suck and swallow because she is sexually inexperienced.
@cth96190 Apologizes, I meant more jealous of her adventures that you may never get to do anything like that from her stories. Guys tend to get jealous of my stories, when they realize they'll never be able to do that.
Not so much number of partners, but if you thought it was really cool and just knew you'd never be able to.
@Aerissa_Jade Once again answering a question not directed at me.
I'd feel a small amount of jealousy but all she'd really have to do is say something along the lines of "I love the fact you're talented and waited for me" and then I could pull out the popcorn... or my dick, and masturbate to the stories she has to tell of having fucked three guys in one night or had a crazy foursome.
Case in point: My crush has told me stories of performing oral sex on women and men during her days as a sex worker and further stories of making out with strippers at clubs.
I've never even come close to either. I can count on one hand the amount of times I've been to a strip club, they make me uncomfortable.
Again, I'd just relish her oral skills too much to really care.
That's a pretty high number, but at my age (assuming she's of a similar age), that's only, on average, about 20 bodies a year for her, about one every 2 weeks.
It would depend on why and how are they doing now.
If they were in a dark place but have stopped and are better and disease free then it goes to the quality of their character NOW... and their state of mind.
Definitely stay the fuck away from me then yeah that's absolutely a deal breaker.
Not really no, it’s the present that counts not the past.
Not at all. If a girl doesn't love dick we're not going to last. And whatever she had to do to get by before meeting me is fine.
yes without a dubt, i generally dont like men that are really expereinced, its actually a turn off for me
I would not want her for a long term committed relationship.
Yeah, because that's just fucking ridiculous with my standards.
As long as he's clean now and doesn't do it anymore, I'm fine with it.
Nope, not id she's rocking tge shit out of my world! I'd enjoy the ride while it lasted.
Not a deal breaker.. I'd still hit it and quit it.. but rubber up my dudes. These hos are scandalous.
I like how so many women on here vote yes but in reality about 90% of them would still date that guy. They hope to be the “special” one.
Well, I would ask for a health certificate for sure.
They proud they slept with that many? I’m not for you.
It comes up later in our relationship with a bit of hesitation? At least I know she/he is not high of themselves.
Yes. I know it is irrational if me but i would be jealous and i can't explain it. I also would be scared of any sexual transmitted diseases
What they did in the past is in the past. As long as I'm the only one she is with now that's all that matters
Having sex with a hundred guys shows a lack of commitment.