Do we need to talk everyday if we like each other?

[Anonymous]

So this guy and I we both kinda like each other but we don’t talk every day. Like we both have a life and he also works hard. He says he likes me, but we only talk to each other once or twice a week. Is it really important to talk to each other daily? How often should we talk?

[DaveJord]

Well you should talk as often as you feel you want to. When two people meet and they true vibe, then they make it as easy as possible for the other person to connect. I don't get into the talking every day stage until after we get past the initial dating thing and into a committed relationship. For some people that might be a couple of days, weeks or months if not more... really depends on the person and how fast you bond and connect with them.

But if you feel you are not getting what you want emotionally from this person then I would think hard about if he is the right guy for you. If you are feeling he is kind of dating, seeing you , or speaking with you only when it convenient for him then its a red flag to me.

I recently met this girl, and we talk and message each other daily, and we only started around Thanksgiving. So that insanely fast for me, and honestly if you would of asked about in at Halloween I would think it would be totally strange and kind of needed to have to talk to someone every day. And with most girls it did feel that way to me, but with this one it just feels right.

[Cycloteur]

You should talk as often as You booth feel you woul like to. If that is once or twice a week then that's ok. Question is if you're there for each other if one if you is down. But how would you know that one of you is down if you talk once a week? Its not normal to tell the other part that you're feeling down unless it's quite bad or something special happened, so how would you catch that? And then what do you talk about when you do talk together? Are you catching up on everything and having a meaningful conversation or is it just a friendly chat? If the latter is the case your odds for a lasting relationship is lower than it could be. Lack of communication is one of the key issues for breaking up. Make sure you talk like a couple about matters which are meaningful as a couple if you aim for more than a casual connection with a low threshold for moving on to others.
I belive in quality over quantity so its definitely doable, but its up to You both what's going to happen in the future. Normally you need to put some effort into it for good things to last, but that's not what's everyone after.

[Anonymous]

That’s pretty normal, it’s about quality not quantity. My boyfriend and I used to think that we have to talk everyday but it got too repetitive and boring so now we only talk 3x a week and see each other 2-3x a week.

[Account]

If he really liked you, he couldn't keep himself from reaching out to you. Always remember that.

[FlaffyCheez]

I think its important to assess the quality of the conversations you have. The quality of the time time you spend together. Not so much the quantity.

Also if it's consistent or just some inconsistent shit where he hits you up randomly.

[FlaffyCheez]

But also if you want to be talked to everyday, and you feel like you need that communication, you should let them know.

[AncientWisdom]

No when first starting a relationship one must go slowly in my opinion for the best result. People can be turned of by to much at the beginning. That’s how things fail.

[James899]

It's not frequently you talk. It's all about how effective it was. So frequency is not at all a issue. Unless or untill you can converse everything in a single conversation

[Asker]

The frequency is quite good. But I was just confused but we talk a lot in that conversation, we actually do converse everything. So I guess it’s fine.

[James899]

Yes. Very much fine.

[Asker]

Thanks. 🙂

[JohnQue74]

As often as you feel comfortable with. It's your relationship. Do you talk with your friends more often? Don't sweat with quantity, its quality that matter. How satisfied are you with those twice weekly calls?

[rabbitzzz]

It will not last as an exclusive relation if it doesn't become everyday eventually. At early stages its fine not to talk everyday.

[awkward_author]

There isn't a magical number for how often you're supposed to talk to someone. If it works for you, that's all that matters.

[Cowboy6666]

If I like a girl I would talk with her all day.
I will try to talk whenever I am available to talk with her

[Asker]

That’s what I was thinking. He says he is very busy and sometimes I can see that but you don’t have time you make time. He has a full time job and I get it but still I feel restless sometimes.

[Cowboy6666]

I would try to text her even if I am super busy

[Neilbud]

It's hard to talk everyday. Some guys like me find themselves camping on areas without cell service. Some people just get busy.

[Asker]

But what if he has a vast circle and may talk to many people daily?

[Neilbud]

Are any of them work contacts?

[Asker]

Yeah work contacts
Friends
So do we need to talk everyday or often if he really likes me?

[Neilbud]

No. That can get clingyremember to hold on loosely but don't let go.

[Asker]

Wow that’s a really good advice.
Thank you. 🙂

[Yourfriend2021]

I think you should make time for each other every day if you love each other.

[cookiecrusher]

Do you need to talk to your friends or need to eat pizza everyday?

[Mediterraneansoul]

This is what people do wrong. Overdo unnecessary shit. Just be normal.

[Heartache0405]

Hell no. That’s suffocating A F

[Honesttguy]

Its between you and him not you and society norms