Why do I never get asked out?

[Anonymous]

I am quite pretty, fairly easy to talk to, well accomplished and yet I have never been asked out by men. Why is that? What can I do to increase my chances of being asked out?

[Cycloteur]

1. Ask someone you could like to go out on a date yourself. This should increase your success rate a few thousand %

2. Be friendly with guys and don't appear unachievable, smile and touch their arm or shoulder when speaking to them. Make them laugh and enjoy your company somewhere "safe".

3. If all else fails, go somewhere nobody knows you, have a couple of shots or whatever your poison is and find a nice looking guy and tell him you don't know anyone here and whisper in his ear that you are both lonely and horny. This should work 98 out of 100 times if you manage to find someone outside of a relationship. It still gives you the chance to talk to them and figure out if they are a weirdo or not before deciding what to do next. That might give you some more confidence in your self and be more relaxed around others.

[Honesttguy]

What he said

[fireforeffect]

What are you doing for Dinner tonight?

[Phoenix-gb]

Ask out the guys you are interested in instead. Between the ever increasing standards the dating world seems to have on both sides, and women calling guys out for being creepy when they do ask them out, a lot aren't going to unless they have more than a significant chance of being successful.

If you are pretty and well accomplished, many will have written off their chances due to past rejections, so if you're interested, nothing says you can't make the first move and show it.

[SenileOldMan]

When I was younger, it wasn't uncommon for women to write their phone numbers on a piece of paper and put it in a guy's pocket. Then he can follow up and call her and ask her out. At least a third or so of my dates came from this. I don't know if women do that anymore but that's a pretty bold and reliable way short of asking him out yourself.

[ArrowheadSW]

From how you describe yourself, that IS puzzling. Sounds to me like you'd be a good catch.

[rabbitzzz]

Maybe you are intimidating. You gotta offer yourself to men you like.

[steve17a]

Are you social? Getting out to bars and clubs will increase your chances for sure!

Looking approachable helps stacks as most guys need an approach signal.

[Cowboy6666]

Well it depends how you talk, how open minded are you?
How girly girl are you etc.
Maybe I can give my opinion better after talking with you for few minutes

[Asker]

I am definitely not girly girl. But I am quite open minded.

[Cowboy6666]

Still good.
How tall are you?
How long are your hairs?

[Honesttguy]

How do you dress? It has to be a lot to do with looks to be approached u have to attract them.

[loveslongnails]

Send me what you think is your best photo, and I'll tell you why.

[Yourfriend2021]

Man have become more reluctant to approach women these days because women thinks it's creepy.

[Anonymous]

You didn't list a single thing about yourself that would be a reason to ask you out.

[Asker]

Okay.. what would be a good reason for you to ask a woman out?

[Opinion Owner]

Well as a rule I DON'T ask women out. But if I was going to it's because she takes a genuine interest I me like we share common interests. Why else would I want to know more about her?

[rocksongwriter]

Come across as more approachable.

[SlothySlob]

By going on the offensive?

[Anonymous]

Ask him out

[Shark_61695]

You're scary!

[In_Trance]

lighten up