This guys already posting pics of us should I by default choose him?

[myabe123]

I am a bit bewildered, as I have not one but three possibly five, but most likely three male suitors at once.

1. He's my friends brother and he took me on a date for nye but he's already made me his profile picture... he didn't even ask me to be his girl yet. The only flip side, were on different ends of the political spectrum... and I feel like he's being a little bit much..

2. Was my friend for ten years, super successful we have everything in common. We finally kissed after a decade. But has been distant since guy 1.

3. The godftaher of Pittsburgh, helped me out of a bad situation. But is much older than me.

4. This guy I met in the hospital. He's very depressed but kind of alluring and mysterious. Sasuke vibes but is 5 years younger than me.

5. This ones just a fantasy an attractive ex-coworker that I dream about. He makes my heart pound but I'm not sure if he's into me... probably not.

[NathanDavis]

1.- avoid, avoid... lol, all you said about him are things you would want to avoid

2.-someone you already know, have in common with and if you like him, go for it...

3.- don't get involved with mafia, especially older mafia

4.- someone very depressed is someone very difficult to deal with, and you seem to already "romanticize" that part about him if you're thinking about Sasuke... that's never the right approach to these things...

5.- fantasies belong in the fantasy world... not part of our reality

---- second guy seems the way to go here...

[Satyromaniac]

If I was a girl, I'd go for no.2, the 1 I've known longest and seems safe and reliable.

And please throw no.1 , no.3 and no 4 out of your possible suitors ASAP...

You could go to no.5 just for the sake of variety or for reassurance that you checked out all options b4 ending up with no 2.

[Satyromaniac]

Thanks for MHO 🙂

[Anonymous]

Neither of them. You seem to just want a guy to be able to say you have a guy or to avoid being single. You don’t seem to really have an interest in any of these guys or else you wouldn’t have to sit here and try to decide who to date like you’re trying to decide what to eat from a menu that’s all ”meh”. Just stop being so desperate and learn how to be single. When you meet someone you actually want to be with you’ll know without doubt that he and nobody else is who you want and should be with.

[myabe123]

I actually really like 5

[myabe123]

and 2, and 3.

[Anonymous]

I vote for number 2.

[DryGermanGuy]

This Godfather thing sounds really nice. I mean, what could go wrong? (Sarcasm alert!)

[Anonymous]

I don't know what to say

[myabe123]

I don't know either

[eblehe]

wow...