Did she just REJECT me or is this valid?

[VitaBellaX]

Blurred out is my name or other people's names - She said she's out for drinks tho what do you think?

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■ She mentions that she's going out with her Girl-Best friend

[Phoenix-gb]

I wouldn't say it's an out and out rejection, but that's because you've not made it clear what you're intending. If you want to ask her on a date, then you need to make it clear it's a date, rather than just asking her out for drinks like a friend would. That's possibly why she's invited other people.

It is also possible she does get what you're trying to do, and is trying to keep it as friends, but you're not going to know for sure unless you make what you want clear enough that she has to give a clear response.

[Anonymous]

It's a rejection done in as nice a way as possible. But if you haven't built up sufficient attraction, and / or emotional connection she has no reason to want to meet up anyway. When a girl is attracted, she will not be talking about how she can't look at food because she will go anywhere, or do anything just to spend time with you. There are women that jump on a plane to travel across the world to meet a guy they are attracted to... now compare that to her comment.

[Screenwriter]

Sounds like she's only up for hanging out with you. Not for a date. Perhaps she's feeling you out by going out more casually. I think it's a better idea anyway. She's also bringing her wing man for approval.

Not a rejection. She's being cautious.

[lrina]

that doesn't necessarily look like a rejection, if she made plans before with her friend then it'd make sense. however if she cancels again without rescheduling then it's a rejection.

[OlderAndWiser]

You offered Option A and she chose Option B. Keep looking.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Like a phone call if you get a busy signal try gain later. On another note if you think about it she really didn’t reject you she rejected your dinner offer because she has plans with a friend & if you gave her a little more notice instead of tomorrow maybe things would be different or maybe not.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I believe she appeared to reject you if she went out with someone else

[VitaBellaX]

She mentions her girl best-friend

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@VitaBellaX I hate to say this but people can lie about who their out with but I could be wrong

[VitaBellaX]

Oh I know she's telling the truth she told me 3 days ago her best friend Sarah was going out with her on Saturday night

[roro_hlby]

I don't know but it might be just a Normal excuse for any reason. If she makes another excuse u are rejected 🤣. Good luck

[Anonymous]

Rejected. If she were interested, she would have tried to reschedule to go out with you on for different day

[Opinion Owner]

Wait its hard to completely understand, did she agree to meet you for drinks with her friend?

[Anonymous]

Valid. Not a rejection. It's a reason, not an excuse.

[Uptowngirl88]

Sounds like she just wants to hangout for drinks and nothing else

[luvstoned4him]

not rejected cause she agreed to drinks later

[alice55]

She rejected you in a "nice" ways

[Gwenhwyfar]

Could be either. Try again next weekend.

[AmeerX]

Not rejected. Try to ask her again

[noohair]

An excuse, yes. Lame excuse, yes.

[msc545]

Hard to tell really.

[In_Trance]

Rejected