If the first time, she wants backup. In case you're not who she thought you were.
If she insists on it every time, that's a red flag that something is off about her. Especially if you've already proven yourself. It shows a lack of respect and trust. Or, a lack of maturity, given she needs a mom or big sister figure, in case she can't think for herself.
This is more common amongst autistic women. But if they're that low-functioning, dating them is probably a bad idea anyway, as they'd make terrible future housewives.
You just pray they're homeschooled, a d kept away from screwl groomers. Groomers love to prey on autistic girls. They usually turn them into lesbians. And lesbians with special needs and mental health issues? Very toxic combination! They will go off like a bomb when you least expect it, for reasons that will never make sense to you, and there's little you can do about it.
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It means she wants it to be a social outing instead of a date. She doesn’t see you as a potential romantic interest.
Furthermore, you’d be out with both her and her friend analyzing and evaluating everything you did, what you said, how you said it etc. They are literally teaming up on you.
Drop this girl. She isn’t interested in you romantically. Move on. There are plenty of other women and you deserve better.
She feels more comfortable if she has someone else with her. If a next date is planned, and she brings her friend… She might not be interested.
It means we hardly know you and are not fully in our comfortzone yet. But by date 2 (if there is one) it would be just the two if us
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Honestly, my opinion is that she doesn't want more from you. The other girl is just to make sure things don't ever get deep (romantic), I mean being flirty will be a no-no and all. It's a date, yh. But not the kind you're expecting. Good luck!
The thing is BOTH of you should feel comfortable. You have to decide based on your sense of what is right or wrong. If I were to ask a lady out I want no third wheel around. So my answer to that question would be a NO! Then it's up to her what happens next! Again, DO NOT be forced into something that makes you feel uncomfortable.
Just means she feels more comfortable if a friend tags along. Don't read too much into it. She IS going on the date with you. Be positive and say yeah! that would be fun!.
It's a feed them date. Ie they are simply using you for a free night out. Get the heck out of there. If she really wants you, the last thing she wants is her friend and other women around.
Are you guys 15? If not, then you should be capable of going on a date by yourselves. If she can't handle that, find a better girl.
You are friend-zoned, it's not a random girl. You have already known her for a long. She and her friend will use you for free food outing. If it's strange then bringing a friend would have been justified. Women don't bring others to date when they are actually interested.
Your date’s Mother paid the friend to go and keep her 👁 on you. Would you trust you with your child? Makes sense to me….
Well I’ve never done that but I can understand why she would. I’ve always just kept people informed where I was at all times.
Woman your age are stupid. They don't know the real meaning of love they don't know how to cook clean much less take care of a man.
It means it's not a date, she's not interested in a romantic relationship with you. Either that or she's completely clueless about dating.
I’m a guy and I can help you out. She’s not entirely sure about you and wants to bring her friend to make sure you act accordingly or that her friend doesn’t do something stupid.
Um I wouldn't do that, but everyone is different maybe there for moral support and that's totally fine I see nothing wrong with it
It means she plans on using you. Decline it right away.
No don't do that cause she's gonna expect you to pay for her and her friend. If she wants to bring a friend than you bring a friend and make sure to tell her that her friend has to pay for it herself
Abort immediately. If a woman brings a friend on a date then the likelihood of you getting laid is about 0%.
It’s not that bad
bring her friend the first couple times
then it’ll be just you guys
after that bring the friend around more
So you don’t get bored of each otherShe doesn’t feel comfortable. I’d personally pass. That sounds like an awkward time.
She doesn’t see it as a date, and she wants you to know that by having another person there. That person also is her safety blanket incase you think it is a date and try something.
I would cancel man.If it's the 1st date she just probably scared to come alone
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Basically she’s the buffer she’s the protector so you won’t end up having sex
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