My boyfriend is still close friends with a girl who used to like him, is that okay?

marirryd
My boyfriend is still close friends with a girl who used to like him a few months ago and almost had a thing with him. I got upset about it and asked him to stop talking to her and unadd her but he got defensive and said no. When I asked why he told me that his and her mom were friends and they’ve known each other since they were kids. He also told me that she was there for him in a lot of situations. I added the girl on Instagram and my boyfriend texted me telling me that she told him I requested her and asked me why. A few months ago my boyfriend also told me that if i didn’t like anyone in his life they’d be gone straight away, which is funny considering he didn’t unadd the girl. I’m frustrated that she’s still in his life. Is what he’s doing normal and okay? And if not, how do I deal with this?
My boyfriend is still close friends with a girl who used to like him, is that okay?
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