Is it weird if a girl asks a guy for their Instagram or should you wait for the guy to?

[claudia32]

Is it weird if a girl asks a guy for their instagram or should you wait for the guy to?

[JSmuve]

If you just want follows to add to your collection, then no, it's not weird.
If you like this guy and want to get to know him, then yes, it's weird. Ask for the number, not the social. Not all guys have social media and a woman who asks for it over a number leaves a certain impression about herself.

[Avicenna]

No, it’s perfectly fine if she takes the initiative

[luanamsd]

What's the big deal? I ask for people's instagram and people ask for my instagram all the time. Following someone doesn't mean you are interested in having sex with them lol.

[DarkCarousel]

What’s the purpose in asking for someone’s instagram? I would assume they just want followers.

[HelpABrothaOut434]

A woman recently asked for my instagram. I told her I didn’t have one and then she blew me off and wanted nothing to do with me.


Is it weird? No, not at all.

[JSmuve]

Right!! Some women are messed in the head and equate your social media presence to your value as a person.

[Justyna98]

Probably not strange, but I always wait for him to ask🤣

[Anonymous]

what's the big deal exactly? you ask, if he says no. oh well. if he says yes, then cool.

[SurströmmingLover]

Why do women are so unwilling to take decisions? Asking someone for their insta does not equal a marriage proposal. Don't expect everything from men.

[Alyssa_11]

Some men have big egos. They’ll take it as “she wants the D”

[SurströmmingLover]

@Alyssa_11 That's correct, but who cares?

[magiusX26]

not weird. it means she is initiating the possibilities

[anon_boy]

It's fine, anyone can ask, but if you don't want a guy to know that you're interested in him then you should wait for him to ask

[InferiorElegy]

Only if he's not at all good looking, because why else would a female want a guys Instagram.

[JohnHaley114]

Anyone can ask. Nothing is weird.

[Fukaroo]

Ahh I miss my high-school days

[AdithyaR]

Not weird at all, just ask him

[Aphrodite801]

You didn’t know the answer to this at 17? Wtf

[Farmer27]

What the hell is going on in your head?

[Wise4myage]

It’s not weird at all in my opinion.

[UdontNeedtoknow]

Dont know, im not on IG

[cookiecrusher]

No it's fine for a woman to ask.

[KittyMilk]

Nope not at all.. but what is your instagram?

[Alyssa_11]

Wait for the guy

[Alyssa_11]

Although if you’ve already started ‘talking’ feel free to ask him. I asked my ex for his Instagram when we were texting and getting to know each other. I made that move because I realised he was very shy and needed my help lol. He was very happy when I asked him for it.

[devoygf]

I did

[Intothevoid666]

depends on the guy.